Cheating is definitely a deal breaker. You are better than I am tho..... I would not leave. His stuff would be on the curb for him....most likely not in the same condition as it had been before he told me.
I'm so sorry. Although there might be a few scenarios that would make for exceptions, I think for the most part cheating would be a deal breaker for me. A betrayal of trust on that level is shattering to a relationship.
Post by Wrath0fKuus on Jul 10, 2013 14:04:30 GMT -5
I'm sure, even if I didn't leave immediately, that the resentment not only at the lack of trust but at my having to work hard to help repair something he singlehandedly broke, would end the marriage. Or it would get it to the point that it should end for the well being of everyone involved, even if it didn't. I suspect that this is secretly the case for 99.999% of the people who go through this.
Post by mellimel19 on Jul 10, 2013 14:30:49 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you're going through this. While I can't say for sure unless I was in the situation, I believe this would be a real deal breaker for me. Even if he was remorseful and I felt I could forgive him, I don't think I'd every fully be able to trust or respect him again, and I think that would eventually destroy the relationship.