Right?! I mean I know they make snow but lol! Then when my sister sent me the screenshot yesterday from the mountain’s FB saying they are closed this week I just…..couldn’t even.
Are they going to make snow in the rain, though? I grew up skiing, but haven't been in many years. A clear 50F day in March, I'm sure they'd make snow. I just can't see it being worth the effort on a rainy day though...
Absolutely not worth the effort to make snow. I legitimately hadn’t even looked at the forecast to question that part. I absolutely did NOT believe he was skiing with a client, the who is what I was focused on. I was just letting him walk into the trap and it worked beautifully. Maybe when they made the plan it was for him to spend the night before and they’d ski that morning but when the weather turned they just stuck to the sleepover!
Ugh, men continuing to men. Do you think this has been going on long?
I can see by this woman’s divorce proceedings that her H filed in May 2023. My thinking is that sometime after that they started chatting on FB and it became an EA, which drove his sudden freak out a couple of months ago. I’m sure I’ll eventually figure out more. I always do! I remember being surprised when he put the Facebook app on his phone sometime last fall, because he never had it on there before that and used it infrequently. I think that was so they could chat without him having to be at his laptop.
Ugh, men continuing to men. Do you think this has been going on long?
I can see by this woman’s divorce proceedings that her H filed in May 2023. My thinking is that sometime after that they started chatting on FB and it became an EA, which drove his sudden freak out a couple of months ago. I’m sure I’ll eventually figure out more. I always do! I remember being surprised when he put the Facebook app on his phone sometime last fall, because he never had it on there before that and used it infrequently. I think that was so they could chat without him having to be at his laptop.
Oh, so REALLY fuck him. And fuck her too.
Ha, last night we were at the Hawks/Celtics game and there was a surprise half time performance by Cee Lo Green. My kids LOVED screaming fuck you in public. MOTY right here!
Ugh, men continuing to men. Do you think this has been going on long?
I can see by this woman’s divorce proceedings that her H filed in May 2023. My thinking is that sometime after that they started chatting on FB and it became an EA, which drove his sudden freak out a couple of months ago. I’m sure I’ll eventually figure out more. I always do! I remember being surprised when he put the Facebook app on his phone sometime last fall, because he never had it on there before that and used it infrequently. I think that was so they could chat without him having to be at his laptop.
So she knowingly reached out to a married man and then had an affair with him, KNOWING HE WAS MARRIED. There is some karma that is going to get both of them.
I don't know if this is possible, but I would ask if you can add in anything about your DD being around non-parent/non-family people. I just feel like he is going to force this woman onto your DD sooner than any normal person would.
Post by litskispeciality on Mar 29, 2024 8:48:54 GMT -5
OP I don't want to get too specific here, but I'm not sure if the ski areas I know of about an hour west of you (I think) don't have lodging, or at least a lot of because they're pretty small/day trip kind of places? Maybe he said he got a hotel somewhere else, but that sent a flag for me. Then the rain and 50 degrees all that. Again if you're going to lie at least get a story that adds up! They say on the news every day "ski areas UP NORTH will love this snow"
Also you can just browse FB on a browser on your phone, lol. Gosh I really hate this guy.
I can see by this woman’s divorce proceedings that her H filed in May 2023. My thinking is that sometime after that they started chatting on FB and it became an EA, which drove his sudden freak out a couple of months ago. I’m sure I’ll eventually figure out more. I always do! I remember being surprised when he put the Facebook app on his phone sometime last fall, because he never had it on there before that and used it infrequently. I think that was so they could chat without him having to be at his laptop.
So she knowingly reached out to a married man and then had an affair with him, KNOWING HE WAS MARRIED. There is some karma that is going to get both of them.
I don't know if this is possible, but I would ask if you can add in anything about your DD being around non-parent/non-family people. I just feel like he is going to force this woman onto your DD sooner than any normal person would.
This is hard because any rules that she would have placed on him, she would also have to follow. It sucks, but sometimes you have to trust that the other person will be a good parent and not risk emotional damage to their child.
I can see by this woman’s divorce proceedings that her H filed in May 2023. My thinking is that sometime after that they started chatting on FB and it became an EA, which drove his sudden freak out a couple of months ago. I’m sure I’ll eventually figure out more. I always do! I remember being surprised when he put the Facebook app on his phone sometime last fall, because he never had it on there before that and used it infrequently. I think that was so they could chat without him having to be at his laptop.
So she knowingly reached out to a married man and then had an affair with him, KNOWING HE WAS MARRIED. There is some karma that is going to get both of them.
I don't know if this is possible, but I would ask if you can add in anything about your DD being around non-parent/non-family people. I just feel like he is going to force this woman onto your DD sooner than any normal person would.
Believe me, it’s on my mind. This news is going to be devastating enough on her. If he starts bringing a girlfriend around she will be horrified. I would HOPE he knows better, but at this point I can’t expect much from him.
So she knowingly reached out to a married man and then had an affair with him, KNOWING HE WAS MARRIED. There is some karma that is going to get both of them.
