He’s skiing with his side piece today, maybe I can have him served there. 😂
I will chip in to make this happen.
I am so sorry. I am also so happy for you, that you already initiated the divorce before you even found out about this. It now adds fuel to the fire that you made the right decision.
I will admit, I didn't see this coming. I thought he was just your garden variety asshole. I am so sorry you have to deal with this and all the emotions it could bring up. On the other hand, he is making it very easy to stand your ground and not doubt this decision. All the hugs to you.
If there's ANY silver lining to this, then it's the fact that you KNOW you're doing the right thing.
I also promise you aren't tearing your daughter's world apart. I guarantee she will notice the tension and anxiety is gone, and (if it's anything like my situation) she'll probably barely notice he's gone, since he's clearly not present anyway.
This does not surprise me one bit, but I know it is hurtful even though you had suspected it all along. I am so glad you are already into the process and hope this does just give you a little more peace that you're doing the right thing for you AND for your DD.
Good luck to his girlfriend, sounds like she's getting a real winner!
I am so sorry you are going thru this. If you haven't already threw all his shit in the front yard and lit it on fire like Angela Bassett, you're a better woman than me.
Asshole. I’d for sure tell his sister about his drinking and also about the cheating but I’d play his stupid game of “people will know the truth about you” cuz I’m vindictive 🤣
Considering that in a fit of rage last night, I FB friend requested the gf and then texted her what a piece of shit he is, and they were together at the time, my guess is he knows. When I woke up this morning, she had blocked me on FB. #iregretnothing
But back to business, that's the last they are getting out of me. I got it out of me and will take the high road from here. The trash always takes itself out!
I am so sorry you are going thru this. If you haven't already threw all his shit in the front yard and lit it on fire like Angela Bassett, you're a better woman than me.
You beat me to it. I was thinking of Angela Basset serving him the papers, then ya know going all Waiting to Exhale on his stuff .
Lawd have mercy Starburst I'm so glad you have confirmation, but I'm still sorry.
ETA: Based on OP's update she is going Angela Basset, just in a safer way. High five, seriously burn it down.
Asshole. I’d for sure tell his sister about his drinking and also about the cheating but I’d play his stupid game of “people will know the truth about you” cuz I’m vindictive 🤣
Oh you have no idea how badly I want to drag his name up and down the street, but I'm holding my tongue other than to close friends/my sister. I think I may tell him that he needs to go and tell the truth to whoever he smeared me to, or I will do it for him. Starting with SIL.
Considering that in a fit of rage last night, I FB friend requested the gf and then texted her what a piece of shit he is, and they were together at the time, my guess is he knows. When I woke up this morning, she had blocked me on FB. #iregretnothing
But back to business, that's the last they are getting out of me. I got it out of me and will take the high road from here. The trash always takes itself out!
When I found out that exH had slept with a woman who had pretended to be my friend, I texted her and she immediately blocked me. Knowing that she got and read the first text that I sent gave me immense satisfaction. And now his current gf doesn't want anyone i.e. his kids knowing her last name or any of her social media because she's afraid of me. Oh well. You did good.
Considering that in a fit of rage last night, I FB friend requested the gf and then texted her what a piece of shit he is, and they were together at the time, my guess is he knows. When I woke up this morning, she had blocked me on FB. #iregretnothing
But back to business, that's the last they are getting out of me. I got it out of me and will take the high road from here. The trash always takes itself out!
When I found out that exH had slept with a woman who had pretended to be my friend, I texted her and she immediately blocked me. Knowing that she got and read the first text that I sent gave me immense satisfaction. And now his current gf doesn't want anyone i.e. his kids knowing her last name or any of her social media because she's afraid of me. Oh well. You did good.
In my mind, the way it went down is she picked up her phone and saw the friend request and the messages all at once. Then she shit her pants, and they sat there shitting their pants together. I'm the known detective in my friend group. When we had tank tops made for a girl's weekend with our "personas" on them, mine was DETECTIVE. WHAT DID HE NOT UNDERSTAND?
Omg I'm so sorry! What a piece of shit. And like others have said, the audacity of him to turn this around on you given all of his nonsense.
My cheating ex similarly tried to pull the "I'll tell everyone how terrible you are" BS when we were splitting up. I was just like, "you really think you're going to come out the winner in that fight given that you've been having a year-long affair?" Which mostly shut him up.
I'd have the sheriff serve the papers at his office/work.....
if he went to an office I would in a heartbeat! Alas, I had to settle for the constable contacting him to meet up, which they will be doing this afternoon according to my attorney's office. I'm so glad that call came to him while he was on his little rendezvous!
I, too, want to know how you found out. it is just too good. He cheats, bring up the split in the first place, but places the blame all on you? BOY BYE.
I was all about calmly telling him you know up thread but to be clear, real life me woulda gone ape shit on him/her. It’s so much easier to be calm when it’s not you. They’re lucky all you did was send a FB msg.
I was all about calmly telling him you know up thread but to be clear, real life me woulda gone ape shit on him/her. It’s so much easier to be calm when it’s not you. They’re lucky all you did was send a FB msg.
It was actually a text, because google yielded her phone # but who's keeping track?! The FB friend request went first, sort of as an "I SEE YOU!!!!". I could have done much worse. I always think of a guy I went to school with whose wife found sexts between him and a woman we went to school with. She posted screen shots of them on FB and tagged him. It was amazing.
Post by gretchenindisguise on Mar 28, 2024 11:33:52 GMT -5
Just adding into the chorus that you rock and he's a piece of shit. I hope he is forever cursed with poop that keeps smearing and hemorrhoids that make it hard for him to sit.