jojoandleo I totally agree with you! I'm pretty anti beard myself. A few days scruff I like but any more and not into it. Also I have an irrational attraction to the guy in your second gif. Like he's my favorite part of workaholics.
jojoandleo I totally agree with you! I'm pretty anti beard myself. A few days scruff I like but any more and not into it. Also I have an irrational attraction to the guy in your second gif. Like he's my favorite part of workaholics.
SCRUFF, is good. See above, Adam Levine. Beards? NO! I have two guys I "dated" (fucked) who were SO FUCK.ING Hott. Yes, two Ts hot. Like, my vagina orgasmed just being near them. Okay, they weren't that hot, but they were both guys I was desperate to sleep with I was so attracted to them. They both have beards now and I am just like...
jojoandleo I totally agree with you! I'm pretty anti beard myself. A few days scruff I like but any more and not into it. Also I have an irrational attraction to the guy in your second gif. Like he's my favorite part of workaholics.
SCRUFF, is good. See above, Adam Levine. Beards? NO! I have two guys I "dated" (fucked) who were SO FUCK.ING Hott. Yes, two Ts hot. Like, my vagina orgasmed just being near them. Okay, they weren't that hot, but they were both guys I was desperate to sleep with I was so attracted to them. They both have beards now and I am just like...
Post by Emerald1486 on Dec 12, 2014 17:30:20 GMT -5
In general not a fan of beards. Though there are some that can wear them well (one of my friends is like that. Saw a pic of him without it and I was "don't you lose that beard again!").
I am pretty particular about beards, I feel like they really only look super good on dark haired guys, because then they don't need to grow in a full beard for it to look filled in...if that makes sense.
Post by 1confused1 on Dec 12, 2014 17:52:06 GMT -5
Lol @bk
M and I have been on and off for about a year. I really like him, we get along great and the sex is unreal. But he seems to have a hard time with putting effort into the relationship.
Yeah probably, because some rando I don't know intimated I was weird and all I wanted was a PPD several times.
For someone who said she wasn't offended you seem to have taken this really seriously. I said I think it's weird. I do. I also think a lot of other things are weird. You asked why and I explained. It wasn't about you, it was in general, as you weren't the only one who posted that she does this. If someone asks a question, I answer, which is what I did, explaining that I can't get it up for that stuff and why based on MY past and wanting my PPD.
And I'm not some rando, I'm a mod on this board who has been active for 3 years. But thanks for stopping by and saying that I called you weird and wanted a PPD, which I didn't do. I'm also having a shit day dealing with my dying grandmother so pardon me for not coming back to pat your hair and care about your lyfe. Coming back on here to see that you've blown this up to life-sized proportions and insulted me now is just the icing on the cake. It's not all about you. For real, I could barely care what the fuck you do on Pinterest.
I want to see you are man enough that you have the ABILITY to grow facial hair, without actually having any.
Is anyone else getting hot?
LOL. XH could not grow a beard. He could grow a chin strap...it was sad.
Apparently I have a thing for men who can't grow a beard, because neither XH or my current BF can. BF can grow stubble pretty quickly, but it's patchy. He would look ridiculous if he let it grow in completely. I prefer cleanshaven or a bit stubbly anyway, so it works for me!
M and I have been on and off for about a year. I really like him, we get along great and the sex is unreal. But he seems to have a hard time with putting effort into the relationship.
We're just talking right now, I have my guard up.
Girlll.... why? Don't let sex cloud your judgement. This sounds terribly unhealthy.
I know. I'm really not considering a relationship with him but I wouldn't mind a friendship.
I decided to let X take C for an overnight tonight.
I'm going out and getting tipsy... Maybe more ... With my best friend.
I wish nothing but the best for you, but this is likely a terrible idea. And your friend would not be a good friend to get physical with you so quickly in your separation.
I'm so dumb, I totally read this as getting more than tipsy as in drunk and I was like this isn't a terrible idea, this is a fantastic idea! Then I was like oh wait...if in fact the best friend is a sexay interest than no. Bad idea.