I don't know if this is possible, but I would ask if you can add in anything about your DD being around non-parent/non-family people. I just feel like he is going to force this woman onto your DD sooner than any normal person would.
This is hard because any rules that she would have placed on him, she would also have to follow. It sucks, but sometimes you have to trust that the other person will be a good parent and not risk emotional damage to their child.
And in 50/50 parenting is there really any need to bring another person around? I have zero intentions of dating anytime soon and when and if I ever do get involved with someone, it will be light years before they meet my kid. I would actually be fine with agreeing to not bring someone around her anytime in the foreseeable future. He can do his thing on his own time when she isn’t in his care.
OP I don't want to get too specific here, but I'm not sure if the ski areas I know of about an hour west of you (I think) don't have lodging, or at least a lot of because they're pretty small/day trip kind of places? Maybe he said he got a hotel somewhere else, but that sent a flag for me. Then the rain and 50 degrees all that. Again if you're going to lie at least get a story that adds up! They say on the news every day "ski areas UP NORTH will love this snow"
Also you can just browse FB on a browser on your phone, lol. Gosh I really hate this guy.
I didn’t believe a thing about it from the start. I knew that whatever he was doing, it wasn’t skiing with a client. You are probably thinking of the correct mountain. It’s a day trip skiing place only, but it’s near where this woman lives so it was just good for a story. He has never, ever skied with clients before.
OP I don't want to get too specific here, but I'm not sure if the ski areas I know of about an hour west of you (I think) don't have lodging, or at least a lot of because they're pretty small/day trip kind of places? Maybe he said he got a hotel somewhere else, but that sent a flag for me. Then the rain and 50 degrees all that. Again if you're going to lie at least get a story that adds up! They say on the news every day "ski areas UP NORTH will love this snow"
Also you can just browse FB on a browser on your phone, lol. Gosh I really hate this guy.
I didn’t believe a thing about it from the start. I knew that whatever he was doing, it wasn’t skiing with a client. You are probably thinking of the correct mountain. It’s a day trip skiing place only, but it’s near where this woman lives so it was just good for a story. He has never, ever skied with clients before.
It sounds like it's the mountain near me. Let me know if you need me to egg any houses this weekend (with real eggs, not Easter ones), or if you ever need me to spy. Fuck this asshole.
This is hard because any rules that she would have placed on him, she would also have to follow. It sucks, but sometimes you have to trust that the other person will be a good parent and not risk emotional damage to their child.
And in 50/50 parenting is there really any need to bring another person around? I have zero intentions of dating anytime soon and when and if I ever do get involved with someone, it will be light years before they meet my kid. I would actually be fine with agreeing to not bring someone around her anytime in the foreseeable future. He can do his thing on his own time when she isn’t in his care.
I don't disagree with you! My kids Dad and I had 50/50 and I never had anyone I was dating around my kids. I think your approach would be a good one, just setting a time limit as to when new SO can be around the kids, Completely restricting it is where it can come back to bite you in the butt later.
Is he just acting like nothing is wrong? He didn’t even try to acknowledge that you knew after you called her out? Like, is he just going to casually walk into the house later today?!? I am curious if he going to be an idiot and hold firm on the skiing with a client story
I can see by this woman’s divorce proceedings that her H filed in May 2023. My thinking is that sometime after that they started chatting on FB and it became an EA, which drove his sudden freak out a couple of months ago. I’m sure I’ll eventually figure out more. I always do! I remember being surprised when he put the Facebook app on his phone sometime last fall, because he never had it on there before that and used it infrequently. I think that was so they could chat without him having to be at his laptop.
So she knowingly reached out to a married man and then had an affair with him, KNOWING HE WAS MARRIED. There is some karma that is going to get both of them.
I don't know if this is possible, but I would ask if you can add in anything about your DD being around non-parent/non-family people. I just feel like he is going to force this woman onto your DD sooner than any normal person would.
Do we know she reached out? Not that it really matters, and it's possible I missed something!
Ok douche, go ahead and call it mud. My husband DID have halitosis. We addressed it after I talked to you girls on here and guess what? Years later, no problem. Mofongo, you're a cunt. Eat shit. ~anonnamus
So she knowingly reached out to a married man and then had an affair with him, KNOWING HE WAS MARRIED. There is some karma that is going to get both of them.
I don't know if this is possible, but I would ask if you can add in anything about your DD being around non-parent/non-family people. I just feel like he is going to force this woman onto your DD sooner than any normal person would.
Do we know she reached out? Not that it really matters, and it's possible I missed something!
True, bad word choice, moreso that she knew he was married and still got involved.
This is hard because any rules that she would have placed on him, she would also have to follow. It sucks, but sometimes you have to trust that the other person will be a good parent and not risk emotional damage to their child.
And in 50/50 parenting is there really any need to bring another person around? I have zero intentions of dating anytime soon and when and if I ever do get involved with someone, it will be light years before they meet my kid. I would actually be fine with agreeing to not bring someone around her anytime in the foreseeable future. He can do his thing on his own time when she isn’t in his care.
