What's sad is that I actually need a cardigan rec. I looked at Target but I want short sleeves. Should I buy the Juniors one? The word Juniors turns me off.
I have lots and lots of cardigans (they are essentially all I wear) and most of them are from Old Navy. As long as you wash 'em on gentle and hang dry, they can last a long, long time. I've had some for 5+ years that still look nice.
Anyway, I recently got a short sleeved one from there. So you might check it out.
I"m absolutely shocked at how materialistic you all. It's all about money to each and every one of you.
It seems to me that greed has consumed a lot of you.
This coming from the twat who was just asking where to buy cardigans when she just had to deposit a single dollar (probably in change found in the fucking couch cushions) and therefore is FUCKED if an emergency happens with her son.
What are you going to do when your DS is in school and you need to shell out money for supplies, or new clothes, or field trip money?
I"m absolutely shocked at how materialistic you all. It's all about money to each and every one of you.
It seems to me that greed has consumed a lot of you.
I know, right? All these assholes buying their kids food and putting a roof over their heads. Don't they know manna falls from heaven and God knows where all the best caves are?
The reason we didn't have any food is because I grocery shop every 2 weeks. This is normal for us. I spend roughly 150 bucks for 2 weeks. That is plenty for us. We don't eat out, or if we do it's very rare. We also don't microwave stuff or buy frozen fake food. Cook real meals for our family. Freeze left overs or make fresh food each day.
Us being short a dollar was my own budgeting mistake and the reason I didn't have any money in the bank was because I had cash in hand.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
This coming from the twat who was just asking where to buy cardigans when she just had to deposit a single dollar (probably in change found in the fucking couch cushions) and therefore is FUCKED if an emergency happens with her son.
What are you going to do when your DS is in school and you need to shell out money for supplies, or new clothes, or field trip money?
imoan, please. God writes the checks for that shit.
Can I get his phone number? Because I'm a materialistic cunt and would REALLY like a $100 Sephora gift card.
This coming from the twat who was just asking where to buy cardigans when she just had to deposit a single dollar (probably in change found in the fucking couch cushions) and therefore is FUCKED if an emergency happens with her son.
What are you going to do when your DS is in school and you need to shell out money for supplies, or new clothes, or field trip money?
imoan, please. God writes the checks for that shit.
And with that said I'm done. I'm done explaining myself to you ladies. You're just being unnecessary rude and hateful. I will pray for you all.
Perhaps God wants you to get out of this relationship and you're the one not listening to His direction.
I'm certain that's not the plan. First of all God wouldn't have let me become pregnant on the very first try if he didn't think that H and I were a good match for our son.
Evee, this is so insulting. I'm not even going to get into how illogical it is, because it seems that logic isn't your strong suit.
I know, right? All these assholes buying their kids food and putting a roof over their heads. Don't they know manna falls from heaven and God knows where all the best caves are?
The reason we didn't have any food is because I grocery shop every 2 weeks. This is normal for us. I spend roughly 150 bucks for 2 weeks. That is plenty for us. We don't eat out, or if we do it's very rare. We also don't microwave stuff or buy frozen fake food. Cook real meals for our family. Freeze left overs or make fresh food each day.
Us being short a dollar was my own budgeting mistake and the reason I didn't have any money in the bank was because I had cash in hand.
fake food? How in the hell does your fresh food stay good for two weeks?
What's sad is that I actually need a cardigan rec. I looked at Target but I want short sleeves. Should I buy the Juniors one? The word Juniors turns me off.
I have lots and lots of cardigans (they are essentially all I wear) and most of them are from Old Navy. As long as you wash 'em on gentle and hang dry, they can last a long, long time. I've had some for 5+ years that still look nice.
Anyway, I recently got a short sleeved one from there. So you might check it out.
Like for real LOL that materalistic=desire to be able to have more than $1 in the bank. Also, wait who was the person who started a thrwad about cardis? Yeah that is what I though.
The reason we didn't have any food is because I grocery shop every 2 weeks. This is normal for us. I spend roughly 150 bucks for 2 weeks. That is plenty for us. We don't eat out, or if we do it's very rare. We also don't microwave stuff or buy frozen fake food. Cook real meals for our family. Freeze left overs or make fresh food each day.
Us being short a dollar was my own budgeting mistake and the reason I didn't have any money in the bank was because I had cash in hand.
fake food? How in the hell does your fresh food stay good for two weeks?
Our fresh fruits and veggies are good for 2 weeks in your fridge.
I'm certain that's not the plan. First of all God wouldn't have let me become pregnant on the very first try if he didn't think that H and I were a good match for our son.
Evee, this is so insulting. I'm not even going to get into how illogical it is, because it seems that logic isn't your strong suit.
