I'm sorry that someone said that to you, and hope that you will soon see (& believe) that this comment is a direct reflection of the person who said it. This is THEIR problem, not yours.
But, for now, huge hugs. No matter how much you KNOW it's not the truth, it still has to really hurt to hear.
I'm so sorry. Even if you know, which I hope that you do, that those were just cruel words to hurt you and absolutely false, they've still got to hurt. I'm so, so sorry.
First of all, hugs. And of course I'd be an alibi.
Second of all, who is the a-hole who said this to you? BC he (I'm guessing a he) is a POS and it so obviously not true. You're a wonderful mother to your girls and your love for them has always been so apparent.
Who the fuck had the nerve to say that to you??? All anyone has to do is talk to you for two minutes to see how much you love those girls and how you will do anything for them
And honestly, I think that's one of the worst things DH could ever say to me. Tell me I'm ugly or fat or a shitty wife or a bitch, but don't talk shit about me as a mother. He's an absolute piece of shit puddle and doesn't deserve you.
I initially assumed it was your kid who said that but the other people seem to assume otherwise so I'll WTF along with everyone else. I'm sorry, you are great.
Post by puddleofgrace on Aug 31, 2016 9:36:20 GMT -5
Yeah, it was my H.
He's beyond pissed about the lice situation and is blaming me. We spent a shit ton of money last night on removal and daycare found more on her. He lost his shit on me on how could I not have known and I need to wake the fuck up and start taking better care of the kids and our house, etc etc. It just went on and on.
Listen, I get that sometimes people say things they don't mean. And I might take into account some level of extenuating circumstances if my husband were deeply anxious or depressed. But in reality, I would seriously contemplate divorcing over this.
At a minimum, I would tell my husband we needed counseling and get him there ASAP. I would likely tell him to go stay with someone else for a week while he thought about his actions and then we could regroup at the counselor's office.
What a fucking piece of shit asshole. Please remove yourself from this situation and leave him to tend to alllllllll that on his own 50% of the time. Please.
He needs to go sat down before we all get together and make him. None of this is your fault, you are NOT a shit Mom and since when he caring for the kids/house/etc only your responsibility? FUCK THAT.