When are you moving in with your parents? I'm sorry there are so many shitty things happening to you.
I have to be out of this house the first week of July. I'll start moving things into storage and their house next week. I told him to find somewhere else to stay because he's not welcome here.
Post by textbookcase on May 27, 2016 10:48:05 GMT -5
And another also, one of the women he is sexting is someone we both know, a family friend who is around at every holiday and birthday and I had no idea. Of course this is him being a douche but man I don't know how that wench can act normal around me when she has been talking to him like that. Crazy cakes.
Post by textbookcase on May 27, 2016 10:45:30 GMT -5
Also I was going to dd this but now I'm not because I don't really give a fuck if anyone finds this. They deserve to know what a vile shit pig he is. He has a lot of people fooled.
Post by textbookcase on May 27, 2016 10:05:41 GMT -5
Thanks everyone. I really do appreciate the support. I know he's a fucking scumbag and I know my girls and I deserve a better life than letting him treat me like this. Thanks for letting me vent.
Post by textbookcase on May 26, 2016 21:38:38 GMT -5
Thanks, everyone. I am kind of numb even though it's not super shocking to me, coming from him. It was just so much more far-reaching than I could have imagined. Also thank GOD we don't have a sexual relationship and I was tested a few months ago. Gross.
Post by textbookcase on May 26, 2016 21:32:36 GMT -5
And, like, not just a little bit of stuff. He left his phone here while he was at anger management (dear god what is my life) and I looked at it. He is super shady about his phone, he's on it all the time and I didn't have any kind of access or know his password or anything. Anyway, he left it and I was curious and I guessed his password and got it right. Guys, like...I don't even know what to say. Text messages (sexts) to at least 4 different women I know he knows in person on the regular. Texts to random people from craigslist in the hundreds. He had kik installed on his phone with hundreds more messages in there. Texts about meeting up with hookers "I have $60 and I'll be there in 15 minutes". He is usually gone on weekend nights with his "friends" but I guess he's been doing lord knows what with who the fuck knows. I confronted him and of course he admitted to the messages but claims "nothing physical ever happened" yeah right, I'm sure. He then had the audacity to turn it around on me because we don't have a sexual relationship because I DON'T KNOW, HE'S BEEN AN ABUSIVE DOUCHE FOR 10 YEARS.
So yeah that's my life. And yes of course this is the final straw.
Post by textbookcase on May 25, 2016 21:28:19 GMT -5
I got a few Amazon gift cards for my birthday and want to get some new books. What have you read recently that you loved? I like to read most genres. Thanks!
Post by textbookcase on May 24, 2016 13:37:40 GMT -5
Ughhh we JUST ended soccer and the day after it ended I started getting emails to sign up for the fall season. And today is swim team sign ups, which I tried to get out of to no avail.
Dear god no. Who wants to live next door to their family?
Well, OP apparently prefers to live *with* hers vs renting for a year and shortening her DH's commute time.
I mean, staying with them for a month or two until something is available isn't ideal but we would rather do that than move an hour away to another state, removing my kids from their schools and clubs and support system. I actually brought up moving there to him, although I would rather stay here, but he was pretty adamant about wanting to stay in our town.
They're buying it to live in, the same family is buying up the whole block. Every time a house in the neighborhood is up for sale they jump on it and buy. Literally the day it went on the market I walked into the backyard and the lady who is buying it was IN THE YARD asking to come in to look at it.
Wtf why are they buying the whole block? Like they're a large family and want to live next to each other?
Yes it's so weird! It's like a multi generation family and extended family, some of them live directly behind us. The house across the street from us sold last year and it was someone from that house. Now someone else from their family is buying this house. They're just buying up the whole block.
You might have to suck it up and live where he works.
Yeah we have talked about it but we aren't willing to move that way. We will stay w my parents until something is available here, its not ideal but something will come eventually. I'm just venting!