This is the thing, Evee. You're hiding behind God and believing yourself to be a good person. But while you're calling US rude and hateful, this quote above.... it is SOOOOO insulting to those of us who had problems getting PG and hurtful.
But no.... it's o.k .for you to spew stuff like this because it's religion! Faith! God!!!!! That makes it o.k..
I"m absolutely shocked at how materialistic you all. It's all about money to each and every one of you.
It seems to me that greed has consumed a lot of you.
It is absolutely not about money to me. Life is not about stuff like shoes, cars, fancy clothes, jewelry, big houses, or any of that. It is about working hard to take care of your family by providing them with food, clothing, and shelter. It is about working for what you have rather than waiting for it to be given to you. It is about pride in a job well done and self-reliance. I believe that is what God wants for all of us: to use his strength to encourage us to doing the best we can in life.
Ugh. Look, I don't agree with Evee, either; and I think she's almost criminally naive in this regard, but can we stop with all the namecalling? It's giving me douchechills. She's not smart, she's clearly headed for some kind of crazy emotional shoot-out at some point when she realizes God is not going to force her husband to get a job -- she's got enough problems without everyone here calling her a fucking loser and telling her to go to hell.
Good Lord.
Very true. When you want people to understand your views, you don't insult them.
Evee, this is so insulting. I'm not even going to get into how illogical it is, because it seems that logic isn't your strong suit.
This is the thing, Evee. You're hiding behind God and believing yourself to be a good person. But while you're calling US rude and hateful, this quote above.... it is SOOOOO insulting to those of us who had problems getting PG and hurtful.
But no.... it's o.k .for you to spew stuff like this because it's religion! Faith! God!!!!! That makes it o.k..
But it doesn't. It's pretty rude on your part.
And I never claimed to be perfect. No one is. I ask for forgiveness everyday. And I'm not hiding behind God.
I too have free will to get up every morning and go to work. I could quit today if I thought it was the right thing to do. If I'm headed down the wrong path, with God's help I will be redirected.
That's the point of faith and free will. He try to be the best person you can. You ask for forgiveness when it's necessary and you ask for help anytime you need it. You make choices and if they aren't want God intended for you, then he will redirect you down the right path.
I am somewhat of a lurker here and I might get flamed for this, but I have no problem accepting SAHDs. I know a few and it works well. These couples wanted to have a parent at home for the children and chose the most promising career to support and invest in.
And it happened to be the mums'.
But they have a solid financial plan in place and have money left at the end of the month and savings and a home and all the rest. Without being rich or spending money on silly "things", they are safe from financial difficulties.
I am not going to get in the "prayer" discussion, because I'm a spawn from the devil.
(and yes, I have followed the evee discussions back at TN)
So I see this more as a "critical family short of money situation", than a "man needs a job by all means situation" (aside from the man's flaws, which is another discussion).
Ugh. Look, I don't agree with Evee, either; and I think she's almost criminally naive in this regard, but can we stop with all the namecalling? It's giving me douchechills. She's not smart, she's clearly headed for some kind of crazy emotional shoot-out at some point when she realizes God is not going to force her husband to get a job -- she's got enough problems without everyone here calling her a fucking loser and telling her to go to hell.
Good Lord.
lmao! just because your insults are said without anger doesn't make them any less insulting.
Ugh. Look, I don't agree with Evee, either; and I think she's almost criminally naive in this regard, but can we stop with all the namecalling? It's giving me douchechills. She's not smart, she's clearly headed for some kind of crazy emotional shoot-out at some point when she realizes God is not going to force her husband to get a job -- she's got enough problems without everyone here calling her a fucking loser and telling her to go to hell.
Good Lord.
lmao! just because your insults are said without anger doesn't make them any less insulting.
Actually being the insulted, I do appreciate her not throwing unnecessary hateful insults into every message she sends.
Perhaps God wants you to get out of this relationship and you're the one not listening to His direction.
I'm certain that's not the plan. First of all God wouldn't have let me become pregnant on the very first try if he didn't think that H and I were a good match for our son. 2nd despite the financial issue, H DS and I are happy together and we make a wonderful family.
I'm not going to justify my decisions to anyone. I only have 1 person to answer to and we all know who that is.
I will however make sure that I not discuss finances with any of you anymore. I can see most all of you disagree with me, which is fine. I will be sure not to bring it up again.
H is searching for a job and when he's able to find one I'll be sure to share the good news.
They're are people all over the world that get pregnant there first try and they are not a "good match" for each other. Case and point my parents.
Also by this logic that you are using you are saying that my last child who took me year's to conceive that the reason I didn't was because me and my DH are not a good match??