Oh gosh. My ex husband did this to me - he found a board I'd been venting on and logged on to "set the record straight." It did not go well for him, lol.
Well, if he stumbled over his figurative baggage here in the first place...
So you're defending what he did? You think it's a-ok to publicly out your spouse on a message board that she more than likely has participated on for years? To deny her a community of, albeit rather capricious, support?
Ok then.
I hadn't thought of it that way. But I think I'd be hurt to find a community in which my h had publicly disclosed his issues about me and not getting my own voice. Or worse, not discussing those issues with me.
Oh gosh. My ex husband did this to me - he found a board I'd been venting on and logged on to "set the record straight." It did not go well for him, lol.
So you're defending what he did? You think it's a-ok to publicly out your spouse on a message board that she more than likely has participated on for years? To deny her a community of, albeit rather capricious, support?
Ok then.
My hadn't thought of it that way. But I think I'd be hurt to find a community in which my h had publicly disclosed his issues about me and not getting my own voice. Or worse, not discussing those issues with me.
Ok but that's what a support system is for. My DH doesn't get to "set the record straight" with my best friend. She is MY best friend. He needs to get his own friend if he wants to complain about me.
So you're defending what he did? You think it's a-ok to publicly out your spouse on a message board that she more than likely has participated on for years? To deny her a community of, albeit rather capricious, support?
Ok then.
I hadn't thought of it that way. But I think I'd be hurt to find a community in which my h had publicly disclosed his issues about me and not getting my own voice. Or worse, not discussing those issues with me.
Honestly, it sounds like she IS discussing the issues with him, but he continues to not want to work on them.
I hadn't thought of it that way. But I think I'd be hurt to find a community in which my h had publicly disclosed his issues about me and not getting my own voice. Or worse, not discussing those issues with me.
Honestly, it sounds like she IS discussing the issues with him, but he continues to not want to work on them.
Unless he gathered most of that from her posts. It wouldn't be the first time this week major issues about spiders has been brought up with the spouse being in the dark.
Eta: spouses, not spiders. But I really think it's time to discuss major spider issues as well...because, damn.
"So I went looking to see if I could find her true thoughts"
Lol, people please.
Stbx snooped here when we were having issues because "You don't talk to me anymore.". WTF ever, I said nothing different than what I had said to him--he just chose to ignore me when I spoke. But even stbx had the decency to go to me directly with what he read, not do a dramatic "I FOUND YOU!" post.