update pg 4 My wedding rings are missing

[speckledfrog]

Who do you think took them?

[underwaterrhymes]

Has your ex been over any time recently to get the kids? Is it possible he took them?

[5hole]

Any chance the kids were playing with them?

[flex]

Do you recall the last time you saw them?

[Marle]

Hmm I hope it's more like you got really drunk one night and decided to put them on and left them somewhere silly.

Otherwise this makes very little sense.

[themoneytree]

Could your kid have them?

[youbetcha]

I vote kid fooling around!

[hazel]

Aug 9, 2014 11:37:08 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Aug 9, 2014 11:09:18 GMT -5 Marle said:

Hmm I hope it's more like you got really drunk one night and decided to put them on and left them somewhere silly.

Otherwise this makes very little sense.

Nms. And the kids say they haven't seen them. I'm going to let the police investigate. I just can't handle being suspicious of everyone I've had in my home. It will ruin relationships if I start mentally accusing people.

Where do I buy a safe? I'm at target abs the only one I see doesn't bolt down and can be picked up and carried.

Office Max type stores have the safes that bolt down. I miss having one of those. I had one in my old house with my ex and everything felt so much more secure. They are super heavy though. I remembered it took both of us to carry it into the house.

[noodleskooze]

Aug 9, 2014 10:37:01 GMT -5 5hole said:

Any chance the kids were playing with them?

I was thinking this. I used to go and sneak my mom's jewelry to play with all the time when I was young.

[RoxMonster]

When was the last time you recall seeing them?

[Deleted]

I hope they are just misplaced and you find them soon.

[karinothing]

Do you think you could have just put them someplace odd? I have done that before. Taken them off some place I would never have taken them off before and then gone into a panic thinking I lost them.

[bugandbibs]

We bought our safe at Target. It's large and bolts down. They are in the office supply area.

We shopped around quite a bit and it was the best price on sale. Office Max/Depot, Lowes, and Home Depor all have them in stores too.

[kayakjenn]

I know people who have put their rings in jewelry cleaner and forgot all about them. Any chance you used one of those little containers of cleaner where you let them soak?

[cville]

I'm sorry .

[RoxMonster]

Well crap. I thought if you had seen them a few days ago, you could narrow down who had access to them during those few days.

Did you already talk to the police? What did they say?

[renna]

Oh, shoot! I was hoping you were going to post that they have been found!

I don't have a safe recommendation (I'm sorry) but wanted to let you know that I am so sorry that your rings aren't where they should be. How awful for you. I hope you get the perfect outcome here, somehow.

[RoxMonster]

I found this one which is fireproof and bolts to the floor, but it doesn't mention being flood-proof.

www.amazon.com/LockState-LS-50D-Hour-Fireproof-Electronic/dp/B008U6VG7W/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1407616885&sr=8-3&keywords=fireproof+safes+bolt+to+floor

I'll look some more on Amazon.

ETA: Holy hell $99 shipping! My next post is better.

[RoxMonster]

This one says it does all three: waterproof, fire-proof, bolts to floor.

www.amazon.com/First-Alert-2087F-BD-Waterproof-Combination/dp/B008ELITP0/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1407616885&sr=8-5&keywords=fireproof+safes+bolt+to+floor

ETA: 9.99 shipping

[elleblue]

Aug 9, 2014 15:43:13 GMT -5 RoxMonster said:

I found this one which is fireproof and bolts to the floor, but it doesn't mention being flood-proof.

www.amazon.com/LockState-LS-50D-Hour-Fireproof-Electronic/dp/B008U6VG7W/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1407616885&sr=8-3&keywords=fireproof+safes+bolt+to+floor

I'll look some more on Amazon.

Omg, $99 shipping? I know safes are super heavy but wow! 

[RoxMonster]

Aug 9, 2014 15:50:18 GMT -5 elleblue said:

Aug 9, 2014 15:43:13 GMT -5 RoxMonster said:

I found this one which is fireproof and bolts to the floor, but it doesn't mention being flood-proof.

www.amazon.com/LockState-LS-50D-Hour-Fireproof-Electronic/dp/B008U6VG7W/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1407616885&sr=8-3&keywords=fireproof+safes+bolt+to+floor

I'll look some more on Amazon.

Omg, $99 shipping? I know safes are super heavy but wow! 

Shit! I didn't even look at the shipping. Oops. That is crazy.

[RoxMonster]

So the second one I linked you that meets all three criteria is only 9.99 shipping! Whew!

[elleblue]

Aug 9, 2014 15:53:47 GMT -5 RoxMonster said:

So the second one I linked you that meets all three criteria is only 9.99 shipping! Whew!

Yeah much more reasonable. I know I'm spoiled because I'm used to free shipping on things, but I really hate paying for shipping. And being asked to pay almost 50% in shipping is a huge shock! 

[Pixiehollow]

Umm I hate to say this but your signals got crossed and your brother came by when you weren't home, right? and you found it where he suggested you look? Sounds fishy. I would suspect him at this point. My first thought was he planted the ring and the crossed signals was intentional so he would have a chance to do so. Maybe he sold the wedding band already? Sorry!
I hate to even float that idea. Ugh!

Eta: I had a bunch of jewelry go missing (over $4000) and about $500 cash right before my roomier left for a cruise. She acted all shady ab it and moved out and never spoke to me again.i never suspected her bc we were close, but over the years I came to that conclusion. We both now live a street away from each other and our children are friends. Awkward.

[karmasabiotch]

I bought a safe at Staples.

[tulip]

Lowes/ Home Depot have them, we just looked last weekend at the stores in Tampa.

[shopgirl07]

Oh gosh, I'm really sorry.

[Pixiehollow]

Ugh! I'm so sorry to hear that. When I floated that idea it made me upset thinking of being in your shoes.

[flex]

I think a safe would be a really good idea.

[curtains]

Crap. I am sorry stpete. I was hoping it was just a coincidence. Uhg