At this point, I'm pretty sure we're one and done but I feel so bad that my baby will be all alone. Especially since we also took her 10,000 miles from the rest of her family I feel so guilty.
I relate to this a lot. I am so unsure about whether or not I want to have another child for a lot of reasons, but thinking about the possibility of B being an only child when we are so far away from family (and unlikely to go back to the US anytime soon, even if we do it will likely be to a different state) makes me sad. There isn't really anything to be done about it though, since there aren't really any jobs for us where our parents live.
sequins,, I can't believe you know 2 people who are pg already! There is no way I could even think about having another baby so soon. I don't know how people do it! I'm still on the fence on whether we are one and done or not too. But I think it is still too early to be sure either way.
miso, all I have are hugs for you. My career has been a roller coaster these past few years and it sucks. The shame is real, I dread when people ask questions about work (and I'm choosing to SAHM for now, and it still gives me so much anxiety to talk about it with new people I meet). Job hunting is so depressing, you are definitely not alone and don't feel bad about needing to mope for a little while. I hope you find something great soon!