- I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and didn't tell DH about it until today. I don't know why, I think the thought of telling him just made it seem too real. He didn't really say much and has basically been taking a nap ever since. I don't really know what to do, so I think I'll just continue acting like it didn't happen unless he brings it up.
- I signed on with a temp-agency, so I went ahead and put in my 2 weeks notice for my part-time retail job. However, I'm debating not fulfilling it. The manager is making it 100x more dramatic and stressful than it needs to be, and I'm honestly not sure if I have the mental capacity to handle her craziness. I feel like that would be bad job karma, though. But seriously, bitch is crazy. Four other employees have quit over the last month, too, because of her craziness.
- I've never had an orgasm. I don't really get into sex. All my doctors tell me this is normal and nobody has ever tried to figure out why I'm like this. I kind of wish they cared more. And because of this, DH gets blow jobs all the freaking time, because it's much more appealing to me than sex.
i used to think people were standoffish towards me b/c i'm attractive. but now i think it's b/c i have permanent bitch-face. even w/ a relaxed face i look like i'm judging you. but if i'm really judging you i make the face in my avatar.
..nobody has ever tried to figure out why I'm like this. I kind of wish they cared more. And because of this, DH gets blow jobs all the freaking time, because it's much more appealing to me than sex.
I am sorry for your loss.
In regards to your 2nd comment: What about your husband..doesn't he want you to feel good? This is weird to me.
..nobody has ever tried to figure out why I'm like this. I kind of wish they cared more. And because of this, DH gets blow jobs all the freaking time, because it's much more appealing to me than sex.
I am sorry for your loss.
In regards to your 2nd comment: What about your husband..doesn't he want you to feel good? This is weird to me.
Oh yea, he tries all the time. He's the one who got me the vibrator (but not in a pushy way.) If I even show the tiniest bit of interest in trying something new, he's very encouraging. But just...no luck in that department.
And thanks, all. I didn't mean to hijack the thread. I just haven't told anybody else, and H's reaction today wasn't what I was expecting, so I needed to re-vent it, heh.
Marylou, I'm so sorry for your loss. Is there a friend or relative that you can talk to about it? Or perhaps a therapist? I know that I personally blamed myself and carried that with me for years before I was able to accept that it wasn't my fault. ((hugs))
Okay, my confession. I have on average 10 orgasms (the toe tingling kind) per session. Which is awesome for the most part but can be annoying when doing certain positions (girl on top) and when a guy really sucks in bed. Especially when a guy sucks in bed, because he'll think he's a god and he's not.
i used to think people were standoffish towards me b/c i'm attractive. but now i think it's b/c i have permanent bitch-face. even w/ a relaxed face i look like i'm judging you. but if i'm really judging you i make the face in my avatar.
I have a very expressive face, I have to try really, really hard to control it at work sometimes. Especially in meetings, I get the "That's the stupidest idea I've ever heard in my life" face.
i used to think people were standoffish towards me b/c i'm attractive. but now i think it's b/c i have permanent bitch-face. even w/ a relaxed face i look like i'm judging you. but if i'm really judging you i make the face in my avatar.
1. I give a side eye when women claim people are mean to them because they are pretty.
Ill see that and raise you women who want you to know that being skinny is hard. Eff that, it's great.
Agreed! I know plenty of thin, beautiful women who have tons of female and male friends and are generally well-liked by those who meet them. If you are thin and attractive and not well-liked, it is because you have a bad personality. It has nothing to do with how you look.
Post by hannamaren on Oct 15, 2012 19:36:09 GMT -5
Okay, this isnt because you said it, blissanity, but anytime someone says they orgasm 5 times per session or they can orgasm on the bus etc hasnt really had an orgasm. For the first 1-2 yrs of sex, I thought I was orgasming all the time (2-4 times per session). Then I had a real orgasm. I think those women are in that boat.
This is more about the people on DrPhil or Geraldo that say they can orgasm due to a bumpy road. Dont believe it.
i used to think people were standoffish towards me b/c i'm attractive. but now i think it's b/c i have permanent bitch-face. even w/ a relaxed face i look like i'm judging you. but if i'm really judging you i make the face in my avatar.
Twins!
Triplets! I tend to have a very expressive face, but my default face is someplace between annoyance and judgement. I'm probably a solid "5", but I get people telling me I intimidate them because I look bitchy a lot.
I don't know that I've ever had that specific combination, but I love garlic and cheese and biscuits...soo...that's just crazy. Where can I get one to see for myself?
I never want to be a bridesmaid again. My weekend was awful.
I saw on FB. I'm sorry.
BUT, I never wanted to be a bridesmaid again because brides are bitchy assholes most of the time. I got kicked out of a wedding a year before the wedding takes place.
I'm in a wedding this Saturday and I am actually excited. The bride is still keeping it together and is acting normal. I hope it stays that way.
Okay, this isnt because you said it, blissanity, but anytime someone says they orgasm 5 times per session or they can orgasm on the bus etc hasnt really had an orgasm. For the first 1-2 yrs of sex, I thought I was orgasming all the time (2-4 times per session). Then I had a real orgasm. I think those women are in that boat.
This is more about the people on DrPhil or Geraldo that say they can orgasm due to a bumpy road. Dont believe it.
Oh I can't orgasm from a bumpy road. That's just silly. I do get the tingles from a super bumpy road.
I've been having sex a LOT longer than 2 years so I think I've discovered what a real orgasm is and what is just being "primed." LOL.
But generally, I do agree with you. Although, I did have a mini one when getting my gun tattoo on my inner thigh.
I don't know that I've ever had that specific combination, but I love garlic and cheese and biscuits...soo...that's just crazy. Where can I get one to see for myself?
they're the red lobster biscuits. there is a recipe on TIP.
I don't trust women who don't have any female friends.
I suspect that sometimes girls like to brag about that even if it isn't true because they want people to think that there must be something about them that women are so jealous of that women won't be friends with them.
I think that a lot of girls treat gay men as tokens, and I hate it.