Post by compassrose on Dec 22, 2014 16:26:21 GMT -5
((hugs))
You are a lovely person. He is not a person-- he is lower than pondscum (the really nasty kind that makes neurotoxins). Focus on healing yourself like you would after exposure to any toxin, but please don't ever confuse his toxic vitriol with any reflection on you.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I'm sorry you're hurting but you are 1000% better off without that scumbag in your life. And congrats on losing 40 pounds, that's an amazing accomplishment!
This just made me cry. Probably because my cheating ex husband once answered the question. "are you ever going to tell me you love me again" with the answer "are you ever going to lose weight?"
It took awhile but I now know that even alone I am a billion times happier than with that asshole.
Let's sing some Meghan trainor: "every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top !"
And I hope he gets herpes from the next chick he bangs.
My ex-boyfriend once told me he hoped I didn't go and get all fat on him. One of the many things he said. Definitely made me stronger after I finally broke it off and eventually made me realize I deserved better than that and what I did deserve.
I'm so sorry for both you and OP. Truly disgusting people. And Messy - congrats on the weight. Huge accomplishment!
What a fucking piece of shit asshole. What kind of cruel, hateful person could even think something like this, much less do it and then say it out loud?
You are an amazing, wonderful person who deserves someone so much better than any of these assholes could ever hope to be.
You were never an experiment, I promise. He clearly has massive issues (Including, significantly, his erectile problems) and is just saying whatever he can to hurt you to compensate for his short comings.
His behaviour is the issue, you are not. He knows your weight is your sore spot, so he went for an easy target. You are not fat. You were never a project.
This hurts now and I know it'll take you a while to believe this. But it's true. You are not fat, you were together for seven months and your body and mind kept him interested. He introduced you to his Mom FFS, again, hardly the actions of someone stringing you along for a joke.
Stay strong sweetheart. You will get through this and there are bigger and better adventures waiting for you when you are ready.
You were never an experiment, I promise. He clearly has massive issues (Including, significantly, his erectile problems) and is just saying whatever he can to hurt you to compensate for his short comings.
Sign me up for the naughty list. I totally laughed at short comings.
HOLY SHIT. I am seeing red for you. You really deserve so much better- there is something so wrong with a person that would do this (and then say it!) that I know it hurts now, but wow, you dodged a bullet. Congratulations on your weight loss!