As I get older I'm much more attracted to women than men. Or I just find more women better looking than men.
Nothing wrong with that. Sexual orientation can be a continuum/spectrum and people can explore different aspects of their sexuality throughout life. Celibacy is a perfectly valid choice. You can choose what proclivities you want to act upon and with whom.
But the old, men suck so i'm gonna become a lesbian is tired and offensive. It suggests being a lesbian is something you can just decide to do, and plays into the stereotype of lesbians as man-haters.
I'm not trying to flame. Just pointing out.
ETA: it's also the only meaningful contribution I can make to this thread because I'm in no position to hand out sex advice.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Sorry for the thread jack. I assure you I'm real and all of what I wrote is real. This person has kept me distracted for 3 months since my dog died in March 9. I met him in Feb. I'm scared to let go and feel the pain. I miss my ex husband very much. I can be happy alone but this is the first time in 14 years without a dog. And I have no kids either. I feel attractive but men dont seem to be attracted to me. Letting go probably means another few years alone again. Which nothing wrong with. Just feel lonely sometimes.
Sorry for the thread jack. I assure you I'm real and all of what I wrote is real. This person has kept me distracted for 3 months since my dog died in March 9. I met him in Feb. I'm scared to let go and feel the pain. I miss my ex husband very much. I can be happy alone but this is the first time in 14 years without a dog. And I have no kids either. I feel attractive but men dont seem to be attracted to me. Letting go probably means another few years alone again. Which nothing wrong with. Just feel lonely sometimes.
How long have you been divorced? You mention at least 3 boyfriends here and at some point having a lot of sex. I think spending some time alone and in therapy would be a good thing.
7 years. 4 boyfriends. I wouldn't call 3 month relationship boyfriends though. So 2 boyfriends in 7 years and not since 2014. So better part of 5 years alone