Post by caffeinebean on Jan 31, 2013 18:06:29 GMT -5
Seriously, I have no idea WTF is up with this guy.
I've had to call him a few times to get a christmas ornament that my parents lent us a few years ago (the first ornament they bought after they were married, it really means a lot to my mom) but he wouldn't answer the phone or he would ignore my calls. I received a call from animal welfare letting me know that our cat (which he kept) needed her tags updated. I called, he ignored, and I left him a message letting him know what was going on. A few days later he called me 12 times and when I answered he yelled at me for ignoring him. I wasn't ignoring him, I was at work. But whatever, I had to 'transfer' the cat into his name.
Well, I was at the store the other day picking a few things up and he saw me and chased me down in the parking lot. He started going off on me for cheating on him with the guy that I'm seeing now. I don't know how I could've cheated on him with this guy, I didn't meet him until the week before christmas. He told me that I was only dating him because he was a marine and I was after his benefits and going on about what a horrible person I am and how I ruined his life. I have no idea how he even knows that I'm dating someone, let alone what he does for a living. It's unsettling.
My friend who works there noticed what was going on and threatened to call the cops on him if he didn't leave immediately.
The next day I was having lunch with a friend and she told me that exFI spilled to her husband that he had started seeing his current girlfriend before we had broken up. And that she's pregnant now. So now he's saddled with the house, a three year old, a crazy girlfriend, and a baby on the way.
I mean, who does shit like this? How did I not see the crazy before?
Post by caffeinebean on Dec 11, 2012 18:27:31 GMT -5
I haven't been around nearly as much as I would like, and when I am I'm just being a lurky loo. I've been insanely busy between school and work (retail during the holidays makes me want to cry).
I ended up having to see exFI the other day. He had a christmas tree topper that is really important to my parents that they lent us for our first christmas together and I had to go pick it up. We ended up talking for a while, and it was good. Exactly the closure I needed.
He came clean about the whole 'job/breakup' issue. It wasn't that I didn't have a job, it was just that he had fallen out of love with me. I told him that I would've preferred he told me that in the first place, but that I appreciated his honesty. I told him that the relationship was good for me, and that I was much happier and healthier now, and I hoped the same was true for him.
He's dating a girl that has been in love with him since highschool and he seems happy, which is nice. I've decided to take a break from the whole dating thing and just focus on me, and that's going really well. I've started eating again and working out and I'm feeling better than I have in years. I look awesome, I feel awesome, and life is just pretty damn great right now. I'm keeping busy and spending a lot of time with friends, new and old.
And that's a lot longer than I wanted it to be. But I always want to thank you ladies for helping me through this. It was hard and I would've gotten through it either way, but knowing that I could vent and cry here and that you guys would listen made the whole thing seem so much easier :heart:
Post by caffeinebean on Nov 21, 2012 14:58:04 GMT -5
I saw her live about two months ago. She's an incredible performer. The set was amazing and she was all over the stage. And she sounds exactly the same live.
I align most perfectly with his principles and platform. As a social liberal, I can't vote for Romney, but as a fiscal conservative/libertarian at heart, I can't vote for Obama.
Post by caffeinebean on Nov 5, 2012 13:09:21 GMT -5
I have him totally blocked on facebook. He's just such a twat.
He has a privacy feature on FB that lets him know if someone tries to log into his account. he probably just logged in from another device and got the alert. Ug, he's such a douche!
Post by caffeinebean on Nov 5, 2012 12:42:17 GMT -5
He accused me of trying to log into his facebook account. He was yelling and totally flipping out.
I have no idea where he came up with this shit, but I did not try to log into his facebook. I've never had the password and I don't understand why he thinks I would do something like that.
He called me a psycho bitch and I fucking lost it on him. I told him he was an asshole and a selfish piece of shit.
Oh! What about a chinchilla? Also adorable, and sooooo soft.
Chinchilla's are adorable, but they don't make great pets. You can't hold them very often because their coats get greasy so easily and they need constant dust baths.
Post by caffeinebean on Nov 3, 2012 16:02:53 GMT -5
I went to a friends birthday party last night and this morning I feel like someone drove a spike through my skull. I haven't drank that much in a really long time. I also slept til 1:00.
I have dinner plans with my parents and then I'm supposed to go out for drinks with a friend. I think I may bail on drinks and watch Netflix in bed instead.
Post by caffeinebean on Oct 28, 2012 12:38:13 GMT -5
I went out with a friend I hadn't seen in forever last night. We had an awesome time and I met some really cool people. This morning, however, I feel like my face has been run over by a semi truck and something died in my mouth. All I want to do is lay in bed but I already committed to a work out with my dad, football at my aunts, and then pumpkin carving with my goddaughter.
I lost 20 lbs (which I did not need to lose) when I broke up with my EX-FI. Even if you feel fine, it isn't an easy time. You're probably going to feel hungry again in a few weeks.
Yeah. I'll also try the potato's. I've pretty much been living on water and soup. And at this point I never want to see another can of soup again, but it's really the only thing I can stomach.
i can't remember, are you talking to anyone about all of this? *hugs* caffeine..
Not really. I don't really have anything to say about it that hasn't already been said.
I'm actually feeling really good. I'm seeing my friends more and going out and doing things and keeping busy with school. And I just got a job, which is pretty cool.