Regular flowers would have been nice, I guess. I wasn't expecting a whole lot. Just something about getting the left over Christmas flowers seemed kind of like saying "You're just worth sale price to me"
Regular flowers would have been nice, I guess. I wasn't expecting a whole lot. Just something about getting the left over Christmas flowers seemed kind of like saying "You're just worth sale price to me"
I got him a kindle paperwhite.
A kindle?
So you saved the $500 you needed to get custody of your kid?
So you were having an affair? LOL. That sort of negates the cute little package of "dating". Shame on you.
I was not having an affair. I start talking to BF in mid December. I officially broke things off with XH Dec 24th. I started officially dating BF on Dec 28th. For what its worth, I was planning to leave XH back in July of last year. I was just waiting for my apartment lease to run out before I left XH.
Well, I guess I would expect the man I was seeing behind my husbands back (because let's be honest, if you left your H for him, something was going on) to put a little effort into it.
Then again, he already charmed you enough to leave your H, so his job is done.
So you were having an affair? LOL. That sort of negates the cute little package of "dating". Shame on you.
I was not having an affair. I start talking to BF in mid December. I officially broke things off with XH Dec 24th. I started officially dating BF on Dec 28th. For what its worth, I was planning to leave XH back in July of last year. I was just waiting for my apartment lease to run out before I left XH.
I guess "I'll never get divorced because I'm a great mother and great mothers don't do that" flies out the window when there's new dick in the wings.
I really believed that too, until I started talking to you guys. Talking to you all made me realize that I didn't need to stay with EXH for my sons sake. It fucking sucks every day I don't have DS with me. As far as being miserable everyday though, I'm not anymore.
I understand that, physical separation aside, you and your H were already over. So, yeah, not really cheating.
But, seriously, evee, you got him a freaking Kindle? Too much. Particularly given your overall situation. I believe the one year dating anniversary traditional gift is steak and a bj.
Post by studytime45 on Dec 30, 2013 9:52:00 GMT -5
She didn't get him a Kindle. She didn't get him jack shit, but expected something nice. She made up the kindle thing when MWOS asked her what she got him.
I believe the one year dating anniversary traditional gift is steak and a bj.
Hahaha, I am imagining one of those things on TK, that tells you the "traditional" gifts for each anniversary, paper, wood, china, and then with an asterisk, at the bottom, it says * One year dating anniversary: Steak and blow job
Whatever you have to say to help soothe yourself. If you started talking to your affair partner in MID Dec there was an overlap of at least 2 weeks before you told your now exH. Cheaters lie.
If your now bf/affair partner was so into you as a married woman certainly he could have helped you get out of the lease. Why didn't he do that for you? He wanted the good stuff but was uninterested in the boring particulars of dating a married woman. Now I understand the used flowers.
Just own it. Don't justify it. It's quite simply bad form.
She didn't get him a Kindle. She didn't get him jack shit, but expected something nice. She made up the kindle thing when MWOS asked her what she got him.
YWIA
My bank account would suggest otherwise. It was his Christmas/Anniversary present, twat waffle.
She didn't get him a Kindle. She didn't get him jack shit, but expected something nice. She made up the kindle thing when MWOS asked her what she got him.
YWIA
My bank account would suggest otherwise. It was his Christmas/Anniversary present, twat waffle.
You didn't answer the question about money to talk to a lawyer.
I believe the one year dating anniversary traditional gift is steak and a bj.
Hahaha, I am imagining one of those things on TK, that tells you the "traditional" gifts for each anniversary, paper, wood, china, and then with an asterisk, at the bottom, it says * One year dating anniversary: Steak and blow job
For the 6 month anniversary, it's a stouffer's lasagna and a hand job
So what did he get you for Christmas? Maybe it was his Christmas/Anniversary present to YOU?
Look, I totally remember celebrating dating anniversaries before H and I married, but we just went for dinner or something like that. I think expecting a gift is weird. Particularly when you got him a 'christmas/anniversary' present. LOL.
We were married by the time we hit the one year dating anniversary. We do go out to a nice dinner every year on that night but we don't exchange gifts.
Not that you guys are still talking about the original question, though...