Got back from Vegas yesterday with my friend. We had a good time but found out she is essentially having an emotional affair (with some making out) with a guy. She is separated from her husband. I am disappointed in her and really bummed out.
Also a 23 year old girl from my church passed away yesterday. She was diagnosed with leukemia in January. Went to the hospital on Friday and deteriorated very quickly and passed away. Its so sad. Her 2nd anniversary was just this past week. Heartbreaking. And I didn't even know her that well. But just thinking about the poor families makes me so sad.
My heart is heavy this week. It shouldn't be this way after a weekend in Vegas.
Got back from Vegas yesterday with my friend. We had a good time but found out she is essentially having an emotional affair (with some making out) with a guy. She is separated from her husband. I am disappointed in her and really bummed out.
Unless she's in counselling or something with her H and they are trying to make it work, this is not judge- worthy, IMO.
Got back from Vegas yesterday with my friend. We had a good time but found out she is essentially having an emotional affair (with some making out) with a guy. She is separated from her husband. I am disappointed in her and really bummed out.
Also a 23 year old girl from my church passed away yesterday. She was diagnosed with leukemia in January. Went to the hospital on Friday and deteriorated very quickly and passed away. Its so sad. Her 2nd anniversary was just this past week. Heartbreaking. And I didn't even know her that well. But just thinking about the poor families makes me so sad.
My heart is heavy this week. It shouldn't be this way after a weekend in Vegas.
I'm sorry about your friend from church.
But -- I don't consider spending time with someone else, or even making out a bit, while separated as "having an affair." They've separated! I feel bad for her that you're judging her like this.
I should clarify. She has been "seeing" this guy for at least a year. They were making out and professing love to each other last summer apparently. She just separated a few weeks ago. Sorry I wasn't clear.
Got back from Vegas yesterday with my friend. We had a good time but found out she is essentially having an emotional affair (with some making out) with a guy. She is separated from her husband. I am disappointed in her and really bummed out.
Unless she's in counselling or something with her H and they are trying to make it work, this is not judge- worthy, IMO.
I wasn't clear. They have been involved for over a year. She just separated from her husband in the past few weeks.
Post by ProfessorArtNerd on Jul 22, 2013 8:03:45 GMT -5
I can't for the life of me remember what I'm supposed to teach today! Something happens between Thursday afternoon and Monday morning where I lose all memory of my class. Hmmm
I'm miserable. I know worse things happen to people than having some crap stolen from your house, but I can't shake this off. I feel like crying, at any point, like we fucked up buying our house in this place and feel trapped with no place better to move. Like we failed at providing a safe home for our son.
Also I feel like the police are barely doing anything, which fucking sucks because we know who it is that did this. And still nobody's taken a god damn fingerprint or made an arrest. what the mother fucking fuck
ETA: and its my birthday today. which is only depressing me even more.
I'm miserable. I know worse things happen to people than having some crap stolen from your house, but I can't shake this off. I feel like crying, at any point, like we fucked up buying our house in this place and feel trapped with no place better to move. Like we failed at providing a safe home for our son.
Also I feel like the police are barely doing anything, which fucking sucks because we know who it is that did this. And still nobody's taken a god damn fingerprint or made an arrest. what the mother fucking fuck
ETA: and its my birthday today. which is only depressing me even more.
You have every right to feel the way you do.
Do something nice for yourself today. happy birthday!
Post by lightbulbsun on Jul 22, 2013 8:06:14 GMT -5
I've been trying to lose weight by counting calories and working out, but I have no energy. I have lost a little bit of weight so far, and I know it's supposed to be slow-going, but I'm frustrated. And I hate how I look. I didn't think I looked too bad yesterday before I went out, but then someone posted a picture of me on FB and I want to cry because I look so huge.
Also, my grandma is causing more drama about the house. I told her our timeline for getting it on the market, and now it seems like she's doing everything she can to draw the process out.
So last week Leo's DCP was closed on Thursday because she had a stomach virus. We kept Leo home on Friday too to avoid germs. This morning she obvious is much better, but everyone in her family had it over the weekend, other families at our daycare had it, and apparently everyone in our damn city had the virus.
UGH I thought we were in the clear. I hate being paranoid about stomach yuck. I could care less if colds or respitory stuff is going around. But the threat of gastro illness has me rocking in the corner.
