Rage.

[sallywalker]

H went out for happy hour with his friends. I came home and got in my pjs and opened a bottle of wine. He called right as I sat down and said "you might be mad at me". He fucking invited overnight guests for tonight and Saturday night. They will be here in like an hour.

I am so fucking pissed. I love our friends, I really do but I was so looking forward to relaxing this weekend.

H said that he just was making conversation and really didn't think they would come.

[eb777888]

Ummmmm....yeah. I'm on your side. Sorry, I can't take my bra off and drink copious amounts of wine and watch bad television with guests over. Fuck.That.

[LeggsBenedict]

lol. my h would never. he values his life.

[sallywalker]

May 22, 2015 19:23:12 GMT -5 Que? said:

Like, they live in town and they're sleeping over for two nights?

No they live a couple of hours away. His friend called him while he was at happy hour to catch up.

[sallywalker]

May 22, 2015 19:23:23 GMT -5 eb777888 said:

Ummmmm....yeah. I'm on your side. Sorry, I can't take my bra off and drink copious amounts of wine and watch bad television with guests over. Fuck.That.

This was my plan!

[underwaterrhymes]

Why do I feel like this isn't the first time he has done this? I'm having déjà vu.

[circa1978]

Oh, hell no.

[cabbagecabbage]

Reply: "You might be mad at me too, honey. I just checked into the Four Seasons. Have fun!"

but seriously, that suuuucks.

[sallywalker]

May 22, 2015 19:24:37 GMT -5 underwaterrhymes said:

Why do I feel like this isn't the fist time he has done this? I'm having déjà vu.

I can't remember him doing this before, but it wouldn't surprise me. He does. Not. Think.

[eb777888]

And for TWO fucking nights??? What?? It's a three day weekend. I would not want an extra human hanging around.

[Saint Monica]

Vacuum at 6:00 am tomorrow morning

[pittsmcgee]

[birdistheword]

I'd kill him.

[agnes]

I have no problem with getting in my jammies and watching crappy TV when guests are over.

[eb777888]

May 22, 2015 19:34:52 GMT -5 agnes said:

I have no problem with getting in my jammies and watching ceappy TV when guests are over.

But she does, and she lives there. So....

[noodle]

My H would be dead. He has learned from his previous mistakes and knows he may not invite overnight guests without getting my ok.

[LeggsBenedict]

tell them they can't come. you don't want witnesses to the murder.

[agnes]

May 22, 2015 19:37:17 GMT -5 eb777888 said:

May 22, 2015 19:34:52 GMT -5 agnes said:

I have no problem with getting in my jammies and watching ceappy TV when guests are over.

But she does, and she lives there. So....

im not saying that she should do this and like it. Just that I wouldn't change my nice comfy plans because my H was a dick.

I like the Four Seasons idea.

[curtains]

May 22, 2015 19:23:23 GMT -5 eb777888 said:

Ummmmm....yeah. I'm on your side. Sorry, I can't take my bra off and drink copious amounts of wine and watch bad television with guests over. Fuck.That.

Honestly I would love to have a host like this. Bring on the wine and comfy clothes. We don't even have to speak. Lol.

[sapphireblue]

Oh no, I would be livid. I don't deal well with overnight guests at all, it gives me anxiety. I need to mentally prepare.

This would not go over well AT ALL in my house.

[eb777888]

I think the issue is that some people are just really private people, I know I am. It's just how I am. I LOVE to host and have people over and eat and drink....then have them get the fuck out so I can take my bra off and watch TV, alone with my H. It's just how I am. Maybe Sally is like that too, IDK.

[sallywalker]

Ugh. We are fighting about it. He apologized when he got home but now doesn't understand why I am still pissed. I am going to have to act nice to him when they get here and that makes me even more pissed.

Fucking southern hospitality mindset.

[sallywalker]

May 22, 2015 19:43:15 GMT -5 eb777888 said:

I think the issue is that some people are just really private people, I know I am. It's just how I am. I LOVE to host and have people over and eat and drink....then have them get the fuck out so I can take my bra off and watch TV, alone with my H. It's just how I am. Maybe Sally is like that too, IDK.

Yes. This is how I am. I have already changed back into appropriate hosting clothes and am planning what I need to get at the grocery store tomorrow. FUCK. I'm so mad.

[cville]

He must die.

[whitemerlot]

Burn the house down.

[sparkythelawyer]

Oh I'd be in the bedroom and doing not a damn thing while he got the house ready.

[eb777888]

May 22, 2015 19:45:04 GMT -5 sallywalker said:

May 22, 2015 19:43:15 GMT -5 eb777888 said:

I think the issue is that some people are just really private people, I know I am. It's just how I am. I LOVE to host and have people over and eat and drink....then have them get the fuck out so I can take my bra off and watch TV, alone with my H. It's just how I am. Maybe Sally is like that too, IDK.

Yes. This is how I am. I have already changed back into appropriate hosting clothes and am planning what I need to get at the grocery store tomorrow. FUCK. I'm so mad.

And....this is what I would probably do, too. lol

But I don't have a TV in my bedroom. If I did, I'd totally say hi, then go to bed with my bottle of wine.

[adhdfashion]

Fuck that. I would make him fix that shit.

[sallywalker]

Oh and the wife is like 30 weeks pregnant.

[ninjabridemom]

The only people who would get away w last minute plans are close family.

I'd also not change my plans. If i came last minute i wouldn't expect anyone to change their plans either.