New Relationship....Advice. All signs say no!

[jojoandleo]

May 10, 2016 14:38:36 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

I once dated a guy who drunk peed on me. I was like 21. We are friends on fb and I always wonder if he pees on his girlfriends.

I once peed on a guy during sex when drunk. He thought I was squirting because he was just THAT GOOD in bed. Nope. I was drunk, had to pee, and his dick hit my bladder. It did squirt in an awkward way...

[jigsy]

One of my greatest fears in life is peeing the bed while staying over at someones place. Like, I have to pee immediately before sleeping, otherwise I lay there, thinking that I am going to do it, so I end up getting up anyways. I haven't peed the bed since I was a kid, so I don't know why this is one of those things...but I just know, the day it happens is the day I have to fake my own death.

[doglove]

I'm dead, I just died. ahahaha

[Mrs.Rad888]

All this talk of peeing! I woke up this morning feeling like I have a UTI. Of course, it's right before the annual family trip to Disneyland. This year is the 4th year for us, and I've had a UTI for 2 of them. Off to Urgent Care for me!

[Deleted]

'll just leave this hurrr

[sweetchix]

OMG!! I love you all! I am dead.

[jojoandleo]

@lemonlover-that is the best thing I have seen all day.

mp's bingo was the best thing all day yesterday, and probably best thing of the week. Probably month. Possibly year. How terrible of a person does that make me? Scale of one to Trump?

[doriswe]

May 11, 2016 11:32:22 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

@lemonlover -that is the best thing I have seen all day.

mp 's bingo was the best thing all day yesterday, and probably best thing of the week. Probably month. Possibly year. How terrible of a person does that make me? Scale of one to Trump?

Wherever you end up on that scale, I'll be sitting right next to you!

I'm really impressed that mp was able to get that together as fast as she did!!

[sweetchix]

May 11, 2016 11:45:17 GMT -5 doriswe said:

May 11, 2016 11:32:22 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

@lemonlover -that is the best thing I have seen all day.

mp 's bingo was the best thing all day yesterday, and probably best thing of the week. Probably month. Possibly year. How terrible of a person does that make me? Scale of one to Trump?

Wherever you end up on that scale, I'll be sitting right next to you!

I'd say we ALL are!

[stephreloaded]

This thread is the best thing in a very long time!

[bluejen22]

I just wanted to do a follow up post here. We are still together; it's been over 5 months. He has cut back on the drinking. No more accidents. he's been great. I know all signs should have told me no in the beginning, but he's doing great and I think he just needed someone to believe in him. He has gotten health insurance, dental insurance, 401k, we see his son every weekend and he stays over at my (our) house.

[Deleted]

Sept 7, 2016 12:28:47 GMT -5 mp said:

yesss, my favorite thread!

I'm going to sit next to you here. Let's be horrible people together! 


Jen, when you say "stays over" I'm going to assume he moved in.

[doriswe]

I thought one of you assholes dug this up to reply but it's an update....a real life update!!!!!!

Best.day.ever!

[doriswe]

Wait...he's got 3 kids and he's only seeing 1? Fantastic!

I do love that believing in him was the magic wand to cure him of all of his asshattery! Fuck, think of how amazing I'd be if someone just believed in me!!

[bluejen22]

The 2 girls live in florida with their mother. He saw them the end of May.

[doriswe]

Sept 7, 2016 12:42:31 GMT -5 mp said:

Whenever I wonder why people like bluejen22 have a boyfriend and I don't - I remember. I could totes have the catch of a guy that pees himself, too!

[doriswe]

Not gonna lie, I want to be bluejen22's FB friend so I could watch this play out...cuz you know it's all out there!

[doriswe]

Sept 7, 2016 12:47:20 GMT -5 mp said:

Sadly it's not on IG (sorry girl, stalking is easy when your usernames are the same).

I'm going to say, it was much too easy to find your IG and FB....please change your user names and lock your stuff down. For realz.

[sweetchix]

I was all ready to question why there are TWO posters with bfs who pee the bed, and who puts up with that, and be all "deja vu". But alas, it is not. But strong work on the follow up relies mp and doriswe.

[doglove]

Sept 7, 2016 12:42:31 GMT -5 mp said:

Whenever I wonder why people like bluejen22 have a boyfriend and I don't - I remember. I could totes have the catch of a guy that pees himself, too!

And someone who needs a hero to believe in him! 

[doglove]

Sept 7, 2016 12:47:20 GMT -5 mp said:

Sadly it's not on IG (sorry girl, stalking is easy when your usernames are the same).

omg I really thought this was MUD until I just googled.. wtf. 

[jojoandleo]

Sept 7, 2016 12:28:47 GMT -5 mp said:

yesss, my favorite thread!

Was "he just needed someone to believe in him" on the bingo card? Asking for a friend...

[jojoandleo]

In all honesty, I am glad he is doing well. As the daughter of an alcoholic, LOL if you think this is the end and he "just needed someone to believe in him." As a human being with logic, you should still GTFO. There is a REASON AA tells people no relationships for a year. You are doing a disservice to him and you. Not that you care.

[pinkdutchtulips]

just catching up ... if he 'needed someone to believe in him' for recovery to stick ... RUN RUN RUN as fast as you can away. i say this from experience. he's not owning up or taking responsibility for his recovery, he's making it your responsibility instead so when it all comes crashing down (hint - it will) he can blame you.

recovery is a trigger word for me that makes me RUN the other direction. xh was in recovery when we met and i gave him the benefit of the doubt and ignored that little voice in my head that said RUN after our first argument. 12 years later and a drug relapse later, i left. for good.

[pinkdutchtulips]

Sept 7, 2016 21:22:44 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

What recovery? She didn't say he quit. He "cut back"?

I misread ... Opps #readingcompfail

[jojoandleo]

Sept 7, 2016 21:22:44 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

What recovery? She didn't say he quit. He "cut back"?

Which is going to TOTALLY work out JUST FINE for a man who regularly drank so much he passed out and peed the bed. No need for rehab, AA, or to stop drinking when he has SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES IN HIM! 

[doriswe]

Sept 8, 2016 12:38:38 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Sept 7, 2016 21:22:44 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

What recovery? She didn't say he quit. He "cut back"?

Which is going to TOTALLY work out JUST FINE for a man who regularly drank so much he passed out and peed the bed. No need for rehab, AA, or to stop drinking when he has SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES IN HIM! 

ETA:

[doriswe]

Not gonna lie, I never want this thread to die. Like ever!

[402omaha]

Sept 7, 2016 12:44:06 GMT -5 bluejen22 said:

The 2 girls live in florida with their mother. He saw them the end of May.

Hello Jenny. Forgive my post as it may seem unrelated. I just want you to know that I sent you a mail some few days ago. My email is from AOL. I'll resend again, perhaps multiple times so that you can notice it. I'd love to hear from you. Many thanks.

[stephreloaded]

Sometimes I wonder if she is just playing with us. Is she really that smart?

So he moved in with you? Even harder to get rid of him now.