My point about coke dick was that the entire incident was deleted as a "favor" to people who were considered to be the top of the MM hierarchy. I do not think the hush up would have been so complete if other people had been involved instead of those who were. I also remember threatened bans for people who brought it up on MM specifically.
Of course, the best way to get people to continue to talk about something (getting the details wrong) years later is to delete it and pretend it never happened, ensuring legendary status.
That's the incident that solidified her "status" to me. It had nothing to do with her racist comments, nor was the incident "bad" in the same way.
Posts don't get deleted as a favor.
An error may have occurred in this situation, I don't recall and wasn't the mod who deleted. Still, if there was an error, it wasn't intentional or a favor.
IIRC, flex didn't even read the thread. It was requested to be deleted, so she deleted not realizing it wasn't the OP who requested. I could be wrong...
An error may have occurred in this situation, I don't recall and wasn't the mod who deleted. Still, if there was an error, it wasn't intentional or a favor.
IIRC, flex didn't even read the thread. It was requested to be deleted, so she deleted not realizing it wasn't the OP who requested. I could be wrong...
This does sound familiar. Still, not done as a favor. We don't do that.
Clearly I need to catch up and read the thread, I will today when chance
Kirkette knows I support her. The rest of this Twitter business, yikes. I'm public too, I think. I don't have much to hide and when I do I delete it. Don't recall talking mess on Tacom bc I've always liked her and are MFP friends. If I'm wrong and I said something nasty I honestly don't remember but if I did I'm truly sorry.
I feel bad even coming in to comment on these things bc clearly there are larger issues being discussed here but I don't want Tacoma feelings hurt that a bunch of people were talking shit on her.
you've never been anything other than kind to me. I wouldn't expect anything different behind my back -- that just doesn't seem like your shtick (heart)
Think about it this way, GBCN is not some private world that only a handful of people read.
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Seriously. I don't understand why people are so up in arms about discussing something on Twitter, when GBCN is a public forum that anyone can read. Especially, since it's been explained that Twitter can be set to private, which GBCN cannot. I talk about most of my personal concerns on Twitter, not GBCN, BECAUSE it is more private.
Meh, I think coke d*ck is a completely different scenario than racistgate. There were posters other than v involved, and they were all thoroughly shamed enough with the initial post. I think the reason MM is reluctant to rehash that situation is because as a whole the board tries to avoid the mean girl nonsense that goes on on other boards.
My point about coke dick was that the entire incident was deleted as a "favor" to people who were considered to be the top of the MM hierarchy. I do not think the hush up would have been so complete if other people had been involved instead of those who were. I also remember threatened bans for people who brought it up on MM specifically.
Of course, the best way to get people to continue to talk about something (getting the details wrong) years later is to delete it and pretend it never happened, ensuring legendary status.
That's the incident that solidified her "status" to me. It had nothing to do with her racist comments, nor was the incident "bad" in the same way.
I don't think v is the one that requested the deletion. I'm pretty sure it was the poster who was with v who requested it be deleted. That particular poster doesn't even post on MM anymore.
Think about it this way, GBCN is not some private world that only a handful of people read.
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Seriously. I don't understand why people are so up in arms about discussing something on Twitter, when GBCN is a public forum that anyone can read. Especially, since it's been explained that Twitter can be set to private, which GBCN cannot. I talk about most of my personal concerns on Twitter, not GBCN, BECAUSE it is more private.
Twitter can be set to private but wannabe's is not. In fact, she has a lot of viewers. But it's okay because "everyone who follows her knows her feed is public." So if you don't follow her, please start doing so to see if you are in her Burn Book. But no one likes winnieandwine so I guess no one cares?
Now excuse me while I start a blog called @bronxgirlcontradictsherself.com.
Think about it this way, GBCN is not some private world that only a handful of people read.
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Okay, but at this point, you're railing against human nature. It's not a difficult concept. People don't like other people talking shit about them and when they find out people are talking shit about them, they get pissed off. And yes, we all know that everyone talks shit about damn near everyone, but it still doesn't feel good to read about people laughing at you behind your back. While I've never been in that situation, I can envision how I might feel and I would be pissed and cursing everyone involved completely the fuck out. Do I know that somewhere someone is talking shit about me? Yes and probably often, because only about 50% of the people I encounter like me . I might be being generous. But at least don't put it out there for me to find and if you do, expect to get cursed out. And if someone was talking about being physically violent with me, I'd be asking them if they needed my address. Because we all know that a person who won't even talk shit to someone to their face definitely isn't doing anything to anyone. Right, wannabe? Right. Ridiculous.
