It's 2am, I don't know where H is. I talked to him at 6:30, and he was with a friend of ours helping install a vanity sink at our former pastor's house. I've tried calling both of them and texting them since 9pm, and neither of them are answering me. At midnight, I was worried enough to drive by the house they were supposed to be at, and they weren't there.
I've called the local hospitals, the police departments, no one has seen or heard from him. I'm teetering between scared to death that they're hurt somewhere, and pissed off that he didn't even think to call me. I didn't think he was cheating, but now I'm not so sure.
I have to get up in 3 hours...and I can't stop shaking.
Im so sorry I have been in a similar position (ended up being overtime that was not communicated well) and god...you worry right down to your bones. I will never forget the feeling. Try to breathe. If it helps, imagine all the ways you are going to end his world when he struts in all surprised by your worry. Lots of goof vibes and love coming your way.
I'm sorry. I've been there. It is an awful feeling. he is probably just fine fell asleep somewhere. Any chance he has findmyiphone that you can activate?
sending lots of good thoughts. I would be out of my mind crazy. I hope it is something stupid like they went out for a drink after fixing the sink and the car broke down but their phones died.
It's almost 3am now, I don't think I'll call anyone at this point. I checked our account on Sprint, he made a call to directory assistance at 9pm, other than that, nothing. I've called and left a couple of more messages and sent a few texts, now his phone is off. Not sure if he turned it off, or if it went dead.
I'm beyond pissed and worried, and will probably be using a PTO day to deal with his ass when and if he shows up.
Post by youhadmycuriosity on Dec 5, 2014 4:19:36 GMT -5
Is this completely out of character for your H? If my H was out with friends, and let me know ahead of time that it might be a late night, I would not worry. If this is out of character, good on you for the checking- possibld idea, can you call the person h is with?
I'm sorry I've had this happen a couple of times, and everything was fine. Now he makes sure to text changes to his schedule so I know everything is ok.
He still isn't home. I haven't slept. No money has been taken from our account. I checked the call log for his phone, and there are several calls all night long to a couple of specific numbers, and one is a motel about 30 miles from here at 1am. The motel says he's not there, and I've called the numbers that I don't recognize. Those people claim to have not seen him. If he's not dead, he will be when he gets home.
ETA: His phone is now going straight to voicemail. I've called off work today so that I can keep looking for him and hope to be here when he gets home. I'm still shaking, this is a nightmare I can't wake up from.