Post by cricketwife on Mar 27, 2024 21:20:44 GMT -5
I’m so sorry. Like, we are all “he’s an asshole” (and he is!!!!) but I’m sure this hurts. Be kind to yourself and keep rocking it. You will dodge every manipulation , every attack, every disappointment, every betrayal, every asshole-y text, and you will be so happy on the other side.
Post by melmel4854 on Mar 27, 2024 21:23:03 GMT -5
WTF. He is a complete asshole. You and DD are much better off. I am proud of you for being so strong and sticking to your guns. Let whoever he is cheating on you with have him. I don't know who would want him, but she can have him.
Ok douche, go ahead and call it mud. My husband DID have halitosis. We addressed it after I talked to you girls on here and guess what? Years later, no problem. Mofongo, you're a cunt. Eat shit. ~anonnamus
Post by Patsy Baloney on Mar 27, 2024 21:46:16 GMT -5
What a LOSER. I’m so happy for you getting out of that. But I’m sorry, too. Cheating is so incredibly hurtful, on top of everything else, and I’m so sorry he disrespected you in that way.
Well, I guess if you needed any additional reassurance you are doing the right thing, you got it. I’m sorry about this new info. You are going to have such a beautiful new life when this is all over.
Post by underwaterrhymes on Mar 28, 2024 5:08:47 GMT -5
Fucker.
I am so sorry you’re going through all of this. Please make sure you visit your gynecologist and get an STD panel. He’s a piece of shit and I think many of us would ride at dawn to shank him in the nuts.
I am so sorry you’re going through all of this. Please make sure you visit your gynecologist and get an STD panel. He’s a piece of shit and I think many of us would ride at dawn to shank him in the nuts.
Ugh I was just texting my friends group chat that now I have to go get testing done. Of course I just had my pap about 6 weeks ago and could have had it done while she was up in there anyway!
Well damn. I am so sorry, that's just adding insult to injury. In case there was any doubt about the capacity of this guy to be a piece of shit--yeah, no questions now.
I'd take nuggetbrain up on her offer to "serve him"; it would be spectacular. 😉 Agree w/ underwaterrhymes, get thee to your doc, just to put your mind at ease. And hell yes to summoning the cavalry; I'm awake and it's dawn, so LFG.
As I say to my friends IRL when they are going through tough times: Head up, eyes clear, one foot in front of the other. We can do hard things.
I’m so sorry. I was told that having evidence of cheating could be helpful in the case in that we could put that person on the witness list and “make them both uncomfortable” which could help with settlement.
I’m so sorry. I was told that having evidence of cheating could be helpful in the case in that we could put that person on the witness list and “make them both uncomfortable” which could help with settlement.
I don’t want to go to trial unless he makes a settlement so impossible that we have to. Lucky for him it’s a no fault state.
Yesterday I was having such a “sad” day. Lots of crying, mostly about ripping DD’s world apart and wondering if I’m doing the right thing. Sometimes the universe sends you what you need to know, I guess.
Chances are likely he wouldn’t want to go to trial either. Keep the evidence of him cheating as close to yourself as you can. Let the lawyer know for sure. See if it can be used as last minute leverage for settlement. These men play dirty, hurtful games. We win by using intellect, strategy, and keeping our kids as a priority in the forefront.
Post by emilyinchile on Mar 28, 2024 6:43:22 GMT -5
Oh my god the fucking NERVE of him to be treating you the way he has over the divorce when he is cheating!!! And to be skiing with her today?! I am livid for you.
I'm so sorry. Regardless of being done, that's still so incredibly hurtful.
I'd love to see his shitty face when you calmly tell him you know and with cool deliberation thank him for confirming you choice to divorce him. Someone like him expects to deal with anger, tears, screaming. A calm cool "fuck you" will spin him in circles he can't recover from.
Oh my god the fucking NERVE of him to be treating you the way he has over the divorce when he is cheating!!! And to be skiing with her today?! I am livid for you.
this. this is exactly what I was thinking. like, THE FUCK, sir?!?
Post by lavenderblue on Mar 28, 2024 7:07:43 GMT -5
FUCK HIM! Oh my God. I didn't think it was possible for him to be even more of a piece of shit, yet here we are. Be kind to yourself and understand that his cheating had nothing to do with you and everything to do with him being a gigantic twatwaffle.
Post by maudefindlay on Mar 28, 2024 7:08:31 GMT -5
Further confirmation you were right to get a lawyer vs try mediation. He sounds like the type that would fail at mediation. He can lord his salary over you all he wants, but he has not been pulling his weight. You cannot work full time, go out drinking with buddies often, have an affair, and do what needs to be done at home and with your family.
Jesus take the wheel - the ABSOLUTE audacity of this fucker. Even though it's hurtful to find out it's just further confirmation you're doing the best thing for you & your DD.