I really hadn't planned to come back in here, but since I was tagged and it was mentioned yet AGAIN...
Now, because the tweet about kicking some woman in the teeth is so fucking old, I have pretty much zero recollection of the backstory behind it. However, the two people I tagged in it aren't even on these boards. I highly doubt that it was even about winnieandwine .
I'm done.
I'm sorry - I can't remember which one it was edited to remove the real name of one of your friends, who actually posted about cheating on her husband with a colleague a christmas party then quickly DDed. now that's the kind of drama worth blasting on twitter v. a gender reveal cake. it's all fair game though if this is a PUBLIC BOARD
Seriously. I don't understand why people are so up in arms about discussing something on Twitter, when GBCN is a public forum that anyone can read. Especially, since it's been explained that Twitter can be set to private, which GBCN cannot. I talk about most of my personal concerns on Twitter, not GBCN, BECAUSE it is more private.
Twitter can be set to private but wannabe 's is not. In fact, she has a lot of viewers. But it's okay because "everyone who follows her knows her feed is public." So if you don't follow her, please start doing so to see if you are in her Burn Book. But no one likes winnieandwine so I guess no one cares?
Now excuse me while I start a blog called @bronxgirlcontradictsherself.com.
Bull shit. I like winnieandwine. Other people in this thread have said so as well. I didn't say it was okay for wan to talk shit, but that's just a fact of life. Yes, it's hurtful. Do I wish it didn't happen? Sure. People who are generally nice and likable can be assholes at times.
I accept that people will talk shit about me to my face or behind my back. It sucks, sure. But I doubt I'm going to stew on it for years.
Think about it this way, GBCN is not some private world that only a handful of people read.
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Okay, but at this point, you're railing against human nature. It's not a difficult concept. People don't like other people talking shit about them and when they find out people are talking shit about them, they get pissed off. And yes, we all know that everyone talks shit about damn near everyone, but it still doesn't feel good to read about people laughing at you behind your back. While I've never been in that situation, I can envision how I might feel and I would be pissed and cursing everyone involved completely the fuck out. Do I know that somewhere someone is talking shit about me? Yes and probably often, because only about 50% of the people I encounter like me . I might be being generous. But at least don't put it out there for me to find and if you do, expect to get cursed out. And if someone was talking about being physically violent with me, I'd be asking them if they needed my address. Because we all know that a person who won't even talk shit to someone to their face definitely isn't doing anything to anyone. Right, wannabe ? Right. Ridiculous.
Yeah, I'm not saying you can't be mad about it. 2 years is a long to hold on to that. Just realize, everything here is public. It's going to happen.
And I'm not saying it's cool that wan said she wanted to kick in someone's teeth.
An error may have occurred in this situation, I don't recall and wasn't the mod who deleted. Still, if there was an error, it wasn't intentional or a favor.
IIRC, flex didn't even read the thread. It was requested to be deleted, so she deleted not realizing it wasn't the OP who requested. I could be wrong...
You are correct. But it wasn't the original coke thread, right? It was like a rehashing of the event last winter if I recall.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Okay, but at this point, you're railing against human nature. It's not a difficult concept. People don't like other people talking shit about them and when they find out people are talking shit about them, they get pissed off. And yes, we all know that everyone talks shit about damn near everyone, but it still doesn't feel good to read about people laughing at you behind your back. While I've never been in that situation, I can envision how I might feel and I would be pissed and cursing everyone involved completely the fuck out. Do I know that somewhere someone is talking shit about me? Yes and probably often, because only about 50% of the people I encounter like me . I might be being generous. But at least don't put it out there for me to find and if you do, expect to get cursed out. And if someone was talking about being physically violent with me, I'd be asking them if they needed my address. Because we all know that a person who won't even talk shit to someone to their face definitely isn't doing anything to anyone. Right, wannabe ? Right. Ridiculous.
