I'm gonna leave this here

[kevin arnold]

Big hugs. You deserve to be happy and you don't have to live like this. (((Hugs)))

[BaliHai]

You're in the suburbs, right? Me too. You can PM me if you want; please do, if I can help you in any way. And you know the Philly crew has you.

You don't deserve this life. You really don't. Big hugs.

Eta- Eagles can vouch for me, and I her. We are not posting here wearing each other's skin.

[SpartanGirl]

You deserve better. You are worthwhile and you and do not deserve to be treated this way. (((HUGS)))

[claudiajean]

I'm so sorry.

[Eagles]

Oh, hon. You deserve better. You matter.

I'm not far from you. Do you want to meet for lunch one Sunday, just to get out and talk?

[scottyderp]

Leaving an extremely toxic situation isn't failure, it is survival. Anyone who would judge you is not worth your time. I would *never* judge a friend or family member in your situation for changing life paths. I mean that.

There's a different, safe, comfortable life waiting for you, beyond your fear and judgment of yourself. Hugs.

[dd1204]

I'm sorry.

You deserve much better. Take care of yourself and kids.

Please seek help and make a plan to leave. You don't have to do it right away but start making a plan.

[hopecounts]

You deserve so much better then this and so do your kids.
This environment isn't good for any of you.
When you are ready make a plan and get out, you can have an amazing life once you get rid of him.

[Eagles]

Also, if I can help with anything, just say the word. I'll come get you and drive you to a safe place. I'll help you find resources.

[aliciaflorrick]

You deserve a better life than this. I hope you know that. Hugs to you.

[MrsPenny]

Jesus, I am so sorry. Stay safe. Is there anyone local that can help you and the kids?

[pandora89]

I am so sorry. You don't deserve this, you deserve so much better. Please reach out for help, call a friend or one of the numbers posted. Please take care of yourself.

[sarahswim]

You deserve so much more than this. YOU are worth more than this. I'm so sorry you are in this situation.

[onetruething]

Jan 29, 2016 21:33:14 GMT -5 demofea01 said:

I want to come help you pack and drive away into the night with your kids, never to see that asshole again.

This. Are you in Massachusetts? You need to run not walk away from that asshole.

[Deleted]

I hope you can reach out to someone that could help you. I'm in upstate NY and you could stay with me if you want. You deserve to be treated better.

[okla]

Just caught up in the Trump post. I apologize for my part in the pile-on to you.

You mentioned not wanting to have two failed marriages in four years. I have been there. My first husband was an abusive asshole but I married him anyway. Finally got the balls to leave him about a year in to the marriage. About a two years later, I married the next guy I dated. That marriage lasted less than a year. Yes, I was mortified at the time but my happiness was/is ultimately more important, as is yours. Eight years later, the embarrassment has faded. It rarely comes up that I was married and divorced twice by 25 and when it does I'm able to laugh it off. It gets better.

I know coming from an abusive situation you may not feel like you deserve happiness or may think that you've made your bed and you have to lie in it. That isn't true. You deserve so much better and a better life is out there.

If you want to talk more, please PM me.

[chickadee77]

I saw your posts in the Trump thread, and I seriously want to hug you. I don't know where you are, but if you're local to me, I'm happy to help however I can.

Also, I understand self-medicating (numbing, hell let's call it like it is, and I do it, too, for other reasons), and it can serve a purpose, but be careful.

You deserve to be treated well, ESPECIALLY by your H. The person that is supposed to love you absolutely.

Just, (((hugs))).

[sugarbear]

I'm so, so sorry. You absolutely deserve better.

[jreeds]

Please, call someone. Tell someone. You deserve so much better than this.

[isabel]

You have limitless support here. Please use it and start working on an exit strategy. This is not living.

[panbitch]

Hugs. Please call someone you deserve so much more.

[10nille]

Jan 29, 2016 21:47:34 GMT -5 jreeds said:

Please, call someone. Tell someone. You deserve so much better than this.

As I was reading the replies this was what I wanted to say to you!

You'd be surprised once you tell your BFF what a relief it will be to get it out. Text her now! So, what if he reads it?

[sequins]

You deserve so much better. Are you local to anyone?

[MeMyselfandI]

I can only ditto the advice people are giving you. You are worth so much more. Please get the help you need and deserve. Hugs.

[sandyapples]

I'm so sorry you are in this situation. You are a good person and deserve better than this.

[panicfoot]

Oh my gosh, super. I hope there is someone IRL you can talk to. You deserve better. Your kids deserve better than seeing their dad be an asshole to their mom.

Please reach out.

[dianecourt]

I will do anything I can to help. I know I'm not local, but all you have to so is ask.

[knx9211]

This is absolutely heartbreaking. Please don't forget your worth. please call someone. Please.

[shopgirl07]

Please call the domestic violence hotline. They know what to do and can help you formulate a plan. If not tonight, please call tomorrow.

[rosiebear]

Oh my gosh, Super, I am just so sorry. Please believe in your own worth. Please take the help and support offered here. You deserve better, so much better. And it's there for you. You can do this.

Oh, and fuck him.