I met with both my OB and the perintologist yesterday. Babies are doing great! I was 10w1d and A and C were measuring 10w4d and B was measuring 10w3d. It was fun to see them moving and looking more like a baby. Back in 2 weeks for the NT scan.
I'm wondering if I could negotiate a trial of cervidil at 38w provided the baby is under 4500 g still -- if it doesn't work, send me and I'll wait for a scheduled c section. If it does work and I go into labor, great! I have no idea if they do anything like that though.
Yes, I feel like we're both really being put through the ringer in 3rd tri, with complications on top of our other worries. For me it's all about feeling like I have some sort of control somewhere in this process. I obviously don't want her to come early, but I also have a lot of anxiety around stillbirth and would really just prefer to have her out and safe somewhere between 37-39 weeks using a method that doesn't cause me (or H) terrible flashbacks.