How long have you and your SO been together

[pantsparty]

Um...9ish years and 2-3 times a week? Sometimes less depending on what's going on in our lives, travel schedule, etc.

[weelass24]

Been together 6 years, have 2 kids and get it on 1-2 times a week. Even while I was pregnant.

[pedanticwench]

Almost 10 years now.
A week? Average is about once. Month? Maybe 3-5x.

[EmilieMadison]

Almost 12 years. 
It varies so much; some weeks it's 5 times, then nothing for a week, then twice, then once in the next week. I dont know, we probably average 2-3x/week at this point I guess. 

[underwaterrhymes]

8 years together and sex about 2 times a week right now.

ETA - pre-baby it was a lot more frequent. Once K is in his own room, I think it will get a lot easier.

[CityLights]

Together 9 years and we have sex once a week on average.

[mandy0810]

13 years and we have sex about 3-4x's a week.

[mrsgoontz]

Together for 13 years, married for 3.5 and we do the dirty probably 2-3xs a week. Sometimes more but rarely less.

[Marle]

I'll respond to balance the scale but I'm not bragging.

We've been together a total of 12 years. Before having a kid we ha sex 7+ times a week. After having a kid we have sex about 3-5 times a week. DH has a very high libido and I am not good at saying no.

[Deleted]

12 years. 

Typically, 1 or 2 times a week.

[agnes]

11 years, about every other day

[muppetinma]

We've been together for twelve years. We probably have sex 3-4 times a week on average. Some weeks we don't get it on, and other weeks we make up for it.

[TrickyBob]

4.5 years, 1 to 2 times a week. Now that we are trying to procreate, I'm trying to make it a point of 3 or 4 times a week. However, it still ends up being 1 to 3 times a week.

[junebug]

We've been together about 9 years. Before baby, 3-4 times a week. Now we are about once every two weeks. Hopefully, it picks up again soon lol.

[leahmel]

1.5 years and about 3x a week, less if my schedule is too crazy because I just want to sleep, more if it's a stress free and relaxed week.

[8675309]

I'm with you Scotty. Not enough....and am too embarrassed to guestimate. But thanks everyone in this thread for making me want to see a sex therapist.

I would blame it on our 2 young toddlers but they sleep awesome. I would blame it on my weight but I've lost 40 lbs. Not sure what the deal is.



PS: Been together 11 years, married 8.

[Deleted]

About a year or two. We get it on maybe twice a month, max. Sex is complicated.

[ElizabethBennet]

We've been together almost 6.5 years. I can't remember the last time we had sex. Feel bad for my husband.

When we first got together it was almost everyday and then it just started getting less and less. AD's have completely killed my drive. I'm in the process of weaning off of them now and I'm really hoping that helps.

[wowhead]

14 years and we have sex maybe twice a month. We both have a pretty low drives so we are good with that.

[8675309]

Oct 2, 2013 17:00:17 GMT -5 @scottydeux said:

Oct 2, 2013 16:58:55 GMT -5 8675309 said:

I'm with you Scotty. Not enough....and am too embarrassed to guestimate. But thanks everyone in this thread for making me want to see a sex therapist.

I would blame it on our 2 young toddlers but they sleep awesome. I would blame it on my weight but I've lost 40 lbs. Not sure what the deal is.

Don't be embarrassed.  My guess was high, for us.  I mean a few years there, we maybe capped at eight times a year. 

Out of curiosity (because I think this matters) does your DH complain? Is it him or you or a bit of both? In our case, it's totally my fault and he would love it every day. He tries not to be an asshole about it but I know it bothers him.

[emsumm]

Together for 12 years, married for 7. 1-3 times per week. He usually initiates, but not always.

[game blouses]

8 years, and probably once a week on average. Sometimes more.

[Deleted]

7.5 years, sex 1-2 times a week.

[Deleted]

13 years, maybe 1-2 times a week.

[adamantium]

Married 8 years, it varies but I would say average is 2-3 times a week. Some weeks nothing and others almost daily, it really just depends on the week and if the kid goes to bed on time.

[Deleted]

7.5 years, sex 1-2 times a week.

[leahmel]

And he almost always initiates. He pretty much walks around humping and groping me all the time. Lol

[Gato]

12 years and about once a week.  Still getting back on track after pregnancy, colic, and breastfeeding. 

Usually, I initiate, or give him signs that I'm in the mood. 

[ElizabethBennet]

I sometimes get concerned about our lack of sex and then seeing things like this depresses me. I'm worried that the AD's aren't the cause of the no sex and that something is broken in our relationship.

[Deleted]

We've been together for 13 years (married 8) and we have sex ~ 1-2 times a week on average I'd say.