Am I too late for husband venting?

[moolarkey]

Nov 23, 2015 20:06:12 GMT -5 @cse1960 said:

I told dh a long time ago, in no uncertain terms that the way to get me in the mood is to make.my.day.easier. Vacuum, you hot SOB. Do the fucking dishes, you big hunk of man. And wipe down the counters while you're at it, doll face. Change that dirty diaper, feed that brat you made with me and dude, I am YOURS.
Make sex with you to be one more fucking chore at the end of a long line of endless drudge? YEAH, NO.

Sing it, sister.  This should be given to every man.

[cuddlyevil]

Dude no.

My stbx would make passive aggressive comments like "you know, men are more likely to cheat if they don't get sex at least once a week." and when I would call him out for manipulation he would say "yes. It is manipulative". He also called me frigid once because I did not want to have sex after he pulled up my shirt and tried to feel me up while I was cooking dinner.

Really glad he's not my problem anymore.

[meganew]

Nov 23, 2015 20:41:31 GMT -5 tillie said:

Nov 23, 2015 20:31:13 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

Dude no.

My stbx would make passive aggressive comments like "you know, men are more likely to cheat if they don't get sex at least once a week." and when I would call him out for manipulation he would say "yes. It is manipulative". He also called me frigid once because I did not want to have sex after he pulled up my shirt and tried to feel me up while I was cooking dinner.

Really glad he's not my problem anymore.

Similarly, DH has said any other man in his position would have done something (i.e. Cheat) by now and it's going to happen one of these days.

I know this is a thread about my jerky H, but dude. DTMFA.

[tictac]

Nov 23, 2015 20:53:17 GMT -5 tillie said:

Nov 23, 2015 20:50:07 GMT -5 mofongo said:

tillie - why are you telling us all of these things? I mean that sincerely, not at all snarky. You know how bad it is, you need to leave.

I know. It's just so complicated. Right now I just have to make it through hosing all of my in laws on Thanksgiving. I am seriously trying to come up with viable options after that.

I really hope you mean this. Because really, NOBODY deserves this shit.

[isabel]

Nov 23, 2015 20:37:33 GMT -5 jamr125125 said:

Nov 23, 2015 16:23:08 GMT -5 meganew said:

I can't just float along through life on a boner kite.

That's all I have to add.

jamr found your avatar wambam.

[dizzydee]

Uh

[BillyJoelLover]

I would compromise. I'd tell him, I'll blow you but afterward, you need to watch the kids while I take a 2 hour nap.

[papie]

Never too late for H venting.  Let's kill them and move in together and take turns sitting on the couch.  

[shamrockshake]

Dec 1, 2015 15:34:00 GMT -5 dizzydee said:

Uh

oh what did we miss that was deleted??

[papie]

Nov 23, 2015 15:48:43 GMT -5 underwaterrhymes said:

I don't understand why some men think when women don't want sex that it's the vagina part of the equation prompting it.

If I don't want your penis in my vagina, I generally do not want it in my mouth either.

a million times this.  I have definitely yelled "IF I WERE TO GIVE YOU A GODDAMN BLOWJOB, I'D JUST SIT THERE AND LET YOU FUCK ME INSTEAD.  NO".  

Men are dumb.  And before feminists jump in all "no, not all men are dumb", you are right, but mine is definitely a champion of stupidity at times.  

[papie]

WHY AM I RESPONDING TO AN OLD THREAD? WHO IS THE JERK THAT BUMPED IT?

[bcv513]

Dec 1, 2015 15:45:23 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

I would compromise. I'd tell him, I'll blow you but afterward, you need to watch the kids while I take a 2 hour nap.

Never change Evee, never change

[BillyJoelLover]

Dec 1, 2015 15:56:29 GMT -5 bcv513 said:

Dec 1, 2015 15:45:23 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

I would compromise. I'd tell him, I'll blow you but afterward, you need to watch the kids while I take a 2 hour nap.

Never change Evee, never change

Listen she wants rest, he wants a blowjob. Everyone can win with compromise.

