This guy is 50 and is talking like this? If he was 25 I would chalk it up to youth, but clearly this guy IS A LOSER! Get rid of him pronto. And yeah...men around 50 have tendencies towards ED (not all of them, but a lot do) so if you really choose to stay with this guy, I think turnabout is fair play: shame him for his ED.
ETA: not that you should stay with him just to shame him, but seriously...ditch the dude.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I'm not trying to make light about anyone's issues but I was totally reading ED as eating disorder and was thinking way too long about cleo's comment saying that's why he likes giving oral, lol.
I'm not trying to make light about anyone's issues but I was totally reading ED as eating disorder and was thinking way too long about cleo's comment saying that's why he likes giving oral, lol.
Back to g-spot driven orgasms, is squirting always involved?
So, I almost felt like I should have included that warning on the no. 8 I recommended but....if you buy it, use a towel. Using it was the first and is the only time that's on the table for me.
I'm not trying to make light about anyone's issues but I was totally reading ED as eating disorder and was thinking way too long about cleo's comment saying that's why he likes giving oral, lol.
i admit I did too and quickly realized we were talking about sex. but this is killing. LOL
For anyone interested, Call Her Daddy is a podcast I've been listening to off and on. It's two women talking about sex. They're pretty crude but very open and tell it like it is, both for their male listeners and female listeners.
More people, especially those having sex with each other, should be open to, not just discussing sex but also not judging others' preferences. My philosophy is that long as everyone is of legal age and consenting, to each their own, get after it.
For anyone interested, Call Her Daddy is a podcast I've been listening to off and on. It's two women talking about sex. They're pretty crude but very open and tell it like it is, both for their male listeners and female listeners.
More people, especially those having sex with each other, should be open to, not just discussing sex but also not judging others' preferences. My philosophy is that long as everyone is of legal age and consenting, to each their own, get after it.
It's devastating to be mocked in the middle while naked and vulnerable
For anyone interested, Call Her Daddy is a podcast I've been listening to off and on. It's two women talking about sex. They're pretty crude but very open and tell it like it is, both for their male listeners and female listeners.
More people, especially those having sex with each other, should be open to, not just discussing sex but also not judging others' preferences. My philosophy is that long as everyone is of legal age and consenting, to each their own, get after it.
It's devastating to be mocked in the middle while naked and vulnerable
Please get rid of this guy today. He’s not worth another minute of your time or heart
For anyone interested, Call Her Daddy is a podcast I've been listening to off and on. It's two women talking about sex. They're pretty crude but very open and tell it like it is, both for their male listeners and female listeners.
More people, especially those having sex with each other, should be open to, not just discussing sex but also not judging others' preferences. My philosophy is that long as everyone is of legal age and consenting, to each their own, get after it.
It's devastating to be mocked in the middle while naked and vulnerable
Not to sound dramatic but that is a form of abuse. Drop this guy and find someone worthy of you. The 'good' qualities you mentioned he has don't outweigh this type of immature and damaging behavior. I'm single and just turned 43, so I'm in a similar boat as you as far as dating and age. There are plenty of men out there that will offer respect and openness both in and out of the bedroom.
I almost don't know what to say. It is so ridiculous that it is laughable. I mean, has he ever really had sex with women? If so, I feel bad for all of them, as he's an idiot.
I almost don't know what to say. It is so ridiculous that it is laughable. I mean, has he ever really had sex with women? If so, I feel bad for all of them, as he's an idiot.
Yes.
Funny story. Hooking up Sunday morning. MSNBC was on. Maxine waters came on. I lost it. Lost my concentration. He got so mad. I started laughing it off. He told me it wasn't funny
I almost don't know what to say. It is so ridiculous that it is laughable. I mean, has he ever really had sex with women? If so, I feel bad for all of them, as he's an idiot.
Yes.
Funny story. Hooking up Sunday morning. MSNBC was on. Maxine waters came on. I lost it. Lost my concentration. He got so mad. I started laughing it off. He told me it wasn't funny
Funny story. Hooking up Sunday morning. MSNBC was on. Maxine waters came on. I lost it. Lost my concentration. He got so mad. I started laughing it off. He told me it wasn't funny
Is this the same guy you were with several years ago, living with you for free, with guns under your bed?
I hope you’re in therapy...
