Peanut Butter Patties!!! I'm so disappointed that I couldn't find any Girl Scouts selling cookies this year (WTF). I'm hoping I see some selling outside the grocery store because I need to get my fix.
Even though I agree that you should keep him, I do have a tiny bit of personal experience with this.
I brought home a stray that had been hanging around my office for a few days after getting worried he'd get hit by a car. I took him to the vet and got him on flea medication and had him neutered as well (I'm also in Houston) figuring this would help make him more adoptable. My husband and I agreed to foster him, and I started to look at rescues who would help us with that versus taking him to a shelter. Anyways, while at the dog park with him and my dog someone commented how cute he was, when I mentioned his story the person mentioned that her parents were interested in adopting a puppy after losing their 15 year old dog. I met with the possible owners twice just to make sure they seemed like a good fit and they fell in love with the pup. It's been 2 years and I still keep in touch with the owners every so often via email and he seems so incredibly happy. All in all we had little Rocco (I couldn't help but name him) for about a month.
Maybe try taking him to the park and put one of those 'for adoption' tags on him, you never know what could happen... but I REALLY do think you should keep him
What kind of metal are you looking at? If you're thinking corrugated, go with shingles. Corrugated metal is not meant for a house, and it needs the bolts replaced every few years to avoid leaking.
The benefits of Standing Seam and Shingles are pretty much the same now. Architectural Asphalt Shingles can come with a 50 year non prorated warranty if you get someone who is certified in installing them. They have 140 mph wind warranty as well. Where we live, Standing Seam is almost double the cost of an Asphalt Shingle roof. People tend to go with the Architectural shingles because they are getting similar life expediencies for less cost. Some choose the metal because they think it looks better.
leviosa I need to get all the information from the builder, honestly I haven't asked for any details. Is there a type of metal that you'd recommend over another?
Pibs I've been reading that metal roofs don't have gutters?! Is this inaccurate?
I live in Houston so snow isn't an issue, but rain is another story. Y'all are making me nervous by saying it's loud. I really want a metal roof because of looks and for how long they last. We're building a new home, so this wouldn't be replacing an older shingled roof.
I'm looking for some help... my husband and I are building our first home (yay) and have to decide if we want a traditional shingled roof or metal. There isn't a cost difference, so it's totally preference. I've been researching online, but it's overwhelming. If you have a metal roof do you love or hate it?
When my mom passed away suddenly my sisters and I sent out thank you cards. As someone else mentioned, we received some personalized ones from the funeral home. We sent them to everyone who sent flowers, those who organized a fundraiser for our family and cooked us meals. Also, to the woman who helped us pick a plot at the cemetery and the florist who did my mom's arrangements as they were both extremely kind to us and were bright spots in a really difficult time. A family friend started a GoFund me for our family, however we did not send out personal thank you cards to each donor.
I know that no one expects a thank you card during such a difficult time, but I can relate to your friend wanting to send them out. I don't think there's anything wrong with you doing them on her behalf.
My husband and I are thinking of heading that way beginning of October from Houston. Looking for beautiful scenery, cool weather, and outdoor activities.
I'm looking at Squaw Valley specifically, but honestly I don't know anything about the area. Along with what I mentioned above, I would like the area we're staying in the have some shopping (not a priority) and restaurants.
Any hotel recommendations or just general tips and advice?
Jeep is officially off the list, I just can't do it with so many mixed reviews... I test drove the Highlander, 4Runner as well as the Mazda CX9 and CX5. Of those, only the Highlander made the cut.
Any reviews of that SUV? My husband told me that we're buying my new car on Saturday, so I need to decide between the Highlander and RDX.
Why do people continue to buy cars with bad reviews when there are so many options with good reviews?
I would not buy a Jeep.
Eta: I did not mean that reply to be as bitchy as it reads. I think there are better options for an SUV than Jeep (Honda, Toyota, Subaru)
I get it... that's why I'm torn. I was hoping people would have nothing but glowing reviews for the Jeep and it would convince me that it's a reliable buy. My gut tells me to stay away though.. I just really liked it :/
Definite first world problems when my 2nd choice is the RDX.
We have both a grand Cherokee and an Acura MDX. We just traded our 2012 Jeep for a 2015 and the MDX we just got is a 2015 as well. I will say that the new Jeep feels much smoother than our 2012 Jeep did, and while we didn't have too many repairs on the 2012, the ones we did have were costly. Previous to the MDX we had a TSX that was a 2004 and ran like a champ, minimal repair costs and still worked great when we traded it! I have high hopes for the MDX.
I also love the third row in the MDX bc as the kids get older and want to go places w friends we can fit more car seats. The front seats are also insanely comfortable in the MDX, almost like a nice reclining leather chair. But they drive and run similarly (for now).
I'm glad to hear that you've been happy with your Acuras. I like the MDX, but really don't need the 3rd row. I was crazy about the RDX until I test drove the Jeep. The Jeep just has more of the bells and whistles, but I don't want to be dealing with nonstop maintenance issues. I'm just disappointed that I'm pretty much being forced into getting a new car (my current car is a Mini Cooper which now needs a new engine). I have until early next week to decide what I'm going to do!
