Yeah bitches, I'm sick of being ragged on for my crappy decisions. I moved in with him the end of July.
YEEESSSSS!!!! I knew it! Do I win a prize?!
No way. I had my suspicions way back when she supposedly moved into her cousins apartment, but I refrained from calling her out then because everyone was all puppies and rainbows over her making a good decision.
No way. I had my suspicions way back when she supposedly moved into her cousins apartment, but I refrained from calling her out then because everyone was all puppies and rainbows over her making a good decision.
Yeah bitches, I'm sick of being ragged on for my crappy decisions. I moved in with him the end of July.
YEEESSSSS!!!! I knew it! Do I win a prize?!
(*) For you today!
If you are tired of being judged for your bad decisions, QUIT MAKING THEM! JFC.
Have you looked at what I said about dog start up costs ALONE? Are you still going to take in a puppy I bet you give away when things go south with J/you can't afford to eat again?
Are you in therapy? Are you actually making progress on your mountain of issues? THAT IS WHERE ANY EXTRA MONEY NEEDS TO GO NOT A DOG!
No way. I had my suspicions way back when she supposedly moved into her cousins apartment, but I refrained from calling her out then because everyone was all puppies and rainbows over her making a good decision.
Yes, but I actually voiced my doubt today....
No puppies and rainbows for this bitch!
You know when I was doubting her and everyone was supportive, I thought maybe I was just turning into a cynical old bitch. Turns out, I've gotten better at detecting b.s. and lies when things don't add up!!!
Post by dakotadangerdog on Sept 19, 2012 10:13:17 GMT -5
Wah wah wah wahhhhhh I'm sick of everyone pointing out that my shitty decisions are shitty!!!!!
Why would you even bring up moving in with J after you already did, when you KNOW that we are going to give you shit for it?? What's the fuckin point? Why not just keep on lying about it?
Yeah bitches, I'm sick of being ragged on for my crappy decisions. I moved in with him the end of July.
Oh and for the record, he is WELL aware of my emotional affair with work dude. I was honest as I normally am in every relationship.
I'm calling bullshit on this too. Honesty apparently is not your strong suit.
Seriously, why should we believe anything you say?
AND
Don't you think it's kind of FUCKED UP that you did all that shit and he just doesn't care??? He's glad that he now has something he can hold over you.
Why the hell do you bother posting anything at all here when you just lie about everything in your life? What's the point??
Because she wants to get patted on the head and told she is doing a stellar job with her life.
Luibot--if you don't want to get ragged on either 1) make better decisions or 2) DON'T ASK FOR ADVICE OR TALK ABOUT IT!
You are so right. God she needs some therapy if she needs to be patted on her head by internet strangers! Oh and also because she's a pathological liar and has major co dependent issues. What a fucking train wreck!
I can't wait to see if one of her AE's starts posting again!
You know when I was doubting her and everyone was supportive, I thought maybe I was just turning into a cynical old bitch. Turns out, I've gotten better at detecting b.s. and lies when things don't add up!!!
I was playing nice because everyone else was, and she had been through a lot, but, yeah, I knew she had moved in with J. She hasn't made a ton of good decisions lately, a few, yes, but not the ones that really matter.
Such as staying single and working on herself (DMNDS, anyone?)
Such as not moving in with her BF out of necessity
Such as not interacting with her coworker she knew had a thing for her just further proving she has not been working on her issues with needing male attention/codependency.
Such as not making bad financial decisions (Tattoos, dog?)-she did make a good decision with getting a second job, though.
No pat on the head from me. If you had done any of the work we have been saying you need since day one, you wouldn't NEED our approval, though. If you truly loved yourself, you wouldn't be in the coworker situation.
Don't you think it's kind of FUCKED UP that you did all that shit and he just doesn't care??? He's glad that he now has something he can hold over you.
(*) (*) (*) DING DING DING! YEAH. Read my J red flags post above. 1) get her while she is down and has issues 2) don't take no for an answer 3) get her to move in with you 4) take control of her finances 5) get something to hold over her head whenever she thinks you are being an ass
You know when I was doubting her and everyone was supportive, I thought maybe I was just turning into a cynical old bitch. Turns out, I've gotten better at detecting b.s. and lies when things don't add up!!!
I was playing nice because everyone else was, and she had been through a lot, but, yeah, I knew she had moved in with J. She hasn't made a ton of good decisions lately, a few, yes, but not the ones that really matter.
Such as staying single and working on herself (DMNDS, anyone?)
Such as not moving in with her BF out of necessity
Such as not interacting with her coworker she knew had a thing for her just further proving she has not been working on her issues with needing male attention/codependency.
Such as not making bad financial decisions (Tattoos, dog?)-she did make a good decision with getting a second job, though.
No pat on the head from me. If you had done any of the work we have been saying you need since day one, you wouldn't NEED our approval, though. If you truly loved yourself, you wouldn't be in the coworker situation.
I bet you a million bucks she doesn't have a second job! I'm sure that's a story she made up to get everyone to think she's getting her shit together!
I seriously don't believe anything she's posted. She's just some nutty troll.
You know when I was doubting her and everyone was supportive, I thought maybe I was just turning into a cynical old bitch. Turns out, I've gotten better at detecting b.s. and lies when things don't add up!!!
I thought the same thing back then. I was like, wait, she keeps saying that she already looked into all possible options for housing and then all of a sudden there is a cousin with an available apartment. It was fishy but I decided not to say anything.
Why don't you take the advice given? As someone who has been flamed on the board (rightfully so), you just stop and think what you are doing wrong. Stop feeling like a victim and take life in your own hands. Are you still going to therapy?
Post by blackkitty on Sept 19, 2012 10:32:50 GMT -5
It is sad to say, but you seem beyond help. If you can't be honest why bother. Some people spend their whole lives chasing their tail. Good luck with that. I hope that you catch it. Maybe you should just try running faster. I bet that would work.
Since it's confession time - did you ever actually do inpatient therapy, Liubot?
Yes I did. And then I did outpatient for a while going to therapy 5x a week. I see a psychiatrist once a month now. Not like any one ever gave a damn about me. I was a trainwreck. Someone to laugh at. How would you feel if your life was such a joke to people?
So yeah I did get a 2nd job but I'm quitting it. It sucks. DSW sucks.
Seriously, you people judge so quickly and it is what it is. I came here for support but I'm a lying liar who lies. Who knows if half the shit these people say is true when we're all internet aliases.
Post by liubotflittyfud on Sept 19, 2012 10:41:31 GMT -5
You all have to understand that there is no written rule in life, right? That everyone needs to do what they think is best?
If you fuck a dude after a certain time frame, people will pat you on the back. If you sleep with him on the first date, it's a mess. Or is it? Who fucking cares? DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO. We are all adults, although some of you don't act it.