Since it's confession time - did you ever actually do inpatient therapy, Liubot?
Yes I did. And then I did outpatient for a while going to therapy 5x a week. I see a psychiatrist once a month now. Not like any one ever gave a damn about me. I was a trainwreck. Someone to laugh at. How would you feel if your life was such a joke to people?
So yeah I did get a 2nd job but I'm quitting it. It sucks. DSW sucks.
Seriously, you people judge so quickly and it is what it is. I came here for support but I'm a lying liar who lies. Who knows if half the shit these people say is true when we're all internet aliases.
Once a month? ^o) Honey, after going to therapy a year I still went twice a month. For the first year I went 1-2 times a week! You have way too much to work on to go once a month.
I don't laugh at you, you aggravate me and make me sad. You just refuse to fix yourself and just expect rewards from strangers.
You DID lie, so, yes, we are going to judge you for that. That's not quick to judge. You have built a reputation here for a LONG time. You sent a picture of your new BF's dick to your ex-that is coocoo for cocoa puffs. We all got past that, but we never forgot.
Get off the internet, get into therapy multiple times a week, don't leave your second job, dump J, do not get a dog, stop lying, stop seeking approval and find it for your damn self.
Since it's confession time - did you ever actually do inpatient therapy, Liubot?
Yes I did. And then I did outpatient for a while going to therapy 5x a week. I see a psychiatrist once a month now. Not like any one ever gave a damn about me. I was a trainwreck. Someone to laugh at. How would you feel if your life was such a joke to people?
So yeah I did get a 2nd job but I'm quitting it. It sucks. DSW sucks.
Seriously, you people judge so quickly and it is what it is. I came here for support but I'm a lying liar who lies. Who knows if half the shit these people say is true when we're all internet aliases.
Just because you're a lying liar who lies doesn't mean everyone else is.
You all have to understand that there is no written rule in life, right? That everyone needs to do what they think is best?
If you fuck a dude after a certain time frame, people will pat you on the back. If you sleep with him on the first date, it's a mess. Or is it? Who fucking cares? DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO. We are all adults, although some of you don't act it.
DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT.
You can do whatever you want, that doesn't make it healthy.
You get there is a difference between a stable adult having sex because she wants to and an unstable adult jumping into a relationship right after she was abused be her ex, right? Moving in together and sex, are on different planes. And yes, you can do it, but the odds of it working out and you being a happy and successful person are against you.
Yes I did. And then I did outpatient for a while going to therapy 5x a week. I see a psychiatrist once a month now. Not like any one ever gave a damn about me. I was a trainwreck. Someone to laugh at. How would you feel if your life was such a joke to people?
So yeah I did get a 2nd job but I'm quitting it. It sucks. DSW sucks.
Seriously, you people judge so quickly and it is what it is. I came here for support but I'm a lying liar who lies. Who knows if half the shit these people say is true when we're all internet aliases.
Once a month? Honey, after going to therapy a year I still went twice a month. For the first year I went 1-2 times a week! You have way too much to work on to go once a month.
I don't laugh at you, you aggravate me and make me sad. You just refuse to fix yourself and just expect rewards from strangers.
You DID lie, so, yes, we are going to judge you for that. That's not quick to judge. You have built a reputation here for a LONG time. You sent a picture of your new BF's dick to your ex-that is coocoo for cocoa puffs. We all got past that, but we never forgot.
Get off the internet, get into therapy multiple times a week, don't leave your second job, dump J, do not get a dog, stop lying, stop seeking approval and find it for your damn self.
You all have to understand that there is no written rule in life, right? That everyone needs to do what they think is best?
If you fuck a dude after a certain time frame, people will pat you on the back. If you sleep with him on the first date, it's a mess. Or is it? Who fucking cares? DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO. We are all adults, although some of you don't act it.
DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT.
You can do whatever you want, that doesn't make it healthy.
You get there is a difference between a stable adult having sex because she wants to and an unstable adult jumping into a relationship right after she was abused be her ex, right? Moving in together and sex, are on different planes. And yes, you can do it, but the odds of it working out and you being a happy and successful person are against you.
Not only that but who on this board seeks the approval of others like LFF does?!
People post about their lives because they are looking for advice, to vent or to share a funny story. No one else posts seeking that validation.
Post by blondnearby on Sept 19, 2012 13:44:38 GMT -5
In regards to my post, I didn't mean to imply you weren't all giving her correct advice. I was more trying express that she was doing the exact same thing, following the exact same pattern as before. I never meant for my words to imply or seem like I was saying any of you were giving bad advice.
All in all it doesn't really matter though, because she has probably already adopted the dog.