[tictac]

Dec 1, 2015 15:55:19 GMT -5 papie said:

WHY AM I RESPONDING TO AN OLD THREAD? WHO IS THE JERK THAT BUMPED IT?

Grandma Papie, did the nurses forget to give you your pills today? ;-D

[sequins]

Dec 1, 2015 15:58:21 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

Dec 1, 2015 15:56:29 GMT -5 bcv513 said:

Never change Evee, never change

Listen she wants rest, he wants a blowjob. Everyone can win with compromise.

I was going to respond to your PM about how you should lay low for a bit but that would have been an exercise in pointlessness.



Look at me pot stirring mofongo

[jeekerbeeker]

Dec 1, 2015 15:58:21 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

Dec 1, 2015 15:56:29 GMT -5 bcv513 said:

Never change Evee, never change

Listen she wants rest, he wants a blowjob. Everyone can win with compromise.

They call it a job for a reason. 

And what kind of compromise is it if she doesn't want to do it? I'm all for compromise but your advice is dumb. 

[mekia]

Dec 1, 2015 15:58:21 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

Dec 1, 2015 15:56:29 GMT -5 bcv513 said:

Never change Evee, never change

Listen she wants rest, he wants a blowjob. Everyone can win with compromise.

No.

[W.T.Faulkner]

Dec 1, 2015 15:58:21 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

Dec 1, 2015 15:56:29 GMT -5 bcv513 said:

Never change Evee, never change

Listen she wants rest, he wants a blowjob. Everyone can win with compromise.

How about you blow ME (where the Pampers is.)

[BillyJoelLover]

This is why I'm sticking to Beauty/OOTD posts. See you girls tomorrow. Bye bye birdies.

[captainobvious]

[Deleted]

Dec 1, 2015 16:10:21 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

This is why I'm sticking to Beauty/OOTD posts. Bye bye birdies.

See you next Tuesday!


(devil) (angel)

[meggers5]

How would this go down?

"I'll let you have a nap but you have to blow me after".

[elleblue]

Do you know what has probably never happened in the history of ever? When a woman was turned down for sex by her husband, she followed that up with "how about a little oral then?" - and if that did actually happen, no one would ever see that as being a comprise for a man not interested in having sex at that moment.

[WOT?*]

Since this has been bumped, I'm just going to add jeekerbeeker, you are very pretty.

I suppose I need to go to the poll and say "skinsuit" is overused now, huh?

[jeekerbeeker]

Dec 1, 2015 16:25:20 GMT -5 WOT?* said:

Since this has been bumped, I'm just going to add jeekerbeeker , you are very pretty.

I suppose I need to go to the poll and say "skinsuit" is overused now, huh?

Thank you so much!

[captainobvious]

Dec 1, 2015 16:12:06 GMT -5 meggers5 said:

How would this go down?

"I'll let you have a nap but you have to blow me after".

No no. It's blow me, then nap. Always put your husband first! 

[meggers5]

Dec 1, 2015 16:27:15 GMT -5 captainobvious said:

Dec 1, 2015 16:12:06 GMT -5 meggers5 said:

How would this go down?

"I'll let you have a nap but you have to blow me after".

No no. It's blow me, then nap. Always put your husband first! 

Oh right. I need to earn my nap.

[vicky]

Dec 1, 2015 16:29:24 GMT -5 toledo said:

Dec 1, 2015 16:10:21 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

This is why I'm sticking to Beauty/OOTD posts. See you girls tomorrow. Bye bye birdies.

I would too, if my personality were only in my clothes.

Snap, son.

[elleblue]

Dec 1, 2015 16:29:24 GMT -5 toledo said:

Dec 1, 2015 16:10:21 GMT -5 BillyJoelLover said:

This is why I'm sticking to Beauty/OOTD posts. See you girls tomorrow. Bye bye birdies.

I would too, if my personality were only in my clothes.

[LeggsBenedict]

Dec 1, 2015 16:13:41 GMT -5 elleblue said:

Do you know what has probably never happened in the history of ever? When a woman was turned down for sex by her husband, she followed that up with "how about a little oral then?" - and if that did actually happen, no one would ever see that as being a comprise for a man not interested in having sex at that moment.

uh.