I am not shaming anyone for their sex life when I say this- he called you a tramp and is the one cheating? What a joke of a person. And he's skiing with her right now? In this rain? Or drinking in the lodge? Idiots.
I know your daughter is young, but I would still be careful of what she sees and hears and senses. He is still her dad and that is a very different relationship than spouse. I know you are being mindful of that and I'm saying it as someone whose parents had a shit divorce that impacted my brothers and I immensely.
A year from now, you will be having an amazing life with a huge stress removed. It can't come soon enough for you!
I am not shaming anyone for their sex life when I say this- he called you a tramp and is the one cheating? What a joke of a person. And he's skiing with her right now? In this rain? Or drinking in the lodge? Idiots.
I know your daughter is young, but I would still be careful of what she sees and hears and senses. He is still her dad and that is a very different relationship than spouse. I know you are being mindful of that and I'm saying it as someone whose parents had a shit divorce that impacted my brothers and I immensely.
A year from now, you will be having an amazing life with a huge stress removed. It can't come soon enough for you!
I'm right there with you in having parents who were the poster kids for how NOT to have a divorce. It was awful and traumatizing, far beyond the actual divorce. My #1 goal is to NOT have that happen to DD. Believe me, it has given me self control that I don't possess naturally. I've realized there was never any skiing, it was just his reason to go there and stay overnight. My sister just pointed out that the mountain is closed this week haha!
I’m so sorry about this starburst604 . Obviously you will be much better off, but I know how much it must hurt right now.
It's weird, but now that the initial shock and rage have worn off, I have very few fucks to give about the cheating. As I've been telling my friends for a while, I'm so relieved to never have to have relations with that man again. Better her than me!
I am not shaming anyone for their sex life when I say this- he called you a tramp and is the one cheating? What a joke of a person. And he's skiing with her right now? In this rain? Or drinking in the lodge? Idiots.
I know your daughter is young, but I would still be careful of what she sees and hears and senses. He is still her dad and that is a very different relationship than spouse. I know you are being mindful of that and I'm saying it as someone whose parents had a shit divorce that impacted my brothers and I immensely.
A year from now, you will be having an amazing life with a huge stress removed. It can't come soon enough for you!
I'm right there with you in having parents who were the poster kids for how NOT to have a divorce. It was awful and traumatizing, far beyond the actual divorce. My #1 goal is to NOT have that happen to DD. Believe me, it has given me self control that I don't possess naturally. I've realized there was never any skiing, it was just his reason to go there and stay overnight. My sister just pointed out that the mountain is closed this week haha!
GOOD FUCKING GRIEF - he can't even come up with semi-legit story.
I’m so sorry about this starburst604 . Obviously you will be much better off, but I know how much it must hurt right now.
It's weird, but now that the initial shock and rage have worn off, I have very few fucks to give about the cheating. As I've been telling my friends for a while, I'm so relieved to never have to have relations with that man again. Better her than me!
I'm right there with you in having parents who were the poster kids for how NOT to have a divorce. It was awful and traumatizing, far beyond the actual divorce. My #1 goal is to NOT have that happen to DD. Believe me, it has given me self control that I don't possess naturally. I've realized there was never any skiing, it was just his reason to go there and stay overnight. My sister just pointed out that the mountain is closed this week haha!
GOOD FUCKING GRIEF - he can't even come up with semi-legit story.
Post by nuggetbrain on Mar 28, 2024 13:19:24 GMT -5
THIS BITCH ASS MOTHERFUCKER HAD THE NERVE TO TREAT YOU LIKE GUM ON HIS SHOE WHEN HE'S OUT MESSING AROUND WITH SIDE PIECES WILL YOU PLEASE TELL ME HIS PLACE OF BUSINESS SO I CAN GO UP THERE AND WHOOP EVERY INCH OF HIS FLAT NASTY ASS
Post by nuggetbrain on Mar 28, 2024 13:26:11 GMT -5
Do not be me. I took the high road the entire time, and even after the divorce, and never said boo to ol' girl or cussed anybody out and kept my family from saying anything to either of them, so she thought she could text me some bullshit when I had to ask my ex for a favor because she thought I was this quiet wilting flower. I told her if she ever texted me again I was going to whoop her entire fucking ass and then my momma texted him telling him not to let either of them see her in public because she would cuss them both out.
You don't have to be ratchet but don't let them think you're gonna let them do whatever without any fucking consequences I WANNA BEAT HIS ASS SO BAD GIRL
THIS BITCH ASS MOTHERFUCKER HAD THE NERVE TO TREAT YOU LIKE GUM ON HIS SHOE WHEN HE'S OUT MESSING AROUND WITH SIDE PIECES WILL YOU PLEASE TELL ME HIS PLACE OF BUSINESS SO I CAN GO UP THERE AND WHOOP EVERY INCH OF HIS FLAT NASTY ASS
THERE YOU ARE!! I've been waiting for you!! My texts to her last night were pretty epically ratchet, IMO.
THIS BITCH ASS MOTHERFUCKER HAD THE NERVE TO TREAT YOU LIKE GUM ON HIS SHOE WHEN HE'S OUT MESSING AROUND WITH SIDE PIECES WILL YOU PLEASE TELL ME HIS PLACE OF BUSINESS SO I CAN GO UP THERE AND WHOOP EVERY INCH OF HIS FLAT NASTY ASS
THERE YOU ARE!! I've been waiting for you!! My texts to her last night were pretty epically ratchet, IMO.
