I'm giving blood today merely because I get a gift certificate to wood fired pizza when I'm done.
I'm a "sex once a day" gal but I cannot see bf that often at all because of P. So when I get an opportunity I go all in. Like 3 times over 12 hours and then I get sore. I'm gearing up for Saturday night because my roommate is watching P and we're going to his xmas party so it'll be an over nighter.
I feel guilty because my roommate watches P more than I watch her son. So I try to do things to "even the score" like let her sleep in on the weekends while I entertain the boys, cook dinner, buy her wine if she's watching him for me etc. I'm probably over the top but I don't want her to think I'm taking advantage.
After seeing @fucksticklegit's pinterest post yesterday, I created my own secret board with engagement rings. I don't even know if I even WANT to get married again.
My ex will text me like, once every 6 months or so to say hi and ask how I'm doing. I usually ignore and know I should block him. But I don't because I find it mildly amusing that he still thinks about me and probably realized how much he effed up.
I blew up at a coworker yesterday. He had insisted that I do something that was really another person's responsibility, and it kept me at the office until 10:30p the night before. I was exhausted and annoyed, and when it turned out I had to redo it all (because the person who was supposed to be doing it had changed something else), I just completely exploded. I was shouting and even threw something across the room. It was not a good moment.
Also, I haven't removed any body hair below my waist in a month. LDR + winter weather makes me terribly lazy about grooming!
After seeing @fucksticklegit's pinterest post yesterday, I created my own secret board with engagement rings. I don't even know if I even WANT to get married again.
My gf came over last night for wine. She's really hoping her bf of almost 3 years will propose like soon!!! She's ready. But she hasn't even created her own secret Pinterest engagement ring board. So I logged onto my Pinterest and made her browse.
After seeing @fucksticklegit's pinterest post yesterday, I created my own secret board with engagement rings. I don't even know if I even WANT to get married again.
Now the only ads I'm getting on here are for jewelers. Ha
After seeing @fucksticklegit's pinterest post yesterday, I created my own secret board with engagement rings. I don't even know if I even WANT to get married again.
My SO doesn't believe in getting remarried, but I keep a secret list of dresses on The Knot just because they're pretty. I wish they came in other colors, because I would pick one and find an excuse to wear it.
After seeing @fucksticklegit's pinterest post yesterday, I created my own secret board with engagement rings. I don't even know if I even WANT to get married again.
Now the only ads I'm getting on here are for jewelers. Ha
Yep, FB is showing me nothing but engagement ring ads. I hope NG doesn't ever see that. There would be a human shaped hole through the wall! Lol, not really, but still.
The thought of putting together an engagement ring board seems so weird to me.
I cannot concentrate at work at all. My mom called to tell me to go out on my date tonight because my grandma would want me to and "She's still breathing and snoring--go and have fun" but I really don't want to go. What kind of person goes on a date when they're waiting for word to book a funeral flight? I feel like that's really weird. Imagine getting a call that grandma died during the date-sorry I've got to go (while bawling) because my grandma died. Oh yeah I expected this but wanted free sushi--byeee!
Speaking of FB, someone from SO showed up in my "people you may know" and I was briefly tempted to send a friend request, but she would have no idea whoTF I am.
After seeing @fucksticklegit's pinterest post yesterday, I created my own secret board with engagement rings. I don't even know if I even WANT to get married again.
Haha, this is me. I don't know that I want to get married ever but I Have the most amazing pinterest wedding board.
Post by jojoandleo on Dec 12, 2014 11:51:54 GMT -5
I'm at a CLE. Paying SOOOOO much attention. Buuuut, no one else is paying attention either, soooo, whatever. Lecturer is trying to make people pay attention to no avail. We are all adults, dude. You aren't gradung us. You have no power.
Also if I never hear the term "reverse corporate piercing the veil" in relation to Hobby Lobby again, I will die happy. (Glad I don't do corporate law!)
Whats so weird about it? I save styles I like and my best friend has access to it so when the day comes, dude can ask her what I like and what my size is and there's a whole board full of ideas for him to take into consideration. Its not a cut and dried "YOU MUST PICK FROM THESE", but my tastes are unconventional and if he's at a loss for ideas, its there to help.
Whats so weird about it? I save styles I like and my best friend has access to it so when the day comes, dude can ask her what I like and what my size is and there's a whole board full of ideas for him to take into consideration. Its not a cut and dried "YOU MUST PICK FROM THESE", but my tastes are unconventional and if he's at a loss for ideas, its there to help.
I think it's strange for people who aren't in committed relationships to plan weddings or pick out rings. If you want a ring, buy one for yourself. This could be partially from my own experience being 25 and getting a huge ring and being obsessed with the PPD instead of the relationship. It could also be the fact that I had a huge gorgeous ring and an asshole husband. The beauty of engagement rings is lost on me. I just can't get it up for jewelry or shiny things after being blinded by them in the past.
