Excellent point. A lot of us do that AND have jobs. The horror!
I work nights Evee. I work every other night, so that I can be home with my daughter all day, every day. I sleep on my off night, and when she naps. Am I tired? HELL YES. Is she worth it? Absofuckinglutely.
Can he not do that? Of course he can. Is he WILLING to? No. Thats the root of the frustration I'm reading from other posters (well, among many other frustrations...)
They don't want to mess up their SSI income check, ya'll!
Post by pinkpeonies on Jun 6, 2012 12:43:55 GMT -5
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And with that said I'm done. I'm done explaining myself to you ladies. You're just being unnecessary rude and hateful. I will pray for you all.[/quote]
oh please, this is the kind of BS that I really can't stand.
You're taking what I said completely out of context when I said H and I became pregnant on the first try. I don't look down on anyone who has issues become pregnant. And I do have pity for them as well. I'm saying that if God wanted it to happen then it will happen. Like the story of Sarah and Abraham. Abraham was one of the first people to ever be loved perfectly by God. And yet Sarah couldn't become pregnant until Abraham was 90.
Why did it happen. I don't know. Why did God want it to be that way, I don't know. I'm not God. I'm just a believer. I trust and obey. That is all.
This is completely ignorant. You know getting pregnant is biology, right? Science?
Yes, a preemptive "nest biddies" charge seemed well in order.
Any time on MM will tell you it's well earned already. People think they know shit about other people's lives. They usually don't.
When some of us have been on these boards for a DECADE with these people who freely share information about their lives... yeah, sometimes we DO know shit about their lives.
You're taking what I said completely out of context when I said H and I became pregnant on the first try. I don't look down on anyone who has issues become pregnant. And I do have pity for them as well. I'm saying that if God wanted it to happen then it will happen. Like the story of Sarah and Abraham. Abraham was one of the first people to ever be loved perfectly by God. And yet Sarah couldn't become pregnant until Abraham was 90.
Why did it happen. I don't know. Why did God want it to be that way, I don't know. I'm not God. I'm just a believer. I trust and obey. That is all.
This is completely ignorant. You know getting pregnant is biology, right? Science?
And you know that God invented Science right. It's like a discussion I heard on the radio at KLOVE. A Christian station I listen to. It's hilarious when new things (stars, scientific break throughs etc) are discovered, how people say they made it, or fixed it, or created it. You didn't do anything. God did all those things and you're just now finding them.
Wait, most SAHPs don't take their kids to appointments or run errands during the day? Well, shit, I'll have to tell my husband that working parents are supposed to take time off work to do that so that the SAHP can sit around eating bonbons and watching soaps.
This is completely ignorant. You know getting pregnant is biology, right? Science?
And you know that God invented Science right. It's like a discussion I heard on the radio at KLOVE. A Christian station I listen to. It's hilarious when new things (stars, scientific break throughs etc) are discovered, how people say they made it, or fixed it, or created it. You didn't do anything. God did all those things and you're just now finding them.
You don't like to take any little bit of advice someone gives you, do you?
This is completely ignorant. You know getting pregnant is biology, right? Science?
And you know that God invented Science right. It's like a discussion I heard on the radio at KLOVE. A Christian station I listen to. It's hilarious when new things (stars, scientific break throughs etc) are discovered, how people say they made it, or fixed it, or created it. You didn't do anything. God did all those things and you're just now finding them.
Post by daisyheadmaizie on Jun 6, 2012 13:02:54 GMT -5
I am pretty sure Evee must be related to the member of my family who committed grand larceny and burglary and then had the gall to tell me I was a bad Christian for not forgiving her. I will never figure out how the hell these people exist, and sometimes I wonder if God isn't up there banging his head against a giant brick wall when they start spouting their own spiritual bullshit.
Post by studytime45 on Jun 6, 2012 13:03:38 GMT -5
Look Evee. Almost everything that needs to be said has been said. Except one thing. Thank you for making another 7 pager, because I really wanted mine off the first page. So again, thanks.
... it makes me think you are making a lot of excuses and blaming your hardships on your son unfairly. I venture to guess that if you had a child with no disabilities, you would still be living w a lazy jobless husband, and you still wouldn't have two nickels to rub together.
I am now on this boat. I felt sympathy for you before and now I do not.
Look Evee. Almost everything that needs to be said has been said. Except one thing. Thank you for making another 7 pager, because I really wanted mine off the first page. So again, thanks.
BEST.
Evee, this is ridiculous.
I am guessing that your H is not as wonderful as you say, cause girl, you are like dying for attention.
Look, I get what you're trying to say, but you're saying it badly. And you HAVE to know that when you say things like that, people are going to take offense, particularly when they assume you're talking about THEIR ability to get pregnant, or THEIR infertility, or THEIR marriages.
Keep your own beliefs; but you have to know that this is all because you're clumsy with your wording and people are assuming you're talking about them instead of yourself.
Poor wording or not, some of us actually disagree with her on a fundamental level.
I am pretty sure Evee must be related to the member of my family who committed grand larceny and burglary and then had the gall to tell me I was a bad Christian for not forgiving her. I will never figure out how the hell these people exist, and sometimes I wonder if God isn't up there banging his head against a giant brick wall when they start spouting their own spiritual bullshit.
It's called the Religion of Convenience, and I'm pretty sure it was invented the day after Moses came down off the mountain.
Finally after all these years I know why I can't have kids....Because God doesn't want me too or wait is it because I should leave my husband....ok now I am confused
Two appointments in one day?? Whoa! Where can I find a guy that can handle NOT ONE, but TWO appointments in one day??
No shit! My H only managed to make it to one appointment today before going back to his j-o-b, where he makes enough fo me to be able to stay home.
Tomorrow, I have two appointments and I have to take Edith to day camp. I don't know how I will handle three things in one day. My head is spinning.
Clearly you are a superamazingworld'sbestmommy, because there is no way that those of us who work could never, ever take our kid to a single appointment.
I imagine some poor summer intern at Target Corp. being assigned "cardigans" as her internet SEO project and getting so sad. Sad trombone, target intern.
I know, right? It's like "some people like our cardigans and wowser, what's going on there?"
Evee, you inability to communicate and lack of cognitive reasoning is alarming.
As a Christian, I'm more than a little insulted by you bastardizing my beliefs and use them as an excuse to act like a goddamn dodo bird. There are no words to describe how frustrating it is that you don't seem to comprehend the pain you inflict on others with your ignorance.
...And seriously, you basically bragged about your husband doing standard, normal parenting duties for one fucking day? LA DE FREAKING DA
No shit! My H only managed to make it to one appointment today before going back to his j-o-b, where he makes enough fo me to be able to stay home.
Tomorrow, I have two appointments and I have to take Edith to day camp. I don't know how I will handle three things in one day. My head is spinning.
Clearly you are a superamazingworld'sbestmommy, because there is no way that those of us who work could never, ever take our kid to a single appointment.
Of course I'm the greatest. I can do more than one thing in the same day! Not all SAHPs can do that, you know! And forget you worker bees. You just don't care about your SSI...I mean your kids enough to live hand to mouth so one of you can stay home. You're so materialistic!
If God already knows the cure for cancer and AIDS and is just not telling us, then he's got a really fucked up sense of humor. Or he's a sociopath. Just saying.
Now I have the song "Blasphemous Rumors" in my head...
I don't want to start any blasphemous rumors but I think that god's got a sick sense of humor and when I die I expect to find him laughing