OMG don't nit pick and dissect her verbage. My old minivan was in my hubbys name but I drove it. Technically it was "his" but he never drove it. He would refer to it as my car.
I think you guys are overthinking.
However, don't report it stolen. I think you said you wouldn't which is good.
Oh I wasn't trying to nitpick. I genuinely did not see where she said the truck was in her name. But that still doesn't make it stolen. That's all I was trying to say.
Um, maybe it is different were OP lives, but that is exactly what it was when my idiot brother took my parents' car without permission. They knew he had it. He didn't have permission. The cops treated it like a stolen vehicle. Clearly not in brother's name. My parents knew where it was. Walla. Stolen vehicle.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
Jesus. Some fucking nerve to cheat on you AND worry you to death all night. Fuck him.
I'm so sorry.
While he's all "I'm hanging with my poor friend whose wife is dead." OMG there's a special place in hell waiting for him. OP it sounds like you're keeping your wits about you, which is a good thing. You deserve better.
Jesus. Some fucking nerve to cheat on you AND worry you to death all night. Fuck him.
I'm so sorry.
While he's all "I'm hanging with my poor friend whose wife is dead." OMG there's a special place in hell waiting for him. OP it sounds like you're keeping your wits about you, which is a good thing. You deserve better.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
Um, maybe it is different were OP lives, but that is exactly what it was when my idiot brother took my parents' car without permission. They knew he had it. He didn't have permission. The cops treated it like a stolen vehicle. Clearly not in brother's name. My parents knew where it was. Walla. Stolen vehicle.
Yes, but children do not have joint property with their parents. If he took it without permission he is technically stealing. This is spouses, they have joint property. If he took the truck without permission, well it is 50% his so not stolen. Children/parents and spouses are totally different scenarios.
And follow through on the threat to report the truck stolen. No mercy.
No. Filing a false police report is NEVER a good idea, people.
Go ahead and get revenge in other ways that are less likely to backfire on you colossally.
I'm not saying do, I'm not saying don't. But if it's her name on the title and registration and she asked for it back and he didn't give it back, it's stolen. No?
Post by sherbanator on Dec 5, 2014 12:34:00 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I went through something similar except I wish I had done what you did and actually went to where he was at to see for myself instead of crying at home.
Instead I let myself waffle and get talked into thinking that he didn't actually cheat, he just had an "inappropriate relationship" with his coworker. Now over a year later I am so much worse off emotionally and mentally then if I had just stayed strong and got him out of my life back then.
I think you are great and this guy is an idiot. PM me if you ever want moral support from a person that made bad decisions when it came to this situation and is still suffering for it.
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. He is terrible for doing this to you and you deserve so much better. ::big hugs:: I know I said the same thing in my FB message but if you need to talk, I am here. Let us know if there is anything we can do, even if it is just listening to you working through this.
I'm so so sorry ooglie. You deserve so, so much better than this. Be gentle to yourself, and surround yourself with people who love and support you. **hugs))