Post by missbetty1 on Sept 20, 2012 12:17:06 GMT -5
The relationship I have with Mars is everything I imagined when I would write in my journal about what I wanted in relationship. He has every damn quality. It made me hella nervous at first but I decided to really chill-ax and not freak out. Although I was so peaceful and genuinely happy in my soul being single, I never gave up hope that the right guy for me existed, so now that Mars is in my life and displays the qualities and characteristics that I wanted in a partner, it is so easy for me to identify how right he is for me.
So anyway my confession: I made dinner for him for the first time this past weekend ( I may be a bad girlfriend being as though we've almost been official for 3 months and I am just now cooking for him). After dinner he asked me about my 5 year plan...I started taking about my house and career and he stopped me and looked at me and said "I meant me and you, not your house or career"... So I let my vulnerability show and I told him that if things continued to be the way it is between us, I see him as my husband" After I said it I was ready for him to look at me crazy and leave. Well, he didn't he kissed me and said he felt the same, but rather he could see that in 2 years. So I am still trying to chill-ax and just take our relationship one day at a time because even if we don't end up together for whatever reason I can honestly say the time I have spent with him have been beyond wonderful and I will always cherish it and believe that this "thing", this indescribable feeling that you can have with another human being and it just feels right on all levels is real...it is real ladies...
Post by explorer2001 on Sept 20, 2012 12:26:48 GMT -5
I seriously had to think about whether or not it was Friday when I saw this post title. I'm tired. I need more caffine.
I dinner with W last night with some of my friends. He liked them. They like him. Of course my friend said afterwards she gets my confussion about his intent. Still I'm having fun and being treated well and respected, so what if we end up friends otherwise this is just a record slow start, which isn't necessarily bad.
Post by turtle1120 on Sept 20, 2012 12:27:00 GMT -5
Or maybe the confession is that you made up "non-benefits" just to fuck with all of us? Or was the confession that you cooked for Mars for the first time after dating for almost 3 months? Or maybe there wasn't a confession and you're just remedial and don't understand what a confession entails?
I have a confession. And you can totally flame me for it. I occasionally sign-up for online dating sites and have no intention on going out on dates. It just proves to me there really isn't anything out there and I'm not missing much. Sometimes it also feels good to reject people (nicely) after all the rejection I've experienced. I'm a bad person. I usually last about 2 days before it's so depressing that these are the men out there that I just stop caring.
I have a confession. And you can totally flame me for it. I occasionally sign-up for online dating sites and have no intention on going out on dates. It just proves to me there really isn't anything out there and I'm not missing much. Sometimes it also feels good to reject people (nicely) after all the rejection I've experienced. I'm a bad person. I usually last about 2 days before it's so depressing that these are the men out there that I just stop caring.
I get lots of messages from guys that are NOT my type. But occassionaly (like maybe 1-2x a month) i actually talk/text and meet a guy who is really normal and a good guy. I think you need to stick it out longer
Post by jojoandleo on Sept 20, 2012 12:33:10 GMT -5
Wait... You are a bad girlfriend if you don't cook a man dinner after 3 months? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I don't cook. And I don't do laundry. I think it is flameful that she was all -Marriage has non-benfits and now THREE MONTHS into dating is all "I want to marry you" What are you? 12?
I'll Add a confession. I miss my dog and it has turned me into a raving bitch. Everyone and their mother is annoying me (real life, not on here, mostly) and I just want to be a recluse for a month so I don't start yelling at innocent people. But I can't. I have school, and a job, and am an adult. So, I am just going to keep on hating everyone for a while. Sound healthy?
I have a confession. And you can totally flame me for it. I occasionally sign-up for online dating sites and have no intention on going out on dates. It just proves to me there really isn't anything out there and I'm not missing much. Sometimes it also feels good to reject people (nicely) after all the rejection I've experienced. I'm a bad person. I usually last about 2 days before it's so depressing that these are the men out there that I just stop caring.
I get lots of messages from guys that are NOT my type. But occassionaly (like maybe 1-2x a month) i actually talk/text and meet a guy who is really normal and a good guy. I think you need to stick it out longer
Yea it's just that after about two days I stop caring. It literally takes any desire out of me to date. I think I don't have the dating gene.
Confession--I like running in itty bitty spandex shorts. I feel like a rockstar after my recent weight loss and I don't mind getting honked at or stared at by the gardeners
Post by missbetty1 on Sept 20, 2012 12:35:36 GMT -5
I thought it was a confession...since I was kinda scared of the whole marriage thing because of the non benefits but now I may be okay again with the idea of marriage LOL
I forgot I'm dealing with a group of people that want to stay stuck instead of being positive and bring that into their livings..you only live once why spend the majority of it miserable? I just don't get it...I've never GBCNGBCN although some you say I have. I don't think I ever will because for the 7 of you that post every waking hour there are tons more lurkers who are not like you and who probably want to get out of their rut. So for those lurkers and those on here that may want to read about positivity instead of stories of promiscuity, bad dates or just plain old complaint after compliant I'm going to stick around And possibly in 2 years I'll move to the Married Life board and reminisce about my days on Starting Over.
I'll Add a confession. I miss my dog and it has turned me into a raving bitch. Everyone and their mother is annoying me (real life, not on here, mostly) and I just want to be a recluse for a month so I don't start yelling at innocent people. But I can't. I have school, and a job, and am an adult. So, I am just going to keep on hating everyone for a while. Sound healthy?