I don't know how much it would help, but I'll throw it out there. What about an Amazon wishlist of things she needs, they have some food section of I'm not mistaken. If not what kind of grocery stores are around? Can we help at all by buying a GC? Anything? A cleaning service so that she won't have o worry about the house cleaning? Hiring an ML hit woman explain to him that spending time with your DAUGHTER and family is not a lose-lose & others help burying it?
vicky — that's be amazing if her husband doesn't give her the car, that you have one in NYC for her.
@prof--- you won't want your son to grown up learning how to treat women like that. Lucy and yourself deserve way better than the half-assed useless dad and husband who is driving his marriage and relationship with his kids into the ground at a high speed.
Post by riverrider on Apr 17, 2016 23:53:12 GMT -5
@prof--- you won't want your son to grown up learning how to treat women like that. Lucy and yourself deserve way better than the half-assed useless dad and husband who is driving his marriage and relationship with his kids into the ground at a high speed. [/quote]
I left my exH far too late. My son who was 11 when I kicked my ex out, has had to change alot of his thinking. I didn't realize that he was treating me that way until my boyfriend pointed it out to me after we moved in together. He said one day that Tyson, my son, was treating me the same way he had seen his dad treat me. It was an eye opener that made me realize I should have left a long time ago.
I had stuck around for T but in my eyes it did more harm than good.
Hugs to you and your kids. I know I'm a mostly lurker but PM me if you ever need to chat or vent. I didn't have anyone to talk to about any of this and would have loved to have a support system.
I am sorry I am late, but I just want to give you a big hug. I will also say what others have said and tell you that it is better to leave than to stay in a toxic relationship, both for your kids and yourself. I know your history with your H is long and it must be daunting to contemplate how you go about separating the two, but I know you can do it. You deserve so much more than you are getting and you know that is doubly true when it comes to Miss L.
Whatever you need, I am happy to help. Please do not hesitate to ask. Whether it is moving, furniture, even just coming up for the day, I will be happy to be there.