I was really surprised no one said anything to the poster who admitted to having a "fling" with a married man but implied it was okay because she hated the guy's wife.
Post by thelurkylulu on Dec 12, 2013 11:55:28 GMT -5
Did the mattress theft poster every say whether she was going to call the company and fix it? I skimmed a lot towards the end, so I may have missed it if she did.
Post by Captain Serious on Dec 12, 2013 11:58:30 GMT -5
And like I said, I just side-eye it, like many other people do. For me, it's weird specifically because she goes out of her way to link the sex to the gifts in her posts. It's not even what I find most flameworthy.
ET Explain: I was typing this while you typed the above response. I did not see the above before I posted this.
It's the way you presented it. Otherwise, why tell us about how many times a night and how he was always ready to go again?
Someone said I had a magic vagina. My response was saying maybe it is, I don't' know anyone who has as much sex as he and I do. It was an illustration of how my vagina is magic, not a justification for the gift.
It was an illustration of how my vagina is magic is a sentence I never thought I would type.
Although I read the whole post, admittedly, I didn't read he post in order. If this is how the whole thing went down, it's certainly less judgeworthy. Like I said, it's just the breezy way you play it in the post that struck me as odd. I'm sure in real life there are much more real emotions envolved.
Post by Wrath0fKuus on Dec 12, 2013 12:02:47 GMT -5
The thing I was most appalled by was calamity talking about how grateful she is that her abusive dickbag husband hung in there for her while she dealt with her family.
Dec 12, 2013 11:52:11 GMT -5 Captain Serious said: I get receiving gifts on a level that you can't hope to reciprocate. My husband did amazing things for me while we were dating that I had a really hard time coming to terms with at first. But never, ever, did I think/presume/tell others that my vagina got me those things.
Also, other people said that. I ran with the joke. I'm not Captain Serious enough to think I every comment someone makes about me needs to be justified with an argument.
I don't think St Pete wants us to think that she used sex to get gifts. But I do think she wants us to know that she is very, very hot and due to her very, very hotness she is often gifted with pitas and altimas. paltimas.
I feel bad saying this, because I like the posters.
But 1, the rat killing. I don't care if that's easier on the rat. It's only the goddamn circle of life if the snake actually kills the rat himself. And takes whatever damage the rat inflicts in the process. Otherwise, it is killing an animal in a not particularly humane way. That's my biggest sideye.
Two, walking away from a house. That is so irresponsible and really just awful. Awful for the market, for responsible home buyers who have to pay more in interest, awful as an example to your kids, just awful. One of my BFFs did the same, so it doesn't make me hate the person, but I judge it.
And third, dude, St. Pete. Don't take a car from a boyfriend. That isn't jewelry. It's like letting a guy pay for your housing. It screws the balance of power. I am more concerned for you than disgusted at you, but not good.
Wishing a disability on someone's children. @gypsy, I get wanting evil to befall an asshole. I think it bothered me because I've been so close to someone with CP and to think someone would see him as a curse to his parents is shitty. I do get the gut reactions to pain and betrayal are not exactly pretty or representative of normal opinions.
These spin off posts are why I don't share as much as I would.
I don't apologize for this, not that you are suggesting it.
It's hard to be cheated on, lied to over the years, and then finally divorced by telephone.
I said it and of course it was flameful. You have to experience a certain level of grief for your mind and wishes to go there.
The person you know with a child with CP has nothing to do with anything. And certainly not all illnesses are because someone was "cursed".
I don't think St Pete wants us to think that she used sex to get gifts. But I do think she wants us to know that she is very, very hot and due to her very, very hotness she is often gifted with pitas and altimas. paltimas.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Okay, and I still like you. Did you read all the posts in this thread? I read what you said in a different light, and then came around to getting the intention. I saw it as an insult to the kid, not the FIL. When SM said it isn't that you see it as "curse" but that your FIL would made sense. But it's okay, I don't need to everyone to like me.
I'll get over it in a minute.
Thing is, in the light of day - I can't stand to see anyone suffer. Of course I would never hope that a child would be born into a painful life.