Not the point, I know. My ExH introduced his GF within a few weeks of our split. I actually really like her but their relationship has been tumultuous and I hate that my kids are seeing it. I've been with my BF for three years now and while he has met my kids, it hasn't been in any kind of relationship capacity. There is zero reason to bring kids around new partners and I do not understand why people rush to this.
And in 50/50 parenting is there really any need to bring another person around? I have zero intentions of dating anytime soon and when and if I ever do get involved with someone, it will be light years before they meet my kid. I would actually be fine with agreeing to not bring someone around her anytime in the foreseeable future. He can do his thing on his own time when she isn’t in his care.
Not the point, I know. My ExH introduced his GF within a few weeks of our split. I actually really like her but their relationship has been tumultuous and I hate that my kids are seeing it. I've been with my BF for three years now and while he has met my kids, it hasn't been in any kind of relationship capacity. There is zero reason to bring kids around new partners and I do not understand why people rush to this.
I think it’s different based on kids ages too. Mine are 11/13 and I have no plan on dating ever, but definitely won’t introduce kids before they’re out of school. Yes, that’s 6 years, but that’s ok. However I can see it differently if your kids are younger or you do want to date earlier than never, lol
I do worry about how XH will do things but I hate to bring it up because he’ll immediately think it’s me wanting to date. We didn’t put anything in the divorce decree. I like to think he’d be smart about how a girlfriend would affect the kids, he’s already done things regarding them I didn't expect, so…
Not the point, I know. My ExH introduced his GF within a few weeks of our split. I actually really like her but their relationship has been tumultuous and I hate that my kids are seeing it. I've been with my BF for three years now and while he has met my kids, it hasn't been in any kind of relationship capacity. There is zero reason to bring kids around new partners and I do not understand why people rush to this.
I think it’s different based on kids ages too. Mine are 11/13 and I have no plan on dating ever, but definitely won’t introduce kids before they’re out of school. Yes, that’s 6 years, but that’s ok. However I can see it differently if your kids are younger or you do want to date earlier than never, lol
I do worry about how XH will do things but I hate to bring it up because he’ll immediately think it’s me wanting to date. We didn’t put anything in the divorce decree. I like to think he’d be smart about how a girlfriend would affect the kids, he’s already done things regarding them I didn't expect, so…
Totally fair. Mine are 10 and 13 now. Like you, I'm willing to wait until they are out of the house.
Our decree stipulates that the person has to have been dating their partner for six months before introducing. ExH says this was moot for him because his GF had babysat the kids when they were 1 and 4, so technically they had already met
OP I don't want to get too specific here, but I'm not sure if the ski areas I know of about an hour west of you (I think) don't have lodging, or at least a lot of because they're pretty small/day trip kind of places? Maybe he said he got a hotel somewhere else, but that sent a flag for me. Then the rain and 50 degrees all that. Again if you're going to lie at least get a story that adds up! They say on the news every day "ski areas UP NORTH will love this snow"
Also you can just browse FB on a browser on your phone, lol. Gosh I really hate this guy.
I didn’t believe a thing about it from the start. I knew that whatever he was doing, it wasn’t skiing with a client. You are probably thinking of the correct mountain. It’s a day trip skiing place only, but it’s near where this woman lives so it was just good for a story. He has never, ever skied with clients before.
Has he come home yet? I would love to see how he acts when he sees you since he knows he’s busted.
I didn’t believe a thing about it from the start. I knew that whatever he was doing, it wasn’t skiing with a client. You are probably thinking of the correct mountain. It’s a day trip skiing place only, but it’s near where this woman lives so it was just good for a story. He has never, ever skied with clients before.
Has he come home yet? I would love to see how he acts when he sees you since he knows he’s busted.
Oh come on now. Skiing usually lasts until 4 or so, then there is the inevitable client dinner after a long day on the slopes. Shoop shoop shoop.
Post by starburst604 on Mar 29, 2024 21:26:03 GMT -5
I haven’t been able to tell my mom about the recent discovery bc DD has been around when we’ve been on the phone, so I texted her some deets. Her response is everything. When my 74 yr old mom says “the nerve”, that is equivalent to “that motherfucker is dead to me, can I help bury the body?”
I changed my IG intro to “My mama don’t like you, and she likes everyone” because that’s dead on. She always really liked STBX but now he’s dead to her.
Aww I love your mom. I’m so glad you have a kick ass support system around you. You’re doing all the right things and DD has the best example in front of her of how she should be treated.
I hope for her sake she always loves her dad but more than likely she will know that her mom did what was necessary to protect her and that’s priceless.
I don't know if this is possible, but I would ask if you can add in anything about your DD being around non-parent/non-family people. I just feel like he is going to force this woman onto your DD sooner than any normal person would.
While I completely get where this is coming from, I also think it’s important to be careful w these clauses. I wanted something added in my agreement at first-but looking back on it and now that I’m in a healthy relationship of over 2 years, but no plans to remarry, I’m glad I didn’t push for this….this would be used against me. My Ex quickly got remarried. If it was a way he could use this clause as a tool for me to not be able to see my boyfriend, since I have the kids 90% of the time, he would.
These men get new women to do their parenting (and unpaid domestic labor) for them. And very quickly.