I thought I read a post from Ash where she said she didn't care if we did SecretSanta or not. I am sorry I was not aware that there was a consensus opinion on this, or prior discussions, but since there is, then you're obviously right that we shouldn't do it. My primary concern was not having Karma take the heat for this, and I appreciate you pointing out that it was shit that people scattered like roaches and left her to take the fall for something about 40 people had said they wanted to do.
i don't care. i don't think most of us (WOC) do.
in the sense that there's no need to trip over yourselves with a secret santa 2016 boycott "in the name of respect for WOC".
nah. we're good. we know we don't matter here, and that's fine. it's shitty that there's even a discussion about it, honestly, but who can be surprised, really? we're not even discussing this in our private message group. it's truly that irrelevant.
I thought I read a post from Ash where she said she didn't care if we did SecretSanta or not. I am sorry I was not aware that there was a consensus opinion on this, or prior discussions, but since there is, then you're obviously right that we shouldn't do it. My primary concern was not having Karma take the heat for this, and I appreciate you pointing out that it was shit that people scattered like roaches and left her to take the fall for something about 40 people had said they wanted to do.
i don't care. i don't think most of us (WOC) do.
in the sense that there's no need to trip over yourselves with a secret santa 2016 boycott "in the name of respect for WOC".
nah. we're good. we know we don't matter here, and that's fine. it's shitty that there's even a discussion about it, honestly, but who can be surprised, really? we're not even discussing this in our private message group. it's truly that irrelevant.
Lol at the last 2 sentences, so true. I didn't even roll my eyes at this thread, that's how irrelevant it is. The only reason I said anything in here was to try to help out Connie because I don't think she's been around as long to know it's a lost cause.
An entire year later people are still behaving dumb as fuuuuuuuuuck? Seriously? Wow! I'd say I didn't see that coming, but I'm not fond of telling lies.
Anyway ...
Fuck all y'all who still have their heads in the sand, by standing as fuck, like the clock has been dialed back to 2015, or even better, the official Crow years of 1877 - 1965. Carry on with your exchanges. Happy holiday's you filthy animals, for all I care. You do you, basic boo boo. I for one am sitting out Secret Satan Santas, forever and a damn day. Y'all can read, and find your own damn charities to support. This board will never learn, and all money is not good money. Do your own damn work; I want none of this foolishness.
Go with god,
Kirksey
P.S. kicks , thanks for attempting to do the Lord's work up in this thread. I, for one, could will not. My kindness and patience with the racial foolishness has expired long ago. I'm clearly in the fuck you, and fuck your dumb ass mama stages of these "Ooopsie Daisies, I didn't knoooows?!?!?" ABC After School Special scenarios.
P.P.S. 1 Don't quote, tag, or PM with any backtracking, apologies, or other forms of terrorist white girl alleviation of guilt tears. Don't do it. It's not for me. I will put you on blast. You've been notified. Again, I'm not the fucking one.
P.P.S 2 We all know @booby is/was/forever will be vile as all things odious. Yet, lest we forget, v still ain't shit, and never will be. Ever. v , if you still lurk, you can't pick up kindness, decency, or a good heart at Neimans, Bergdorf, Harrods, or Barneys. You just can not. Not even on a VHCOL lawyer's salary. A shitty heart always shows through. </3 + (imagine a poop emoji here).
She (and others) don't care because the board is a lost cause.
No gesture will make up for all the past transgressions or demonstrate that the board will change.
Yeah, I think I get that. We're an embarrassment. Like I said, and really, as kicks said better than I did, I just don't think Karma needed to bear the brunt of it. There's a lot of people who are in a far better place who didn't get the ass kicking she did.
Anyway, I know it doesn't mean anything but I'm sorry this board has not been what people needed over the years. And more than anything, I'm sorry for the over things we all should have known better than to do. I somehow missed the whole "n" word thing with Tamb, but after reading that I tend to think people are right there's nothing worth saving.
i'm looking at the original list right now and your black behind is on it. don't play.
lol! Really? I don't get any messages. I'm going to burn it down.
I think we created a newer one to just include the people who were actually responding to the messages after a few months. So clearly you were not responding lol. I think we thought you were too cool for us!
lol! Really? I don't get any messages. I'm going to burn it down.
I think we created a newer one to just include the people who were actually responding to the messages after a few months. So clearly you were not responding lol. I think we thought you were too cool for us!
Oh true. I rarely read my messages or notifications. Or the board.
I've been following this post since it started, and even commented that I would be interested in participating. I just wanted to throw my .02 in. I've lurked here for a while before I started chiming in on posts. That being said, I wasn't aware of the entire history of the problems that have gone on here.
However, I will say that over the past year or so of lurking I have learned a lot about people, different issues people in this country are facing and really how much I didn't know about it. I grew up in a large city and my school had a fairly diverse population, I work at an international school that has over 60 different countries represented, and have been in several inter-racial relationships. Only from reading some of the stuff on these boards have I come to realize that I was completely unaware of my own white privilege. This thread is the perfect example that I don't always recognize it. The fact that I can participate in a gift exchange with internet strangers and not have a worry about being targeted for a hate crime because of my skin color is an example of white privilege. I don't always get it, I am trying to figure it out though. I have been researching what it truly means to be a white ally, and trying to read examples of white privilege.
I know the WOC are fed up with this board and that really sucks because some of us do get it, or are starting to. And unfortunately the less WOC that are on the board the less opportunities for other people to start to "get it" (not that I think it is their job to educate us, the information is out there and easy to find!). Just saying that it's truly just a loss for us on these boards.
Post by deanlicker78 on Dec 3, 2016 23:01:47 GMT -5
I had to go back and read again where Karma was attacked. She really wasn't. One person said her post was reading a little self absorbed. And it really was. And so what? She's had shit going on, obviously. It's oK to say, yeah...I am pretty self absorbed lately, justifiably, so I will now back out of this since I don't know what's happening or what I'm talking about.
I'd love to know what people are thinking as they deactivate in a huff after showing their ass. Like, who are you mad at? Hopefully it's yourself, because you had every opportunity to shut the hell up. No exaggeration, I had more sense and mental fortitude at ten years old than some of you grown ass women. Where do you people come from? Who raised you? Lol for days. This is why I'll never stop reading this board. Pure entertainment.
Also, I miss the days when people would write out a farewell manifesto, and everyone would rush in begging them to stay. Can we go back to that?
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
"Where's Karma?" "She was attacked because she wanted to do Secret Santa."
Andplusalso, "Damn those darkies for getting out of hand again!"
::Cue clueless white girl tears::
"This basic board is dying!"
it's beyond pathetic. I don't know how else to describe it. Karma should be pissed that people are blaming their basic lack of chill on her. "I'm really just standing up for Karma!" So tacky and transparent.
I really wish everyone who has left, or who takes the slightest opportunity to lament the death of the board, would just come out and say what we already know is their real beef.
The flailing attempts at starting the great ML whitelash are cute. You all could at least keep it in your pants until 2017 though. Have some shame about yourselves.
I haven't scattered. I showed my ass, I understand that. I am truly sorry for how this board has and continues to treat WOC. But I also understand how hollow those words are.