No that ended in 2014 or 2015. Its been 4 or 5 years since then
I'm not trying to make light about anyone's issues but I was totally reading ED as eating disorder and was thinking way too long about cleo's comment saying that's why he likes giving oral, lol.
I know it's really easy as someone on the other side of the computer screen who doesn't know you to say this, but.
DUDE! What that actual FUCK???
This guy has serious issues. The first time he swatted my hand away, I would have left his bed and his place so fast you would have thought it was on fire.
I mean, I'm no dynamo in the sack and I wouldn't say I've ever had toe curling sex myself, but this guy's behavior has warning bells going off in my head.
This is beyond sex, his behavior is really troubling.
Back to g-spot driven orgasms, is squirting always involved?
No, I don't squirt.
I have g-spot Os mostly when I'm on top, but sometimes when H is on top/missionary, he hits it right and it happens. I think it's a combo of g-spot/clit stimulation (his pubic bone is in the right spot), so sometimes we get lucky, haha.
From his perspective, he thinks I'm not trusting him enough to let myself go. In too rushed to have the orgasm. But I get scared it won't work.
How often do you all orgasm without your own intervention or assistance?
I generally do through oral and then sex after I will again, without any assistance. And if you don't let a lot of lag time between, things are really heightened and sensitive there.
But, if it was straight sex, it would take a lot of concentration on my part and thus does not always happen, or I would need help.
From his perspective, he thinks I'm not trusting him enough to let myself go. In too rushed to have the orgasm. But I get scared it won't work.
How often do you all orgasm without your own intervention or assistance?
I generally do through oral and then sex after I will again, without any assistance. And if you don't let a lot of lag time between, things are really heightened and sensitive there.
But, if it was straight sex, it would take a lot of concentration on my part and thus does not always happen, or I would need help.
So straight vaginal only? No clitoral stimulation? I feel broken. It's never happened for me
I generally do through oral and then sex after I will again, without any assistance. And if you don't let a lot of lag time between, things are really heightened and sensitive there.
But, if it was straight sex, it would take a lot of concentration on my part and thus does not always happen, or I would need help.
So straight vaginal only? No clitoral stimulation? I feel broken. It's never happened for me
No. once oral is done, the clitoris is really sensitive, so if I can move right I can get another that way while doing PnV.
I have come close with just vaginal, but that is harder for me to let go because it feels like I am going to pee myself. lol
From his perspective, he thinks I'm not trusting him enough to let myself go. In too rushed to have the orgasm. But I get scared it won't work.
How often do you all orgasm without your own intervention or assistance?
Given what you've said about him, I wouldn't trust him either.
I've never needed to "assist" or intervene, but DH is really....determined.
You're not broken. DH and I have only ever been with each other and we've been married for 16 years. While I never would have said our sex life was bad, it took us several years before we really learned and grew as sexual partners. While I can't say I have experience from multiple partners, I do know one thing that has helped us is having the other person's pleasure as a goal.
This guy isn't trying to help you orgasm for your pleasure; he's seeing it as a reflection of himself.
Given what you've said about him, I wouldn't trust him either.
I've never needed to "assist" or intervene, but DH is really....determined.
You're not broken. DH and I have only ever been with each other and we've been married for 16 years. While I never would have said our sex life was bad, it took us several years before we really learned and grew as sexual partners. While I can't say I have experience from multiple partners, I do know one thing that has helped us is having the other person's pleasure as a goal.
This guy isn't trying to help you orgasm for your pleasure; he's seeing it as a reflection of himself.
It’s not just about determination, though, some of us physically can’t without help. That makes it sound like if the guy is determined enough it will happen. I orgasm through oral or with vibrators, no amount of determined penetration will do it.
Sorry, I didn't mean it like that. I'm not used to sharing details.
I wasn't referring to just penetration, either. That rarely does it alone. What I meant, and should have said clearer, was that DH is able to get me there without my intervention.
Come on now. I feel for you and these guys are assholes, but sexual orientation is not a choice. Kind of offensive to joke about.
As I get older I'm much more attracted to women than men. Or I just find more women better looking than men.
Nothing wrong with that. Sexual orientation can be a continuum/spectrum and people can explore different aspects of their sexuality throughout life. Celibacy is a perfectly valid choice. You can choose what proclivities you want to act upon and with whom.
But the old, men suck so i'm gonna become a lesbian is tired and offensive. It suggests being a lesbian is something you can just decide to do, and plays into the stereotype of lesbians as man-haters.