My car was involved in a hit and run accident, so now I'm in the market :/ Originally, I was all for getting the Acura RDX, but I went to test drive the Grand Cherokee yesterday and absolutely loved it. Jeep's don't have the best reputation, so I'm looking for some personal stories on their reliability, etc.
Biotene helped my dad quite a bit when he was going through treatment. Also, he swore by lifesavers hard candies (the fruity flavors, not mint). Hope you get some relief soon!
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my mom 4.5 years ago and Mother's Day has never gotten easier. I'm glad you started this thread. My husband is trying to be supportive to me, but a jerk to his own mother. I can't get him to buy a card or a gift. I know it's rude, but she's your mom, take the time and do something. I love his mom, but it hurts me to spend 20 minutes looking for a card when I can't buy one for my own mom. I just don't think he understands and he thinks as a grown man he doesn't need to do something special anymore. As other posts have said, until you lose a close family member (parent) you just don't understand it.
I always go see my dad this weekend, but I agree men just don't get it. I'm trying to get better about letting out my feelings out as they come, holding it in only leads to stress pain, but it's hard.
Allow yourself to be sad, but remember the good times with your mom. Do something she would have done. Sending you (((HUGS)))
I get along with my MIL, but I can admit that I do hold some resentment towards her because she's here and my mom isn't. My H is sooooo bad about doing something for his mom for MD. Every year I would constantly have to remind him to order flowers, send a card, etc. It may be childish, but I refuse to do it for him if I can't do it for my own mom. I guess that's the good thing about him seeing her in person this year, I don't have to worry about it.
Men definitely do not get it at all... My sweet dad, he tries and I know he misses my mom beyond words. He's trying so hard to move past his grief (for lack of better words). He was also involved in the accident that took my mother's life, so I think for him it's also about letting go of that survivors guilt. I can't process the loss the same way though, she's my mother and I will always miss her. Nothing can replace a mother's love and I really miss her love and nurturing.
My mom, sisters and I loved getting our nails done together... maybe i'll treat myself to a pedicure in her name this weekend.
Thank you to everyone who took the time to comment and share your own experiences. It sounds cliche, but just knowing that I'm not alone in dealing with this day does help. I don't have many people in my life who I can talk to about this. Thinking of you both stephkingjennistarr1 as your losses are both so incredibly fresh.
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Someone up thread mentioned that it's more so the day to day life that's hard versus holidays and I can definitely agree with that. My mom was killed in a train derailment and I still have so much anger over her death. It came out of no where, was completely preventable and she suffered brutal injuries that ultimately lead to her death... all that has stayed with me and it's a heavy weight to carry. I think I hate this day in particular because of those feelings of anger.
I don't have family where I live outside of my dad and sisters, so no aunts/grandmothers to spend the day with and celebrate. It truly was all about my mom. Maybe once I have children of my own I'll feel differently, but man what I wouldn't give to have my mom here.
My mom passed away really suddenly nearly 4 years ago. Of all the holidays, I HATE Mother's Day. Despise it. From the moment May hits, it's all you hear about and it truly hurts. You can't listen to the radio, watch tv, go to stores or hell even be on social media without it being blasted everywhere. Maybe it's always been this way and I never noticed because I was a part of it, now that I'm not it seems like I can't escape it. I've been feeling down all week, but making it through with the best attitude as I can. My H is being a complete ass though, sometimes I wish he'd just stop and remind himself that I'm going through a rough time.
Since my mom passed, my dad, sisters, my H and I usually go to take my mom flowers then out to eat afterwards (the same place we took her on our last Mother's Day with her). This year my older sister is a mom, so understandably she's doing her own thing, my little sister will be out of town for a wedding and my H decided to go visit his mom in his hometown about 4 hours away. I don't have any right to be upset, but I wish that my family could still be together that day. I'm just ready for it to be over. At the same time, I want to spend the day alone, but feel like I need to include my dad when in actuality I would be 100% fine with going to the cemetery by myself.
Anyways, I guess I just needed to vent. I hate this. I miss my mom, it truly doesn't get easier. To those of you without your mom this Mother's Day, how do you plan on making it through the day?
I'm wondering if anyone has any experience hiking in Glacier National Park, specifically Grinnell Glacier Trail. My husband and I are wanting to try out this hike, we're looking into going July 31- August 5th. We're both in decent shape, but have pretty much zero hiking experience other than Bell Rock in Sedona last year. Coming from Houston, I know that the elevation can be problematic, so we're going to be climbing stairs and doing the stair master to help with that as best as it can.
If anyone has any tips and general insight about hiking Grinnell or visiting GNP in general, please feel free to share!
I love Method wood floor cleaner. Also, for face/skincare I like Acure and Yes to Carrots products. I was using Seventh Generation laundry detergent, but my husband doesn't like it, so I'll have to get some Kirkland brand mentioned up-thread the next time I'm at Costco.