Edit: to clarify there were two different evil wishes in there. 1. for FIL to die. 2. for the kid thing. Just clarifying my evil!
I judged the walking away from the house and the Altima. The Altima for the same reasons as Elle. It's definitely a balance of power thing. Pimp game 101, if you will. Lol.
You don't take help for something you need. Hence my suggestions to either buy a badass luxury mobile, or pay for something cheap and pocket the cash. Or take the Altima and find some way to blackmail the dude. There are options.
I don't think St Pete wants us to think that she used sex to get gifts. But I do think she wants us to know that she is very, very hot and due to her very, very hotness she is often gifted with pitas and altimas. paltimas.
I am so not hot. I'm chunky and aging. I like the sex, but I'm not hot.
You are hot. That being said many many men and women enjoy lots of the sex. It is awesome and good.
Okay, and I still like you. Did you read all the posts in this thread? I read what you said in a different light, and then came around to getting the intention. I saw it as an insult to the kid, not the FIL. When SM said it isn't that you see it as "curse" but that your FIL would made sense. But it's okay, I don't need to everyone to like me.
I'll get over it in a minute.
Thing is, in the light of day - I can't stand to see anyone suffer. Of course I would never hope that a child would be born into a painful life.
Edit: to clarify there were two different evil wishes in there. 1. for FIL to die. 2. for the kid thing. Just clarifying my evil!
You could potentially hope for perfectly happy, pain-free kids who nevertheless drastically spoil his Normal Rockwell mental picture. I think that's okay.
SEX WAS SUPER HOT AND VERY ABUNDANT. CAR OR NO CAR!
HE PUT OUT LIKE A HORNY COLLEGE BOY ON THE VIAGARA!!!! ==== AWESOMENESS FOREVER!
Thank you, but it's too late. Just as Stellas has been the poster who is know for "just the tip" I was always be the gbcn'er who puts out for Paltimas.
With people who judge the house thing, im not being snarky I'm just asking but isnt foreclosure the same thing? You stop making payments on the house. Is foreclosure judgeworthy? The recession hit people really hard, there have been a few times where I was on the brink of not being able to afford the house. We couldn't sell it so its renting but its been close a few times.
Also with the 6 figure bonus. I'm not judging but if it were me, I would keep working that moneybags job and stay put so I could swim in dollar bills Scrooge McDuck style.
Also with the 6 figure bonus. I'm not judging but if it were me, I would keep working that moneybags job and stay put so I could swim in dollar bills Scrooge McDuck style.
I am glad I was not alone in thinking that. I get wanting more of a work life balance but I don't think I could walk away from that.
Also with the 6 figure bonus. I'm not judging but if it were me, I would keep working that moneybags job and stay put so I could swim in dollar bills Scrooge McDuck style.
I am glad I was not alone in thinking that. I get wanting more of a work life balance but I don't think I could walk away from that.
You wouldnt have to walk! You could fly away in a private jet. Or be carried in a little tent thing by a group of buff shirtless guys if you want....or both, have the buff shirtless guys carry youre little tent to the airplane.
With people who judge the house thing, im not being snarky I'm just asking but isnt foreclosure the same thing? You stop making payments on the house. Is foreclosure judgeworthy? The recession hit people really hard, there have been a few times where I was on the brink of not being able to afford the house. We couldn't sell it so its renting but its been close a few times.
I do not see foreclosure as judgeworthy. Many of the banks are lying liars that lie. Refuse monies when homeowners try to pay.
I can't believe the ongoing snark over the 6-fig bonus. Who cares if it's more than you make in three years of your job? Her reality is not your reality. If I were expecting 11 million and I got 2 million, I would be bummed. Anyone with some sense would.
So what if she mentioned it.
I love that one minute it's "TEAM SCRU" and opinions on $8k patio furniture, and gifts from Booby's dad. (Which I say 'TAKE THAT SHIT' to all of it.)
The mention of the dollar amount or suggestion that it is in bad taste because others are poor or jobless makes no difference. The haves often post in the presence of have-nots regarding all sorts of things (jobs/cars/babies/husbands), as was pointed out.