This, although I plan on having some in 3-5 years. I'm still too selfish to enjoy children except for when I can give them back in an acceptable time frame.
Also, count me as a lover of SUVs. I've had a Toyota 4Runner for the past 6 years and love it. In my defense, I bought it since I was used to the bigger vehicle from learning how to drive in my mom's minivan, I needed the space to move myself into and out of the dorms in college, and I wanted the 4 wheel drive for the winter. I refuse to ever have a minivan. They're way worse than SUVs.
My UO (besides the SUV loving)- Mayo is disgusting. Don't hate me too much.
I don't like the use, however light, of being too 'selfish' to enjoy children. It's not selfish to not have kids. It's not like you become some amazing selfless being that is a wonder to behold when you mother.
Yes this bothers me. You can be an unselfish, great person sans kids!
The word selfish has been thrown at me when me and H only wanted one child. So weird. How the fuck is that selfish to want one or no child? Like, whut?? People are so fucking stupid.