I'm so dumb, I totally read this as getting more than tipsy as in drunk and I was like this isn't a terrible idea, this is a fantastic idea! Then I was like oh wait...if in fact the best friend is a sexay interest than no. Bad idea.
LOL! Ok. If it's just tipsy to drunk - go for it, girl. But ,my mind is always on the sex. (jigsy SEX!! is the answer to everything) so if I read it wrong - forgive me. It's just a flameful thread and getting drunk is so not flameful to me. haha.
I'M DRUNK RIGHT NOW (at work!) no I'm not, maybe I am...
@fucksticklegit I honestly admire your positive outlook. I dream about a wedding in my head, but would never even dare to consider making anything concrete not for fear of being viewed as "silly", but because it would just make me way too sad to look at because I feel like love in my life is a totally improbably and laughable conclusion. I've just totally given up.
Congrats on the relationship with someone who started as a friend! From what I've seen in my life those have turned out to be some of the best relationships I've seen.
The best thing I did this past year was to "give up". I did the exact opposite of what most people will advise; I focused on others instead of myself. I spent my time volunteering. Barring one instance of oral, I was celibate. I went on a handful of dates then realized it wasn't for me. I filled my time with other things that didn't let me throw an ongoing pity party for myself.
And in that time that I was busy with other things, he noticed and began to pursue me. And here we are.
I love this, and it's pretty much what I'm doing. I've had an amazing year of travelling and having a great time reconnecting with family and friends. I was in a relationship for the last 12 years, and I just turned 34. I'm still not looking to date, and there are no pity parties to be had. I really need to volunteer, thanks for the reminder.
Post by starryfish on Dec 12, 2014 21:56:30 GMT -5
I used to be anti facial hair but love my BF's beard. It's not long at all (hairs maybe 1/3"?) so it's more like a scruff beard. He has to shave it every Monday for work and then grows it out thurs-sun
He looks 5-10 years younger without it, I feel like I'm robbing the cradle when he's freshly shaved
He looks 5-10 years younger without it, I feel like I'm robbing the cradle when he's freshly shaved
B is 27, but he could easily pass for someone graduated HS when he is clean shaven.
My sort of weird confession is that I really hate warm white lights. I only like cool white lights, I think the warm ones look yellow and kind of dirty. I keep seeing them hung up on houses with Christmas getting closer, and I am getting irrationally annoyed by those people that mix them.
I decided to let X take C for an overnight tonight.
I'm going out and getting tipsy... Maybe more ... With my best friend.
I wish nothing but the best for you, but this is likely a terrible idea. And your friend would not be a good friend to get physical with you so quickly in your separation.
Whoa. This is my best friend since we were 5. By maybe more I meant more than tipsy.
I wish nothing but the best for you, but this is likely a terrible idea. And your friend would not be a good friend to get physical with you so quickly in your separation.
Whoa. This is my best friend since we were 5. By maybe more I meant more than tipsy.
LOL! It IS the flamefuls post! Getting drunk is not flameful. Getting it on with your bestie is.
I was thinking sending C to spend the night with X was flameful...
If you're concerned for the safety of your child, I would flame you. If you feel that X will be responsible and care for your kid, not flameful. I assumed if you're sending him there you felt the latter.
Yea I mean it's his dad right? Provided he's responsible he SHOULD be spending time with C.
If you're concerned for the safety of your child, I would flame you. If you feel that X will be responsible and care for your kid, not flameful. I assumed if you're sending him there you felt the latter.
Yea I mean it's his dad right? Provided he's responsible he SHOULD be spending time with C.
I know. He is a great dad. This was the first over night and only the second time I let C ride with him since I discovered the drug abuse. I do feel like he's clean. He and I had a long discussion Thursday night about his sobriety and C. I guess I just worry who will judge that I'm letting C go spend time with an addict.
Yea I mean it's his dad right? Provided he's responsible he SHOULD be spending time with C.
I know. He is a great dad. This was the first over night and only the second time I let C ride with him since I discovered the drug abuse. I do feel like he's clean. He and I had a long discussion Thursday night about his sobriety and C. I guess I just worry who will judge that I'm letting C go spend time with an addict.
I'm pretty sure my xh is an addict but the court doesn't so he still has visitation.