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Deleted Posts: 0	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:49:12 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2013 9:49:12 GMT -5 ((((HUGS))))
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Deleted Posts: 0	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:49:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2013 9:49:50 GMT -5 i'm so sorry. i'm sure you didn't come to this decision lightly, and i'm glad to hear that you're confident that you'll come out of it okay. we all have faith in you.
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mrlittlejeans New Member Posts: 461 Likes: 117	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:49:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mrlittlejeans on Mar 15, 2013 9:49:50 GMT -5 (hug)
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LLL Full Member Posts: 4,985 Likes: 4,815	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:11 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by LLL on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:11 GMT -5 ((hugs))
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Deleted Posts: 0	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:12 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:12 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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daisybuchannan Senior Member Posts: 6,606 Likes: 4,224	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:13 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by daisybuchannan on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:13 GMT -5 Hugs
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ElizabethBennet Senior Member Posts: 8,950 Likes: 5,502	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:15 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ElizabethBennet on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:15 GMT -5 ((hugs)) I'm sorry. I know this get's thrown around a lot, but would counseling help?
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speckledfrog Elder Posts: 23,204 Likes: 25,200	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:21 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by speckledfrog on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:21 GMT -5 ((aeg)) We got your back.
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Deleted Posts: 0	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:46 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:46 GMT -5 ((HUGS)) I'm sorry
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Saint Monica Elder Posts: 11,851 Likes: 11,208	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:53 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Saint Monica on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:53 GMT -5 ((aeg))
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juliagoulia Full Member Posts: 2,989 Likes: 1,363	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:50:54 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by juliagoulia on Mar 15, 2013 9:50:54 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you.
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julesf84 Full Member Posts: 3,239 Likes: 140	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:51:07 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by julesf84 on Mar 15, 2013 9:51:07 GMT -5 I'm sorry you're having a hard time, aeg. I agree with crackhabit. Do what's best for yourself and your kids. I lol'd at "they wanted me to skip first grade". You ARE smart!
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pinkflats Full Member Posts: 1,022 Likes: 224	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:51:28 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pinkflats on Mar 15, 2013 9:51:28 GMT -5 I'm so sorry aeg.
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Deleted Posts: 0	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:51:52 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Mar 15, 2013 9:51:52 GMT -5 ((hugs))
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melindafelinda Senior Member Oh, hello Posts: 7,123 Likes: 4,968	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:52:13 GMT -5 Jermys and sonrisa like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by melindafelinda on Mar 15, 2013 9:52:13 GMT -5 I'm sorry. This is cold but if you can hang on long enough to get your money situation worked out I'd recommend doing that before leaving.
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poppyseed Senior Member Posts: 7,905 Likes: 5,118	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:52:55 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by poppyseed on Mar 15, 2013 9:52:55 GMT -5 I'm really sorry, aeg
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Mar 15, 2013 9:49:32 GMT -5 @crackhabit said:

This is not how "your life is turning out."

It's how your marriage is turning out.

Your life is just starting. You'll have challenges, no doubt, but it's going to be temporary. I promise you, better things are to come.

Big hugs.

This.

((aeg))

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papie Elder Posts: 27,466 Likes: 31,394	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:54:09 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by papie on Mar 15, 2013 9:54:09 GMT -5 (((hugs)))
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Waffles Senior Member Posts: 5,645 Likes: 2,161	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:54:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Waffles on Mar 15, 2013 9:54:27 GMT -5 I'm sorry. I'm sure it's a hard decision to make but what needs must.
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partiallysunny Elder Posts: 12,543 Likes: 5,130	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:54:31 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by partiallysunny on Mar 15, 2013 9:54:31 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Ditto crackhabit. This is just a bump in the road.
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softspot Full Member Posts: 3,210 Likes: 709	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:54:40 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by softspot on Mar 15, 2013 9:54:40 GMT -5 I very much agree with what crack habit said. (Hugs)
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curtains Senior Member Posts: 5,633 Likes: 4,527	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:55:00 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by curtains on Mar 15, 2013 9:55:00 GMT -5 ((((aeg))))
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Mar 15, 2013 9:54:19 GMT -5 aeg511 said:

Mar 15, 2013 9:50:15 GMT -5 ElizabethBennet said:

((hugs)) I'm sorry.

I know this get's thrown around a lot, but would counseling help?

He won't. He is stubborn and thinks I'm to blame. He won't take any accountability for anything.

Thanks guys, it really means a lot to get encouraging words.

I'm sorry, it can't be easy to come to this decision.

You got this though ((hugs))

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mrsgoontz Full Member Posts: 3,087 Likes: 1,939	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:56:23 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mrsgoontz on Mar 15, 2013 9:56:23 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Big hugs - you have to do what is best for you and your kids.
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onomatopoeia Full Member Posts: 3,170 Likes: 3,084	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:56:59 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by onomatopoeia on Mar 15, 2013 9:56:59 GMT -5 I'm sorry.
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eddy Elder Posts: 24,873 Likes: 44,776	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:57:30 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by eddy on Mar 15, 2013 9:57:30 GMT -5 I am shocked aeg. Hugs to you.
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nahoku Senior Member Posts: 9,360 Likes: 7,018	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:58:13 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by nahoku on Mar 15, 2013 9:58:13 GMT -5 (((aeg)))
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((Aeg))
My mom's life started when she divorced my Dad and even she admits she regrets spending the last 5 yrs in the marriage because it only delayed her chance to be happy and we kids agree.
Better to divorce at 30 then at 31.
It'll be tough at times but you and the kids will be happier in the long run.

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Mar 15, 2013 9:56:01 GMT -5 aeg511 said:

Mar 15, 2013 9:52:13 GMT -5 melindafelinda said:

I'm sorry. This is cold but if you can hang on long enough to get your money situation worked out I'd recommend doing that before leaving.

He's leaving the house. I'm not exactly sure what to do about money without "stealing" it from our joint accounts.

Can you start taking steps towards financial independence? A job that will support you and the kids?

Big hugs.

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kellykapowski Full Member Posts: 1,100 Likes: 725	I'm going to DD this Mar 15, 2013 9:59:06 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kellykapowski on Mar 15, 2013 9:59:06 GMT -5 I'm sorry aeg. =( ((hugs))
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