But I also think it's weird for women to plan nurseries or name their kids before they're actively having them too and I don't have any issues with children. I prefer to plan for things as they occur not for things that I want, hoping they will.
For the first time in a long time last night I was sad I was single. It was like the weirdest thing and feel like such loser for it. I was at work late and there was this huge windstorm. One of the girls was on her phone to her boyfriend as she was walking out and was like "that sounds great. I'll meet you out front." Her BF is really nice and I was like I bet he has dinner and wine for her too. And then I was so sad that no one was there to pick me up or pour me a glass of wine. Then I beat myself up for not being 100 percent okay with being totally single. Gah! I hate when my cold shell of heart melts a little bit.
Having a kid really does take spontaneity out of one's sex life. My parents watch DD on Fridays... so loud, fun sex is an expectation and I do look forward to it, but sometimes I am tired and/or have lost my gusto before DH gets home so I warm myself up by watching porn.
My sex drive peaks in the early afternoon, but takes a nose dove around 5pm. Once I get started it is always great though.
Speaking of FB, someone from SO showed up in my "people you may know" and I was briefly tempted to send a friend request, but she would have no idea whoTF I am.
If it was me, feel free to send over a request and just put a little note with your screen name (that goes for anyone on here)
I think I posted my flameful yesterday re: Vegas....I am judging myself a little, lol. I'll add a little extra flameful-ness to the saga.
So this girl FB stalked me, and I felt like, whoa, invasion of privacy! My FB is locked down, so you have to be my friend to see anything more than my profile pic, but chick wasn't content with that, so she swiped Vegas' phone to look at my profile through his account :/
So the other day, a friend at work basically goaded me into find this girl. So after quite a bit of sleuthing, I found her...so I basically did the same thing that she did. I am a crazy person. LOL.
jigsy I would probably have done the same thing too. Honestly the more you reveal about Vegas, the more I think he's totally getting off on two girls "fighting" for him. I mean he's telling you stuff like she swiped his phone to look at your facebook profile? IMO he's way too much drama for a casual fling. All of these conversations sound exhausting for something that should be easy.
I do think it's weird to have Pinterest boards for future weddings or kids, when you're not in a relationship even. But- it's one of those things that I chalk up to everyone does things differently and meh, it doesn't hurt anyone.
I totally have boards for fantasy homes, vacations and wardrobes so it's probably not that much different. People are probably like "bitch please with your $4000 jacket. We all know you shop at Banana."
Speaking of FB, someone from SO showed up in my "people you may know" and I was briefly tempted to send a friend request, but she would have no idea whoTF I am.
If it was me, feel free to send over a request and just put a little note with your screen name (that goes for anyone on here)
I think I posted my flameful yesterday re: Vegas....I am judging myself a little, lol. I'll add a little extra flameful-ness to the saga.
So this girl FB stalked me, and I felt like, whoa, invasion of privacy! My FB is locked down, so you have to be my friend to see anything more than my profile pic, but chick wasn't content with that, so she swiped Vegas' phone to look at my profile through his account :/
So the other day, a friend at work basically goaded me into find this girl. So after quite a bit of sleuthing, I found her...so I basically did the same thing that she did. I am a crazy person. LOL.
He's telling you all this? Homeboy is coming off more douchey each post. He reminds me of this guy I casually dated who dated other girls and would bring them ups in an attempt to make me jealous. Not because he would be monogamous with me, but because he liked girls WANTING him to be monogamous/getting jealous. I dated him way longer than I should have. When it ended, I cut off all contact and felt so free!
Post by jojoandleo on Dec 12, 2014 12:25:55 GMT -5
I don't pinterest, buuuuut I seriously did have a notebook of magazine cut outs for my future "perfect" life. Celebrity husband, huge house, fake dog, wedding shit, home decor. It was just fun. It's fun to fantasize.
jigsy I would probably have done the same thing too. Honestly the more you reveal about Vegas, the more I think he's totally getting off on two girls "fighting" for him. I mean he's telling you stuff like she swiped his phone to look at your facebook profile? IMO he's way too much drama for a casual fling. All of these conversations sound exhausting for something that should be easy.
Well, he didn't give me that information freely. As he was telling me about how this happened (she saw that he liked some of my pictures) he mentioned that led her to look at my facebook and she saw him in one of my pictures (he wasn't tagged or anything so it wasn't on his page). It took a second, but then I was like, wait, hold up...how was she looking at my FB page...and thus came out that she had taken his phone.
But yeah, it has added a bit of drama that I don't care for. I don't know that we can get back to the easy fun thing we had, but we will see.
?? I don't really care, it's not like people are selling me their Pinterest boards. I think it's weird but if that's your thing, go for it. Not sure it needs a rude response after you asked and I answered your question. Shrug.