The myth of how to make a boy didn't work for me. We had sex four days up to and including on ovulation day, doggy style and I had an orgasm. We ended up with a girl. (FTR, we were not trying for a particular sex; we had been trying for over a year and didn't have a preference)
Post by cheeseandcrackers on May 7, 2013 9:17:25 GMT -5
Is "saving up money" for the wedding an excuse to just prolong it? I always wonder that about couples that have been together for years years and years and have kids.
DH and I got married after we already had a son together and I am glad I got to wear a pretty princess dress. My kids loved being in the wedding too. So there, haters!
I thought about using the Shettles method for Leo, but then I got distracted by a shiny object or something and we just had sex. But I like read things about it and stuff. I just never put it to practice.
FFS folks (well those of you being giant dongs) she just had a HUGE shock by finding out she was pregnant while on BC-and now people are reaming her for her desire to have a wedding? DON'T HATE, CELEBRATE.
OP: "I think he's just in shock, its not like he screamed or threateneed me. "
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ML: "OMG WERE YOU AFRAID HE WAS GOING TO SCREAM AT YOU AND HURT YOU OVER THIS?!!? BLEREGHEWTGEGKEHGKEJHG! GTFO! DTMFA! NO PRETTY PRINCESS DAY FOR YOU!!" *aneurysm*
OP: "I think he's just in shock, its not like he screamed or threateneed me. "
to
ML: "OMG WERE YOU AFRAID HE WAS GOING TO SCREAM AT YOU AND HURT YOU OVER THIS?!!? BLEREGHEWTGEGKEHGKEJHG! GTFO! DTMFA! NO PRETTY PRINCESS DAY FOR YOU!!" *aneurysm*
I'm dying at all of this lol.
I also often feel bad for the men in these situations. Women get to find out by themselves and have time to process that they're having a baby. Men don't.
OP: "I think he's just in shock, its not like he screamed or threateneed me. "
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ML: "OMG WERE YOU AFRAID HE WAS GOING TO SCREAM AT YOU AND HURT YOU OVER THIS?!!? BLEREGHEWTGEGKEHGKEJHG! GTFO! DTMFA! NO PRETTY PRINCESS DAY FOR YOU!!" *aneurysm*
I'm dying at all of this lol.
I also often feel bad for the men in these situations. Women get to find out by themselves and have time to process that they're having a baby. Men don't.
Like what I did? I ran into the bedroom while H was sleeping, sobbing and yelling "IS THIS A LINE?"
This thread is fucking crazy. Why does having children suddenly mean she can't wear a nice dress and have a nice wedding? Fuck the haters. Have your pretty princess day and moolarkey can suck it.
Did Maria Von Trapp not deserve a pretty princess day just because the Captain already had seven children?? YEAH, BITCHES.
Eh, but she didn't have more children with the love of her life and wait around for the wedding to happen. Obviously, marriage is a big sore spot for me and my opinion on the matter is clouded by my personal experiences. I never said she couldn't wear a great dress and celebrate. Clearly, we're a pretty divided as a board when it comes to this issue.
I also often feel bad for the men in these situations. Women get to find out by themselves and have time to process that they're having a baby. Men don't.
Like what I did? I ran into the bedroom while H was sleeping, sobbing and yelling "IS THIS A LINE?"
GOOD MORNING H!
Lol and then there's this approach.
FTR: In fear of sounding judgy at all, I have never experienced this and have no idea how I will react.
I also often feel bad for the men in these situations. Women get to find out by themselves and have time to process that they're having a baby. Men don't.
Like what I did? I ran into the bedroom while H was sleeping, sobbing and yelling "IS THIS A LINE?"
GOOD MORNING H!
Well that settles it. When I get a BFP I'm going to buy one of those oldschool heart attack inducing jack-in-the-box toys, cram the stick in with the creepy ass clown, and crank it really fast in his face while he's sleeping so all he experiences is creepy-music-creepy-clown-doll-heart attack-holy shit-SURPRISE-YOURE- GONNA-BE-A-DADDY!