Yeah, I'm not saying you can't be mad about it. 2 years is a long to hold on to that. Just realize, everything here is public. It's going to happen.
And I'm not saying it's cool that wan said she wanted to kick in someone's teeth.
So that's all that's happening. She's being mad about something that anyone would be mad about it. And you or I can say it's a long time to hold onto it. But the person who can't is the person who NEVER said anything to her face. So again...let it cook.
An error may have occurred in this situation, I don't recall and wasn't the mod who deleted. Still, if there was an error, it wasn't intentional or a favor.
But the mod was flex who does whatever the fuck she wants.
Oh sure. That's me. Yep, yep. I get to do whatever the fuck I want. ::eye roll::
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
IIRC, flex didn't even read the thread. It was requested to be deleted, so she deleted not realizing it wasn't the OP who requested. I could be wrong...
You are correct. But it wasn't the original coke thread, right? It was like a rehashing of the event last winter if I recall.
Nah, I'm pretty sure it was the original thread and that's why it all blew up.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Yeah, I'm not saying you can't be mad about it. 2 years is a long to hold on to that. Just realize, everything here is public. It's going to happen.
And I'm not saying it's cool that wan said she wanted to kick in someone's teeth.
So that's all that's happening. She's being mad about something that anyone would be mad about it. And you or I can say it's a long time to hold onto it. But the person who can't is the person who NEVER said anything to her face. So again...let it cook.
Are you sure it was never said on here? I feel like stuff has been said on here in the past. Not kicking teeth in stuff, though. I know for sure it was with 2bewed. I'm not going to google sleuth right now. Maybe later.
So that's all that's happening. She's being mad about something that anyone would be mad about it. And you or I can say it's a long time to hold onto it. But the person who can't is the person who NEVER said anything to her face. So again...let it cook.
Are you sure it was never said on here? I feel like stuff has been said on here in the past. Not kicking teeth in stuff, though. I know for sure it was with 2bewed. I'm not going to google sleuth right now. Maybe later.
I am sorry that winnieandwine 's feelings were hurt.
I am not sorry for calling v a coward and a shitty friend.
No, I already admitted I miss almost everything. It just fits with my narrative.
I'm not really sure why people are surprised Wan is tweeting about them. We already had this conversation, back on the old site. Does nobody remember the Twirlies of whatever the F they were called?
So that's all that's happening. She's being mad about something that anyone would be mad about it. And you or I can say it's a long time to hold onto it. But the person who can't is the person who NEVER said anything to her face. So again...let it cook.
Are you sure it was never said on here? I feel like stuff has been said on here in the past. Not kicking teeth in stuff, though. I know for sure it was with 2bewed. I'm not going to google sleuth right now. Maybe later.
I am sorry that winnieandwine 's feelings were hurt.
I am not sorry for calling v a coward and a shitty friend.
she probably got a jab or two in during a pile on. you tell me - does she say things to your face or only on her twitter account?
All this mean girl shit is gross. I try to avoid it and probably Bliss is the only one I've ever gotten so exasperated with her insanely, twisted shit that I had to speak-up. As for the incidents with kirkette and smo and everyone else impacted, it's too horrible for words. Any racist assholes and unapologetic haters that are now gone from our midst...good riddance.
If you can't step up and say you are sorry for hurting other posters with intent or even not, then I truly have no interest in your viewpoint. I too apologize for not recognizing what was happening sooner. I hope all of the WOC know how truly wonderful we think you are and are glad to learn more about your experiences and how we can all do better here and IRL.
Are you sure it was never said on here? I feel like stuff has been said on here in the past. Not kicking teeth in stuff, though. I know for sure it was with 2bewed. I'm not going to google sleuth right now. Maybe later.
I am sorry that winnieandwine 's feelings were hurt.
I am not sorry for calling v a coward and a shitty friend.
she probably got a jab or two in during a pile on. you tell me - does she say things to your face or only on her twitter account?
i can't get it up for something that was said 4 years ago
Aha! I remember what that was about! It was when I said I didn't know who Drake was because I prolly didn't like his music. She called me an idiot in that thread. So yes, she did "say it to my face." winnieandwine