I'm so sorry bon. I agree with everyone else in that you are very much loved and cared for. And, his question back to you of, "You seem surprised?" tells me everything about what an asshole he is. You really have dodged a bullet.
I just saw this and I have so many ((((hugs)))) for you Bon. I hope you know how amazing and wonderful you are and how very much he fucked up. You deserve so much better. <3
Where does he live? I am sure we can get a ML gang that could jump him in the driveway and beat him with a socks full of frozen oranges and rolls of quarters!!
Where does he live? I am sure we can get a ML gang that could jump him in the driveway and beat him with a socks full of frozen oranges and rolls of quarters!!
Second - What a fucking piece of shit asshole motherfucker pussy ass excuse for a man. There was zero reason for him to tell you this. ZERO. He did it because he saw that you were doing good, and since his life is such a shitshow he wanted to bring you back down with him.
Well fuck him up the ass. He can live his shitty life, and you will go on to be happy, loved, and fulfilled. Because you are awesome, and he has shown his true colors here. That piece of shit.
Yep!!! So much ditto all of this!!!!! (Very well said joshlyman!)
I didnt think it could get worse. I had to go to xh's house to separate stuff and i got tge shock of a lifetime. He seeing soneone abd she is carrying his twins. I shouldnt care, but i have never felt so alone and uncares for
Dude, what a douche bag. I'm so so so sorry that you had to learn about this. That is definitely twisting the knife. I wish you were here already. We could go get a drink or 12... love you lots and if you need anything, or I can do anything to help, pm me here or on fb!
I am so sorry, but you are a kick ass lady, and he is not worth it. Rebound relationships rarely work out, and if he was willing to cheat on you, hes just as likely to cheat on her, and she is probably just as willing to cheat. My mom had my little brother in her 40s, and he just turned 19, you have plenty of time, and I read that most people are waiting till there 30s to have kids now, and even latter.
Oh bon, I am so sorry. He is a douche on a colossal scale. You deserve all the hugs in the whole world and he deserves a pile of dog shit on his front steps.
Oh, bqq, I'm so sorry. You are absolutely loved. You are such an amazing and beautiful person, inside and out. I hate that he's making you feel this way.