Post by mariafromnj on May 7, 2013 11:04:38 GMT -5
I am with the others on just getting married now and not waiting. It is not because you don't derserve the "pretty princess day" but because at this point it just doesn't seem worth waiting. You have been together for 6 years, you have 2 children together already and a 3rd on the way. Why are spending so much time "saving for a wedding". A wedding is a day, a marriage is hopefully a lifetime. Why not skip the big wedding and just get married at this point.
Congrats on the pregnancy and hopefully after the shock wears off he will be really happy. If it is a boy then it is an added bonus.
Well that settles it. When I get a BFP I'm going to buy one of those oldschool heart attack inducing jack-in-the-box toys, cram the stick in with the creepy ass clown, and crank it really fast in his face while he's sleeping so all he experiences is creepy-music-creepy-clown-doll-heart attack-holy shit-SURPRISE-YOURE- GONNA-BE-A-DADDY!
OR
you could have a jack in the box mechanism installed in your uterus, and have the BABY pop out and say surprise.
i mean. you have options. imo. fyi. ywia.
Orrr I could tie the pee stick to Casanova and throw him at J while he's in the shower! Win win!
OP: "I think he's just in shock, its not like he screamed or threateneed me. "
to
ML: "OMG WERE YOU AFRAID HE WAS GOING TO SCREAM AT YOU AND HURT YOU OVER THIS?!!? BLEREGHEWTGEGKEHGKEJHG! GTFO! DTMFA! NO PRETTY PRINCESS DAY FOR YOU!!" *aneurysm*
ryan just put his hand flat on my screen and said, "that looks like daddy!"
Like what I did? I ran into the bedroom while H was sleeping, sobbing and yelling "IS THIS A LINE?"
GOOD MORNING H!
Well that settles it. When I get a BFP I'm going to buy one of those oldschool heart attack inducing jack-in-the-box toys, cram the stick in with the creepy ass clown, and crank it really fast in his face while he's sleeping so all he experiences is creepy-music-creepy-clown-doll-heart attack-holy shit-SURPRISE-YOURE- GONNA-BE-A-DADDY!
OP: "I think he's just in shock, its not like he screamed or threateneed me. "
to
ML: "OMG WERE YOU AFRAID HE WAS GOING TO SCREAM AT YOU AND HURT YOU OVER THIS?!!? BLEREGHEWTGEGKEHGKEJHG! GTFO! DTMFA! NO PRETTY PRINCESS DAY FOR YOU!!" *aneurysm*
ryan just put his hand flat on my screen and said, "that looks like daddy!"
So, using the same logic as above, the pastor must have violent rages. OMG! Do you feel safe?!? Blink once for yes, twice for no. We can get you out of there!
I might secretly do Shettles next time. H doesn't know about it. On a scale of 1-10, how wrong is that?
Along the same lines, this is probably flameful but if I were guaranteed a boy, I'd definitely go for a second.
I put these at a1.5-2. its a 8-10 if your pregnant find out its the gender you didn't want and completely loose it no longer want the baby, etc. beyond the initial adjustment but just acknowledging that you would only want another kid if it was a boy (provided you aren't TTC) is about as judge worthy as having gender preference at all which I see as NBD as long as the desire doesn't become unhealthy.
Post by AHappierHour on May 7, 2013 12:13:33 GMT -5
This PG was a huge shock. I was on BC and taking my pills the same time everyday. 3 months ago the pharmacy switched the generic brand that I was taking. And that really messed me up. My cycles became all over the place I was puking had headaches. I would call my Dr and complain and they said your body is just adjusting. We used back up the first 2 months like we were told.
Also I have endometriosis which can make my cycles screwed up to. I found out I had endometriosis last July and my Dr told me that is was bad and that I have varicose veins in my uterus and he suggested me having hysterectomy if we were done with having kids or going on lupron shots if we wanted another baby. So yes this was a big shock. I have 2 half marathons I'm running this summer and believe me the last thing I wanted right now.
I really did want to do everything the right way but sometimes you don't get what you want.