Sorry, I didn't mean to imply he was cheating and the OW planted them. Anyone could have in an effort to start trouble or for a million other reasons. Anyone with access that is. I agree with the suggestions to let it go at this time.
I can think of a few people I know who would think this was "funny." As a matter of fact, two of my friends' husband come to mind. "Dude, you know what would be funny. Let's put a pair of panties in husband's bathroom and see what his wife does." Yeah, fucking hilarious, douche.
I once had someone send me an ecard from here because they thought it would be funny.
I know this is not a funny matter but some of the things said in this thread are gold. First, NB's description of her husband and what he said to that girl. Second, NQB mentioning using old clothes as rags. I do that all the time with t-shirts and stuff, but now I can't stop LOLing thinking about using my old granny panties to wipe down the kitchen counters.
My mom used to use old cloth diapers - when my brother was old enough to not need them. Which is kind of weird to think about now, but man, those suckers were soft and absorbent.
Post by basilosaurus on Sept 10, 2012 16:55:48 GMT -5
Now that this has moved into anecdotes...
When I moved to Hawaii, I unpacked my suitcases and found a pair of underwear, with tags on, not in my size or style. H was still living on the other side of the world. I still have no idea how that happened, although I suspect the mixup was while staying at a friend's house en route.
save the chonies for DNA, if it comes up, on a later date.
Totally kidding. I wouldn't snoop any further. You put yourself in a predicament where you can create something that isn't really there. Like the "sluttly top for MIL" thing. Just let it ride.
And I was going to post this earlier, but I'll just piggy back on Nitaw's post... if I found undies at our house that weren't mine, I wouldn't even think my husband is cheating. That could make me naive, but I'm okay with that and y'all can feel free to remind me of this if I ever come here and announce my husband is cheating on me. However, I would be really hurt and angry if my husband thought I was cheating based on the same thing, so I assume my husband would feel the same way and I 100% trust he isn't out on the prowl. Maybe I'm the fool, but that's something I'll have to live with.
Short version: TEAM NITAW.
Me either. Dh is def too lazy for this ish. But, def glad you asked and discussed it like grown ups.
I wonder if they got stuck in someone's pants (static) and worked their way out? I had that happen to me at school. They fell out on the floor and I was mortified.
I know this is not a funny matter but some of the things said in this thread are gold. First, NB's description of her husband and what he said to that girl. Second, NQB mentioning using old clothes as rags. I do that all the time with t-shirts and stuff, but now I can't stop LOLing thinking about using my old granny panties to wipe down the kitchen counters.
My mom used to use old cloth diapers - when my brother was old enough to not need them. Which is kind of weird to think about now, but man, those suckers were soft and absorbent.
Confession: I do this. Actually, those little orange edge newborn dipes are so soft and perfect for wiping messy faces. Probably kind of +o( if you think about it, but those suckers got washed and bleached after they retired from the butt.