I'm miserable. I know worse things happen to people than having some crap stolen from your house, but I can't shake this off. I feel like crying, at any point, like we fucked up buying our house in this place and feel trapped with no place better to move. Like we failed at providing a safe home for our son.
Also I feel like the police are barely doing anything, which fucking sucks because we know who it is that did this. And still nobody's taken a god damn fingerprint or made an arrest. what the mother fucking fuck
ETA: and its my birthday today. which is only depressing me even more.
Wait, you know, know this person, or know his license plate number or what?
Happy birthday. I hope you are able to enjoy it at least a little bit.
I'm miserable. I know worse things happen to people than having some crap stolen from your house, but I can't shake this off. I feel like crying, at any point, like we fucked up buying our house in this place and feel trapped with no place better to move. Like we failed at providing a safe home for our son.
Also I feel like the police are barely doing anything, which fucking sucks because we know who it is that did this. And still nobody's taken a god damn fingerprint or made an arrest. what the mother fucking fuck
ETA: and its my birthday today. which is only depressing me even more.
Wait, you know, know this person, or know his license plate number or what?
Happy birthday. I hope you are able to enjoy it at least a little bit.
Our neighbor got a plate number. The guy lives a couple towns away, has a long rap sheet for similar items, the detective talked to his wife and said she wasn't surprised. She gave permission to search the car but they found nothing. The cop says they don't have enough for an arrest. But again, nobody's taken fingerprints yet? What am I missing that my law & order education hasn't provided?
I got to work a few minutes early, and NONE of the early-risers were here. Lights off, a/c not turned back down, etc. I almost turned around to play dumb and go back home.
Despite my back bothering me, DH and I had a nice quiet weekend togther. Which made me realize... I need a new hobby or crafty thing to do. Now that we rent, I no longer spend my extra time on house projects. What the heck did I used to do with my free time?
missusbee (did i get that right?), i don't think there's anything wrong with being as upset as you are, just a few days after. your home is supposed to be your sanctuary. while i'm sure you're upset about the stuff, i'm betting the emotional impact here is more about the invasion than the material possessions. that just takes a longer.
ETA: apparently i was allergic to pink until L was 3 months old. almost everything i bought in newborn size and 0-3 is white, orange, brown, blue, green, or yellow, as are 99% of the blankets/towels/burp cloths/socks. so i can use it all again. for the 3-6 stuff, it's about half and half. i even have some stuff in 6-12 and 12-18 that's gender neutral or i actually bought in the boys section. so, given the few things i bought during my my "omigah it's a boy!" gap and tea collection splurges, we're looking at probably spring 2014 before i will "have" to buy anything else. SCORE.
DH and I got in a huge fight yesterday. He threw out the D card. He apologized and said he felt backed into a corner. The fight was about me doing everything and that he and SDs need to pick up after themselves and HE threw out the D card. I lost respect for him, I'm still angry and I don't know how to repair this. To counseling we go I suppose.
I'm miserable. I know worse things happen to people than having some crap stolen from your house, but I can't shake this off.
ETA: and its my birthday today. which is only depressing me even more.
It's entirely normal to feel that way, it's a violating thing to have your home invaded and your property stolen. I am sorry to hear the witness report and license plate details were not enough for a warrant to arrest him, WTAF?
Happy birthday, though, hope you can enjoy some part of today!
I am SO HAPPY that Marte was given her passport back and that Dubai dropped all charges against her. The laws of Dubai hurt my brain. The trumped up charges against her - and many other women over the years - are so offensive, I can't even deal. She was RAPED and by reporting it, charged with having sex outside of her marriage!! Barbaric.
:strikes Dubai off list of places to see before I die:
((@missusbee)) I have only had car break-ins and that felt violating enough; I can only imagine how terrible it is to have someone in your home. Hope the guy is arrested soon. and ETA: Happy birthday! Go do something fun tonight!
We saw my friend's brother on Friday night and I feel so bad for him. He had called the sheriff's dept that day to see if there was any news as far as the accident reconstruction or autopsy results that they could share and nothing yet. It's been a month. He was hoping to be able to share some info with us. But from what he's pieced together, he thinks it was just a drunk driving accident. It makes me so sad and mad. Blah.
I have a desperately needed girls' weekend this weekend. Which means it's going to be a long, slow work week.
H and I are off on our lazy anniversary vacation. We're staying Dow town. Drinking. Sex. Good food. Ahhh. Two days of no work and three for him. This is awesome.