I don't comment much - but All positive vibes heading your way! I know this next step is scary - and overwhelming. No words will take that away but you have SO many of us sending you positive thoughts, prayers, and whatever else we can, I hope that helps you through this next step! Your grace is truly amazing.
Post by starshine1977 on Feb 2, 2017 20:59:36 GMT -5
Don't you dare apologize for posting here! We want to know what's going on. My thoughts are with you as you embark on this new leg of your journey. I hope you find the strength to tell your family. Let them be there for you... (heart)
I mainly lurk but I wanted to give my input, hoping it helped. I was diagnosed with stage 3 Colon cancer when I was 23 and it was a very difficult time. I relied on my family and friends to pass the word along what was going on with me because I couldn't deal with telling my story over and over again. My suggestion is to let a family member in on what's been going on so you can plan on them informing the rest of the family. Let them be the point of contact for a while so you don't have to deal with them. I think being honest about what's going on will provide you with even more support than you've had thus far.
You're in my thoughts and prayers. I'm also in Houston so if you need us, we will be there. I know you'll be in good hands at MDA and you're in our hearts V.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
My FIL has an incurable form of cancer. He's been coming to MD Anderson for over a year now, and they have kept him steady...no changes in that time. He flies in every 3 to 4 months, has 4 days worth of appts, radiation, bloodwork, CTs, the works. They work directly with his doc in IL so everyone is following the same treatment plan.
You truly could not be in better hands. MD Anderson can work miracles. Im so glad they're taking your case. That is great news. Good luck!
You may be thinking that they are moving so quickly because you are dying. They aren't. They are moving so quickly because they think you can live. You were placed in their hands at the most perfect moment: when you are severe enough to be seen at a top hospital but with enough time that they feel they can help.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm praying for the absolute best for you.
This is the message I wanted to send to you, but lacey said it so much more eloquent.
They are taking you in because they feel they have a good chance at helping you.
I do second pp in their advice to tell your family. I was 14 when my mother died and I had no idea. My dad (who wanted to protect us) told us of her cancer 30 minutes after she died - we only knew she was in the hospital.