textbookcase, Jermys,, it is good to see, though I wish for a better reason. Thank you for the kind words. I think it is all sinking in and I ma just really sad and a bit angry and just feeling lots of things. And not telling most people yet makes me feel alone and then when we do I feel like such a failure. HOnestly, it is not almost harder when there is not one thing or action that caused a HUGE breach of trust, etc. This just feels vague.
Post by sparkythelawyer on Mar 20, 2019 16:02:29 GMT -5
Oh friend. Well fuck. Fuck fuck fuckity fuck that just fucking sucks.
I am so sorry. I do know that this is his loss and you are fabulous and you will, eventually, come out better for this and that someday this will all be in your rearview mirror.
I think it is smart to tell your kids soon because they always notice more than we think (or even want them to).
You don’t have to take off your rings right away; you’ll know when it’s time.
For our state, if we start our separation living in the same home, which we most likely will, we have to remove them. basically live independent of one another until the divorce.