I was very transparent about how I got to that position, how I was getting out, and what I need from friends & family + what I was able to give in exchange. It is not something I shared here because I didn't feel it was necessary. Nor was it my target audience. And yes those who supported me during a trying time are fully supportive of me traveling to become better in my craft + career and encourage me to continue to travel to learn. Yes, I'll be attending classes while aboard and in the process of getting all required documents completed.
There you have it. And I know it won't be enough for you.
God's speed.
Do you recognize the difference between not sharing something and telling a lie? Not sharing would be avoiding mentioning it. Which, I get. I would not want to share that situation either.
But what you did is insist here that you had more clients than you could manage, which is why you were looking for a dog walking job. That is a lie and it made asking for advice so much more convoluted and a waste of everyone's time.
I have not told a lie.
I have more clients than I can manage. And I was looking for a dog walking job to replace the serving job income. Per the thread I posted, I opted to go another route to make that money instead. So, no it wasn't wasting anyone's time.
Do you recognize the difference between not sharing something and telling a lie? Not sharing would be avoiding mentioning it. Which, I get. I would not want to share that situation either.
But what you did is insist here that you had more clients than you could manage, which is why you were looking for a dog walking job. That is a lie and it made asking for advice so much more convoluted and a waste of everyone's time.
I have not told a lie.
I have more clients than I can manage. And I was looking for a dog walking job to replace the serving job income. Per the thread I posted, I opted to go another route to make that money instead. So, no it wasn't wasting anyone's time.
Unless you can't handle one client, your post about dog walking was a lie because at the SAME TIME you were posting here about having more clients than you can handle, you were posting Youtube videos begging for money because you were struggling and only had one client and were bringing in very little money. So you were either lying to us or you were lying to your real life contacts.
NO JUDGMENT about struggling with getting a business off the ground. TONS of judgment for lying.
I have more clients than I can manage. And I was looking for a dog walking job to replace the serving job income. Per the thread I posted, I opted to go another route to make that money instead. So, no it wasn't wasting anyone's time.
Unless you can't handle one client, your post about dog walking was a lie because at the SAME TIME you were posting here about having more clients than you can handle, you were posting Youtube videos begging for money because you were struggling and only had one client and were bringing in very little money. So you were either lying to us or you were lying to your real life contacts.
NO JUDGMENT about struggling with getting a business off the ground. TONS of judgment for lying.
Actually...I posted said dog walking thread 2-3 days prior to the car saga. So it was NOT the same time. And I had client projects end that month as well, so everything came to head on the final week of July; quite unexpectedly.
So again, I haven't lied. Not that it matters, no one of you believe me anyway.
ETA - I also had / have clients who haven't paid me because the project isn't finished, hasn't started, etc. Again, these are all details I haven't felt the need to share because it's no one's concern and doesn't really change anything.
You said you didn't *need* the income on July 28. I believe you posted the GFM on July 29.
That's pretty fucking unexpected, within 24 hours. lol.
OMFG. What do you want from me? I've tried to be honest and transparent. And it's still not enough.
I didn't *need* the money because I was making ends meet, it was a struggle, but it was happening. I had a payment scheduled for my car on July 31, it was taken early morning July 29th. Turns out the system deleted my car payment that I schedule via the website because the steps were already in play.
And honestly, the GFM was up for less than 2 weeks. So yes, when I say social stalking, I mean y'all social stalk me. I've combed over my social history and in order for anyone here to have come across it (save sfy who got the email because we had corresponded several years ago) you had be checking my shit on the reg.
Seriously, short of my head on a stick what do you want. What more can I share about my financial struggles? What more can I do? Because clearly, me trying to walk away is not enough. Me trying to be honest and transparent is not enough. Me saying I'm hurt and offended is not enough.
It's like you just want to pick and pick and pick until there's no one left.
A lot of people are frustrated with bliss because she lies about everything (including lying about everything).
No it goes beyond frustration. People literally wish that I would die yet they check my Twitter on the regular because apparently they have nothing going in their life.
No it goes beyond frustration. People literally wish that I would die yet they check my Twitter on the regular because apparently they have nothing going in their life.
Nobody wants you dead, come on. I'm guessing the glaring inconsistencies and lies were noted by some, and shared with others as they wondered what in the hell you were talking about here vs. social media, as the 2 scenarios were quite different.
But why does it matter?
Why do YOU need to know?
Why, why, why?
Do you feel better? Do you feel mightier? Do you feel validated that I'm just some lunatic who gets what she deserves and that's doesn't include travel, success, or happiness.
Do you feel better? Do you feel mightier? Do you feel validated that I'm just some lunatic who gets what she deserves and that's doesn't include travel, success, or happiness.
And here and social are still no IN REAL LIFE!
Because you keep insisting you never lied, no matter how many people point out that you did. Words matter, not lying to an online community that you keep coming back to matters.
No it really doesn't.
And I didn't lie. Like I've said from the very beginning, YOU GUYS didn't have all the facts. And I didn't NEED to share with a community that burns me on a stake ever fucking chance they get.
Just because I don't tell GBCN something doesn't mean it's a lie. It just means, that I didn't tell y'all because I knew I'd be crucified.
And now y'all just can sit on your fucking high horses and continue to judge me and wish me pretend luck and success. Don't for a second think I believe any of you (and the yous who have kept this thread going) wish me luck or any of your fake bullshit.
I sincerely hope that y'all feel better about yourselves. And that whatever joy you get outta dragging someone through the mud to prove, whatever it is you're trying to prove that you're better than me and that I don't deserve skittles, is worth the pain you cause someone else.
It's absolutely disgusting that grown woman can be so cruel. It's absolutely disgusting that y'all get so much joy out of seeing someone you don't like struggle. It's disgusting and saddening.
I'd wish you best of luck, but I don't mean it. Instead, I wish that you never have to go through the struggles & obstacles I've been through because you wouldn't last a fucking day in my shoes.
Yes, picking and picking -- "tell us about the GFM"...."we want to feel superior, tell us how you suck at life"....."tell us about this"
As has already been pointed out, you have had the opportunity all along to walk away, but you don't. And with that, I will. Carry on.
Ya..you'll walk away now that I've given you every fucking answer you wanted. You'll walk away with your head held high because you made someone feel like an ant. Congrad-ufucklations on being a dick.