H and I are likely getting a divorce

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Post by Bernadine on Sept 29, 2020 5:36:19 GMT -5

You guys. I’m heartbroken. He still loves me, but he’s not attracted to me anymore. We went to marriage counseling last night, but I don’t think we’ll continue. I can tell he already has one foot out the door.

I don’t even know what to say.

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tiptoetulips Full Member Posts: 3,076 Likes: 2,447	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 5:39:31 GMT -5 via mobile Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by tiptoetulips on Sept 29, 2020 5:39:31 GMT -5 I’m so sorry
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nsl Senior Member One would think NSL's silly extravagances are a threat to American democracy. Posts: 9,974 Likes: 12,005	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 5:51:07 GMT -5 Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by nsl on Sept 29, 2020 5:51:07 GMT -5 I’m so sorry this is happening to you
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suzubell Moderator Posts: 7,267 Likes: 3,966	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 6:20:36 GMT -5 via mobile Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by suzubell on Sept 29, 2020 6:20:36 GMT -5 I’m so sorry. We are here for you.
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Leeham Rimes Senior Member Posts: 9,050 Likes: 16,352	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 6:27:09 GMT -5 via mobile Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Leeham Rimes on Sept 29, 2020 6:27:09 GMT -5 I’m so sorry. Sending you all the virtual hugs and support.
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nextbigthing Senior Member Posts: 5,072 Likes: 4,197	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 6:27:38 GMT -5 via mobile Pom, Bernadine, and 5 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by nextbigthing on Sept 29, 2020 6:27:38 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Divorce is awful but so is being in a marriage that's not working. Take care of yourself.
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eddy Elder Posts: 24,859 Likes: 44,750	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 6:36:48 GMT -5 Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by eddy on Sept 29, 2020 6:36:48 GMT -5 Oh I am so sorry.
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notoriousmeg Full Member Posts: 2,692 Likes: 1,201	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 6:40:19 GMT -5 via mobile Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by notoriousmeg on Sept 29, 2020 6:40:19 GMT -5 I am so sorry.
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idoinjuly Full Member Posts: 3,719 Likes: 1,585	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 6:46:07 GMT -5 Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by idoinjuly on Sept 29, 2020 6:46:07 GMT -5 I'm so sorry Bernadine.
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onetruething Full Member Posts: 1,656 Likes: 870	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:04:27 GMT -5 Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by onetruething on Sept 29, 2020 7:04:27 GMT -5 Omg, I'm sorry. Sending you so much love!!
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onetruething Full Member Posts: 1,656 Likes: 870	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:13:40 GMT -5 msmerymac, jane6672, and 11 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by onetruething on Sept 29, 2020 7:13:40 GMT -5 Just coming back because the more I think about this the angrier I get. Your H can fuck right off. I'm so, so sorry!!!
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TR Elder Posts: 35,407 Likes: 82,213	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:31:43 GMT -5 msmerymac, Pom, and 18 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TR on Sept 29, 2020 7:31:43 GMT -5 Ugh I'm so sorry And yes, he can fuck off. Marriages and attraction have ebbs and flows and he's just done now? During this enormously stressful time? Come on, man.
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icedcoffee Elder Posts: 15,119 Likes: 23,816	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:32:42 GMT -5 via mobile Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by icedcoffee on Sept 29, 2020 7:32:42 GMT -5 Oh man I am so sorry to hear this. Sending you a lot of strength and love.
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calamity Full Member Posts: 2,980 Likes: 4,846	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:32:56 GMT -5 jane6672, Bernadine, and 3 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by calamity on Sept 29, 2020 7:32:56 GMT -5 I mean you can't make it work if you are the only one trying. I'm sorry he's being such a stupid fuck face. Be kind to yourself, and we are all here for you <3
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isabel Elder Posts: 29,878 Likes: 50,350	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:38:27 GMT -5 via Tapatalk ssmjlm, jane6672, and 16 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by isabel on Sept 29, 2020 7:38:27 GMT -5 I’m really angry for you. He’s not “attracted” to you anymore!? What does that even mean? What a bullshit reason. I’m so sorry.
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expatjen Junior Member Posts: 845 Likes: 642	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:39:10 GMT -5 via mobile Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by expatjen on Sept 29, 2020 7:39:10 GMT -5 I’m so sorry you have to deal with this take care of yourself.
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lightbulbsun Senior Member Posts: 7,336 Likes: 3,521	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:39:21 GMT -5 Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lightbulbsun on Sept 29, 2020 7:39:21 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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Sept 29, 2020 7:31:43 GMT -5 TR said:

Ugh I'm so sorry

And yes, he can fuck off. Marriages and attraction have ebbs and flows and he's just done now? During this enormously stressful time? Come on, man.

Right, I mean, I felt we were a little disconnected, but I thought it was a normal ebb and flow.

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fivechickens Senior Member Posts: 6,989 Likes: 5,541	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 7:47:43 GMT -5 via mobile Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by fivechickens on Sept 29, 2020 7:47:43 GMT -5 I am so sorry.,
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Post by pumpkin on Sept 29, 2020 7:49:41 GMT -5

I’m so sorry!
Divorce isn’t easy but you can’t be the only one in your marriage; believe me, I know.

And I’m super mad at him! Marriage isn’t easy and it has its ups and downs.

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Post by ssmjlm on Sept 29, 2020 7:51:36 GMT -5

Bernadine, I hope whatever you decide, please take some time for yourself. If couples counseling doesn't work, maybe see if the therapist will see you on your own.

It's such a difficult time for all of us, individually, as couples, and as parents. I cannot imagine a partner just giving up when this country has been in chaos for 6+ months.

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Post by maudefindlay on Sept 29, 2020 8:12:21 GMT -5

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I remember you from your previous posting on here and you are a kind poster. Your DH can kindly fuck off. Please do not let him change the way you view yourself based on his comment. He sounds cruel and very immature. He will be living a fairly lonely existence if this is how he deals with relationships.

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NewGirlNic Full Member Posts: 2,409 Likes: 1,813	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 8:14:27 GMT -5 Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by NewGirlNic on Sept 29, 2020 8:14:27 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Please be kind to yourself. Individual counseling for sure, even if you and H decide to keep going to couples counseling.
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followyourarrow Full Member Posts: 4,743 Likes: 7,720	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 8:16:18 GMT -5 Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by followyourarrow on Sept 29, 2020 8:16:18 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. What a horrible thing for your H to say. Please know that you are a kind, amazing person. We're here for you.
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cville Elder Posts: 30,633 Likes: 137,064	H and I are likely getting a divorce Sept 29, 2020 8:17:09 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Bernadine likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cville on Sept 29, 2020 8:17:09 GMT -5 I'm so angry for you. And heartbroken. You deserve your happiness and it's just awful that he won't invest in you and your relationship.
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