GOOD. Tell her about her damn self. I hope they give each other herpes. I hope it's face herpes, just all over their ugly mugs so everybody can see what trashbag hoes they both are damnit
Post by litskispeciality on Mar 28, 2024 14:11:23 GMT -5
I was wondering why he was skiing with his side piece but not his DD and/or maybe OP if it was planned before all this started. Goodness if you're going to lie and blame everything on another person (his STBXW) at least get the details right like the freaking ski lodge being open. That's easy enough to check!
Post by maudefindlay on Mar 28, 2024 16:22:54 GMT -5
When my Uncle was cheating on my Aunt their nanny, Ann, caught him and she punched him good. Later she apologized to my Aunt saying "I'm sorry, I would have taken him to the ground, but we were in the house and I didn't want to break any of your things." She died several years ago, but may her spunky spirit guide you! Minus the hitting.
Save the texts, give them to your lawyer. They will be GOLD when it comes time for negotiations! It's easier to get what you want when you have evidence and can blame the divorce on the other person's blatant cheating. DM me if you want my 30 second story.
When my Uncle was cheating on my Aunt their nanny, Ann, caught him and she punched him good. Later she apologized to my Aunt saying "I'm sorry, I would have taken him to the ground, but we were in the house and I didn't want to break any of your things." She died several years ago, but may her spunky spirit guide you! Minus the hitting.
I hope we all have the chance to be the Nanny Ann we wish to see in this world.
When my Uncle was cheating on my Aunt their nanny, Ann, caught him and she punched him good. Later she apologized to my Aunt saying "I'm sorry, I would have taken him to the ground, but we were in the house and I didn't want to break any of your things." She died several years ago, but may her spunky spirit guide you! Minus the hitting.
I am mourning the loss of this woman, and I never knew about her until now. The world needs her!
He’s skiing with his side piece today, maybe I can have him served there. 😂
Since you’re sharing everything- how did the skiing come to be? Was this planned before you asked for the divorce? My partner has a lot of women friends that he hangs out with and maybe I don’t understand Ski culture lol. Meeting up for dinner or drinks with a woman friend = normal. Going skiing all day with a woman friend in the middle of the week = not normal!
He’s skiing with his side piece today, maybe I can have him served there. 😂
Since you’re sharing everything- how did the skiing come to be? Was this planned before you asked for the divorce? My partner has a lot of women friends that he hangs out with and maybe I don’t understand Ski culture lol. Meeting up for dinner or drinks with a woman friend = normal. Going skiing all day with a woman friend in the middle of the week = not normal!
He told me a week ago he was going skiing, with a male client Charlie. I realize now that the skiing was never likely the actual plan, it was the overnight BEFORE skiing that was the goal. This mountain is only an hour away, but he “had to go the night before because they were starting early” and he said he was staying at “Charlie’s”. In actuality, the mountain is closed this week and he spent the night at his ex-girlfriend Nicole’s home. 🙄
Wow, so he's an asshat AND stupid. You're gonna soar far and free now that you've lost 200 lbs. of dead weight. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Continue to slay, rockstar. 😊
I continue to be astounded by the behavior of men that I read about here. To those that have traveled a hard road, I am sorry that they are/were terrible to you.
Gah, I could scream. He sounds so much like my douchebag of an exH who, it also turned out, was cheating. So many things are familiar to me in this scenario. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. You are on your way to so much happiness and freedom. Fuuuuuuuuck this guy! But also? Congratulations. Because you’ll finally be able to live the life you deserve once you’re rid of this asshole.
Since you’re sharing everything- how did the skiing come to be? Was this planned before you asked for the divorce? My partner has a lot of women friends that he hangs out with and maybe I don’t understand Ski culture lol. Meeting up for dinner or drinks with a woman friend = normal. Going skiing all day with a woman friend in the middle of the week = not normal!
He told me a week ago he was going skiing, with a male client Charlie. I realize now that the skiing was never likely the actual plan, it was the overnight BEFORE skiing that was the goal. This mountain is only an hour away, but he “had to go the night before because they were starting early” and he said he was staying at “Charlie’s”. In actuality, the mountain is closed this week and he spent the night at his ex-girlfriend Nicole’s home. 🙄
The part about the ski story that I find the hardest to believe is that he kept rolling with it despite the weather being in the 50s and rainy this week...
He told me a week ago he was going skiing, with a male client Charlie. I realize now that the skiing was never likely the actual plan, it was the overnight BEFORE skiing that was the goal. This mountain is only an hour away, but he “had to go the night before because they were starting early” and he said he was staying at “Charlie’s”. In actuality, the mountain is closed this week and he spent the night at his ex-girlfriend Nicole’s home. 🙄
The part about the ski story that I find the hardest to believe is that he kept rolling with it despite the weather being in the 50s and rainy this week...
Right?! I mean I know they make snow but lol! Then when my sister sent me the screenshot yesterday from the mountain’s FB saying they are closed this week I just…..couldn’t even.
The part about the ski story that I find the hardest to believe is that he kept rolling with it despite the weather being in the 50s and rainy this week...
Right?! I mean I know they make snow but lol! Then when my sister sent me the screenshot yesterday from the mountain’s FB saying they are closed this week I just…..couldn’t even.
Are they going to make snow in the rain, though? I grew up skiing, but haven't been in many years. A clear 50F day in March, I'm sure they'd make snow. I just can't see it being worth the effort on a rainy day though...