I was thinking this whole thread, "we don't have a dating anniversary. I fucked him with no intention of ever seeing him again." I was too scared to share but if it is good enough for @cse1960 it is good enough for me.
I pretty much slept over and never left. The only reason we remember the date is because it was Cinco de Mayo.
DH was the roommate of a friend of friend. All I knew about him is that he was a giant dick and the worst roommate ever. I was drunk and thought he was cute. I left before anyone woke up because I didn't want anyone to know I slept with the asshole roommate. To this day if I want to get a rise out of him I talk about what an awful roommate he was. He goes off on how he was awesome and she was a bitch who didn't do her dishes.
You are deflecting that everybody else is making up crap. You don't know when your marriage ended? Even if you don't remember the dates you did say you left your now exH for your BF. So you either were engaging with him (your BF) in some fashion or you were using him so you didn't have to be alone. Either way you are on a hard road if you want this to work. IMO that is what you should be working on now that a year has passed.
BF and I work together. We were engaging with each other on a professional level when ExH and I were still together. Our work relationship turned into something more. I was planning to leave XH before I met BF. Meeting BF just happened to happen when it did.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I was thinking this whole thread, "we don't have a dating anniversary. I fucked him with no intention of ever seeing him again." I was too scared to share but if it is good enough for @cse1960 it is good enough for me.
I pretty much slept over and never left. The only reason we remember the date is because it was Cinco de Mayo.
This is basically our scenario too. One night stand turned into living together and then we got married. There wasn't a whole lot of actual dating.
I have all the books I could need, and what more could I need than books? I shall only engage in commerce if books are the coin. -- Catherynne M. Valente
DH showed uo in a Porsche that he checked out from the competitor flwet at work. That was the first clue that he had something planned. Then he took me to dinner at a restaurant I had alwaus wanted to go to. Then we went for a drive. Then he proposed.
I'm sure he gave you flowers he stole off someone's grave to THROW YOU OFF since he is PLANNING ON PROPOSING and he doesn't even KNOW about the accidental on purpose PREGNANCY.