Perhaps God wants you to get out of this relationship and you're the one not listening to His direction.
I'm certain that's not the plan. First of all God wouldn't have let me become pregnant on the very first try if he didn't think that H and I were a good match for our son. 2nd despite the financial issue, H DS and I are happy together and we make a wonderful family.
I'm not going to justify my decisions to anyone. I only have 1 person to answer to and we all know who that is.
I will however make sure that I not discuss finances with any of you anymore. I can see most all of you disagree with me, which is fine. I will be sure not to bring it up again.
H is searching for a job and when he's able to find one I'll be sure to share the good news.
How does God feel about the rock you've been smoking?
By this stellar logic, if you get pregnant by your rapist, you should totally marry him.
2. This Christian believes in the power of prayer and that you can put your life in God's hands. However, He also gave us intelligence and ability to think through our decisions. And, He wants us to actively work at bettering our life by working hard for something. He doesn't want us to just sit around and wait for something to happen: he wants us to go make it happen. And He will be there the whole way, guiding us and giving us strength.
Took me 15 years to get pregnant, bitch. 15. Your G-d doesn't favor me? Me, who like Job cried out from the depths of despair for an answer and found NOTHING?
whatever.
You are a dumb country bumpkin, Evee, who hitched her wagon to a real winner.
Well "That real winner" you're talking about has been running around all day to go to 2, not 1 but 2 different Dr's appt. 1 for DS so that he can have his eyes dialated at the opthomolgist and then he's going drive all the way to St. Augustine so H can start enrolling DS into the Florida School for the Deaf and the Blind. Then later this afternoon H is going to meet his early steps councerlor for DS's weekly therapy session.
So before you start judging H and saying he's lazy, I can guarantee he works just as much if not harder than most SAHP.
Because after the last appt, around 3 I suspect, he's going to be watching DS and DS's 2 cousins because today is the last day of school for them.
He works very hard and is a great parents to DS. He is looking for a job but it is difficult. It will be easier for him to seach for job openings in August when DS starts going to FSDB all day. That's not to say he's not searching now. It will be easier for him to look in August.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
What's sad is that I actually need a cardigan rec. I looked at Target but I want short sleeves. Should I buy the Juniors one? The word Juniors turns me off.
I"m absolutely shocked at how materialistic you all. It's all about money to each and every one of you.
It seems to me that greed has consumed a lot of you.
Materialistic? Evee, I am not materialistic in the slightest. I don't think your H needs a needs a job so you can buy shit. I'm think your H needs a job so your kid can you know, drink milk and eat fresh veggies and crap like that. I'm familiar with living paycheck to paycheck. It is no way to live.