An AE that needs help... (long, I'm sorry)

[bab]

You sound like a person who really should not be in any relationships right now.

(I didn't read the responses, but this is my advice to you)

[bleubook]

Do not marry you FI.

[analyzethis]

I don't think it's difficult at all. If you can't decide you shouldn't be with either. Have you thought maybe you like the attention you're receiving from each? You should keep looking until you find the man that doesn't cause you to have the wondering eye.

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

Feb 23, 2013 14:25:30 GMT -5 justanae said:

So many of you are saying that it sounds like I don't love Dave, but I do. How do I just end four years and an engagement with someone that I love?

Ending an engagement is far easier than ending a marriage.

Either none of these men has everything that you want, or you have some sort of insecurity about men that makes you try to hoard as many as possible, just in case.  And in neither case should you be in a relationship.  Be single, do you, figure your shit out, and then find someone else.  Not Bob.  Not Dave.  Someone new.  Do not recycle old exes.  They are exes for a reason.