Anyone looking for a thorough list of CF free products, google Leaping Bunny. It will tell you brands that are 100% CF (no ingredients were tested on animals vs. other products who claim to be CF, but only the final product is).
Huh, I wasn't sure where the other thread went either.
It is ridiculous how airlines are allowed to operate. A paying passenger (who happens to be a doctor who needs to see patients) was forcibly removed from a plane to let an employee take his seat. Not to mention the amount of force that was used.
And all they did was apologize for overbooking.
I would bet they were crew needed for another flight.
However, if oversell situations I thought airlines DO NOT give you a boarding pass with a seat number on it? Those without seat numbers, and lack of volunteers, are simply denied boarding. DRAGGING SOMEONE OFF??? WTF?? I love how he went limp tho!! I would have done the same.
That was so much worse than I imagined. Absolutely horrific... There's no justifying this.
A video I saw showed him hitting his face on the armrest of the seat across from him when he was dragged out his seat.I think he went limp because he was knocked out for a second.
When I first started taking my anti-depression and anxiety meds I was also in counseling; seeing a therapist once weekly. I stopped those medications and counseling entirely and it's been about a year (more or less). Now that I've started taking Lexapro, I'm not in counseling and only taking medication. I found counseling to be really beneficial though and plan on starting up again.
Thanks everyone for the tips. I have a follow-up appointment with my doctor next week, but I think I'll talk to the pharmacist today and see what they say about switching to taking it at night.
I recently started taking Lexapro for anxiety. My doctor started me off taking half of his prescribed dosage every morning just to get me adjusted. I was fine, no significant side effects. Now that I'm taking the full dosage, I am so drowsy in the morning. Will this side effect subside over time? Should I start taking it at night, even though my doctor said to take it in the morning? I can still function throughout the day (it's not like I can't keep my eyes open), but as someone who already lacks in energy, this feeling is definitely making my days tougher.
Our dog has been in heart failure for a few years now. She's on reduced fat Wellness Core. She also takes enalpril, pimobendan, and fuerosemide (spelling?) She does very well, though we know at this point every day is a little extra time with her. One thing we've been extra careful about is table scraps. Everyone wants to give her table scraps and we have to remind our family that she can't have anything. Our infant is particularly bad about throwing food so we try to separate them during meal times.
One thing that helped us was to get pill boxes and get a week's worth of meds ready. The white box is morning meds (which I do) and the green box is for evening pills (which my husband does.) In the beginning we messed up meds because there were constant communication issues. "Did you do them? Did we both do them? Which ones?" Our dog goes in every few months for a blood draw to check her organ function, as the medicine is really hard on kidneys.
I hope you can get more time with your pup. When our dog was diagnosed I was very very sad. I realize we have been very lucky to have her for so long.
foxmulder, it really is such a sad diagnosis to hear. How old is your dog? My eyes tear up every time I look at my pup, but this is still very new, so I'm just trying to process and get things in order for him. Our cardiologist started him on Pimobendan and so far he's doing really well on it. I was actually surprised to see that it gave him a lot of energy. Do you mind telling me where you get it filled? It's so expensive! He's also taking something for cough due to collapsed trachea and pulmonary bullae.
Regarding food, the cardiologist wants him to stay below 80mg, I checked into Wellness Core, but it wasn't low enough. I wish it was because before Merrick he was on Wellness Core and he really liked it. I need to check their Simple line though.
Thanks for the reminder about table scrapes, my husband (of all people) is notorious for that, he likes to make it into a game :/ so I'm having to constantly remind him. What do you give your dog for treats? I really like the idea of using a pill box. Right now I'm giving Riley all his meds, but I'm going to get pill boxes, so my husband can share that responsibility with me.
Sorry about your pups diagnosis. I don't have any experience but what about feeding raw? The chicken bites one says it's .3% Sodium. Not sure how that translates to mg.
gummy I haven't thought about going raw, but at this point I'll do whatever it takes to make sure he has a healthy diet (while still enjoying his food). I'm totally unfamiliar with it though. Do you cut out dry food completely? Does it make sense to feed raw with wet food?
I hope you can manage your pup's dietary needs. Check out solid gold (holistique blend is what we used) and pure vita brands. We had to find foods that were low low fat for our dog with high triglycerides.
Thanks for the recommendations, I'll give both brands a call.
My pup was recently diagnosed with being in low grade heart failure. We now have to completely overhaul his diet to everything low sodium. Typically we give him a mix and wet and dry food. I was able to find decent wet food that fits the 80mg max requirement, but I'm struggling with finding a dry food. Our vet gave us a list of approved foods, but said it's not all inclusive and I'm not happy with the options. Prior to his diagnosis, Riley was eating Merrick. I've called several brands (Merrick, Wellness Core, Canidae, Orijen...) but none are low enough in sodium. Anyone have their dog on a low sodium diet want to give me some advice?
Thanks for helping this sweet face out (sorry if it's huge)