Which site did you use? My BFF has been single for a little over a year and she's getting down. She uses Bumble and just recently OKC but at least with Bumble it was a whole lot of excitement in the beginning, but then after meeting it fizzled. Curious to hear stories and if the paid sites tend to work better?
Post by W.T.Faulkner on Jan 27, 2017 8:57:49 GMT -5
I met my husband on OKCupid, and SIL and BIL met on Match.com.
I think Match is probably a better bet for more established people, if that makes sense. I was JUST out of college when I did OKCupid, we were both broke AF, and I just wanted to go on a date when I met my husband. lol
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I've heard good things about Match. I think she might have a little hang up about having to pay, in a way like 'why should I have to pay to meet someone.'
I've heard good things about Match. I think she might have a little hang up about having to pay, in a way like 'why should I have to pay to meet someone.'
That's interesting. I feel like I'd rather use a pay site because I feel like the free sites are more for hooking up.
He's not my husband until February 9th But we met on Plenty of Fish. I did not expect to find a husband there, I was just looking to meet some new people and dip my toes back into the dating waters.
My BFF met her H on eharmony. I think you can meet on any of the sites, it probably doesn't matter all that much. Eharmony lets you start with a lot more information, but I'm not completely convinced that's necessary. I like that I got to meet my FI without a ton of lead up to the first date - it made it very low pressure.
Post by jellymankelly on Jan 27, 2017 9:41:06 GMT -5
He initially contacted me on Match. I wasn't interested, because he didn't fit my criteria at the time (He was never married and 40 - I figured he wouldn't "get" my divorce/custody situation. I was wrong.). A year and a half later, I saw him at a bar and had this overwhelming feeling of "I need to know this person," so I tried looking him up on a couple of sites. I ended up finding him and contacting him through OKC, and we got married 3 years later.
I used OKCupid but soon found out it was mostly hookups, which wasn't my intention.
I then went onto Match. The idea of paying was a slight turn off at first, but it gave me more reassurance I would meet someone financially invested in making a good, lasting connection. In the end, I met my husband and we've been together 4+ years.
We don't want to get married ever really, so not my husband but we met on OKC.
I didn't do serious online dating 2 years ago as I preferred to meet people in real life. But I enjoyed tinder and made a good guy friend from it. I did Eharmony for free to check it out and didn't like it.
I met my husband on Plenty of Fish about 7 years ago. I was about to call it quits because of all the creepers I was wading through when we met. My brother also met his wife on Plenty of Fish.
Post by imimahoney on Jan 27, 2017 10:18:58 GMT -5
My two best friends met their H's on a dating site.
They both used JDate. I also know several other Jews who used it with great success. But that obviously only works if you are a Jew, willing to convert to Judaism or just want to marry a Jew.